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HOUSE TOUR: Hilarious couple's 200-year-old DC home

Gizmo

3 years ago

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IdaClaire

3 years ago

It's apparent that they are educated, well traveled, interesting, passionate and productive, and their home beautifully reflects that. I find them refreshing and I find absolutely nothing to fault! ❤

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Marylee H
3 years ago
What a wonderful home and such a lovely couple! 🌈
arcy_gw
3 years ago
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They certainly like pictures of themselves. Clutter central. A life full of STUFF or the STUFF of a lifetime. Claustrophobic comes to mind. Makes me feel great about my home and what some would call clutter LOL To each their own!!!
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Preslie Cott
3 years ago
I could happily spend a month there poking around, seeing all their great objects and listening to the stories those two lively men would recount about them. Sounds like they’ve had amazing lives filled with adventure and fun.
ericalynn523
3 years ago
I love them. I love how they have stories for everything and all their “clutter” means something to them. Everyone has different tastes and ways they live so there is no point in disparaging them for that. I would love to be invited to dinner at their house!!
Marylee H
3 years ago
Can you imagine how fun a dinner party there would be? Loads of great chat!
Michele
3 years ago
I love it. Not a boring blob of grey on grey.
rubyclaire
3 years ago
Utterly charming - the owners and their very personal home! Like other posters, I would love to be a guest for cocktails or dinner. I imagine it would be great fun.

Decorating style? "We don't decorate". Perfect.
graywings123
3 years ago
That was delightful. Add me to the dinner party list, please.
OutsidePlaying
3 years ago
Such an interesting home with a lot of interesting items. Yes, it would be great fun hearing about all the other little gems in there.
Jilly
3 years ago
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What a fun watch, thank you. I love them (and their enchanting home). :)
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maire_cate
3 years ago
What a fun clip. Thanks for posting it.

However I'm afraid my living room is a Massachusetts room - uptight furniture..... luckily we just walk through it to get to the comfortable stuff elsewhere.
aprilneverends
3 years ago
what.a. cool. video. Enjoyed it tremendously. They've really created a home as fun and unforgettable as they are themselves. And they are hilarious and seem to be very warm, genuine people, -so the house picks it up from them-this "no pretense", warm, charming vibe. Great example of maximalism where everything has a story and meaning.

They're upper class people, obviously-but the best of the kind..most would feel comfortable in their company, I think. And in their house.
Bluebell66
3 years ago
Loved them, their house and especially their decorating mantra! All so charming.
User
3 years ago
What a warm, genuine place and the couple seems awesome. Add me to the dinner invite list please. ☺
bbstx
3 years ago
I don’t know that I could live in that much clutter, but I would like to visit there often! I’ll bet their stories are spellbinding. Where have all the raconteurs gone?
mtnrdredux_gw
3 years ago
last modified: 3 years ago
Their decor and demeanor remind me sooo much of our POs here. It is a stereotype, but childless couples with education and (more) disposable income seem to have the most interesting spaces, and stories! Who wouldn't prefer to live in a space like that instead of a decorated apartment? But that space can only be achieved with a great deal of time and care, and it is entirely unique to them. That is what makes it priceless.

Side note - I had almost the same toile in a kitchen sofa, but the red was more burgundy. I miss it.

DH and I have a joke about "Paris flea market." More than once I have traipsed to Clignancourt or the Marche aux Puces, determined to spend money. Yet I don't think I own a thing from there. I recall admiring a vase in a dusty old stall, picking it up, and noting it cost $6,000 Euros. (?!). I also recall a lot of 70s junk from America! Now, we think of it as a drinking game ... how far into the fancy decorating profile before some says "Paris flea market."
katmumn
3 years ago
I love it, very interesting couple with a house to match. I really enjoy a house where every piece has a story. I personally would need a place with a bit less clutter to be happy but it would be fun to visit.
LynnNM
3 years ago
What charming, interesting men! I‘d love to be their friend and spend evenings chatting with them about their travels and their treasures.
Fun2BHere
3 years ago
Lovely couple and fascinating house. Thanks for sharing.
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nini804
3 years ago
I loved his story about painting his baby picture with the Ghirardelli chocolate! Super interesting couple...I agree that it would be fun to be their friend.
Springroz
3 years ago
I love that!!! Obviously, no cats for them....
OllieJane
3 years ago
They are so cute! Love their little stories.
Sarah
3 years ago
The disaster wall! And all the art everywhere is wonderful. I’d love a dinner invitation to hear their travel stories.
bpath
3 years ago
That was fun! I love that they have a “disaster wall”, and that they didn’t plan it that way. But if you have a picture of a ruin, then get another picture of a ruin, from a different era or location, of course you are going to put it near the first. And so it grows.

Was that their front door, in Massachusetts? But, it doesn’t look like it gets used?

(PS, I also hope they have a patient and careful housekeeper . . . and clearly they can’t have a cat, so Skippy can rest assured he is king of the castle, or at least of Connecticut.)
Sueb20
3 years ago
Well now my house seems minimalist. I am also coming to the dinner party!
bpath
3 years ago
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I went on a local house tour years ago, where the couple had a voluminous art collection. Well, they collected everything. Their house was so full, and there was no harmony. These guys talked about “harmonious” decor, and I liked that. The house I toured actually had me a little queasy by the time I left. No place to rest the eye, it was total chaos. The house itself was beautiful, you just had to work too hard to see it. I kind of feel that way the the video, there is soooo much stuff, even though it’s all very personal with a story. I’d love to edit the surfaces, which at some point start to look like they just came home from a fabulous estate sale and needed to set things down while they changed clothes to go on vacation and came home with more stuff that they set down while they picked up Skippy from the dog sitter and . . .
Feathers11
3 years ago
This was delightful! Thanks for sharing it. I can't wait to get art on my walls.
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jakabedy
3 years ago
I adore them. #relationshipgoals
cawaps
3 years ago
I love them, too. And the many portraits, which I gathered at the end were done by Sidney.
cyn427 (z. 7, N. VA)
3 years ago
Well, I may just have to wander around Georgetown this spring and knock on their door-just to give them a tin of cookies or something, you know.
Joaniepoanie
3 years ago
Too much for me, but I sooooo admire people who can pull that off. What an interesting and fun couple.
nutsaboutplants
3 years ago
So cool! i could wander around looking, reading, examining the art and various collections. It would make a wonderful old-timey used bookstore where you can sit and browse leisurely.

Love the couple too. Their stereo-style talking like a relay without the sense of either interrupting the other is so endearing.
martinca_gw sunset zone 24
3 years ago
“Their stereo-style talking like a relay without the sense of either interrupting the other is so endearing.“. nuts..big ditto!! Cocktails at 5 you say? Count me in.

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