Dinner tonight, odd choice.
5 years ago
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Comments (21)I am a hostess that does not want guests to bring anything other than a bottle of wine (as long as they do not need me to open it right then as I have my drinks planned). I really do not like flowers as I have my table and such set and then need to cut and vase the flowers and too often they are from Trader Joes and are half dead. I hate any guest to do the dishes. I am a really really nice person and am grateful if anyone serves me anything at all at their home as they wish--paper plates/unseasoned food/whatever. Does not bother me at all and most often I take many dishes because they want me to and I do not mind at all. But! when I am the hostess I just want to run the show and really do not want to put other's food into the mix....See MoreDinner with In-laws tonight
Comments (20)Well, how did the evening go? Pink, I would take Deborah's advice, she is wise... -BUT- I would also set boundaries. Snooping-no way! You don't want her driving your child? - don't let her! You are the Mom control the situation. I would have been thrilled if my MIL had sent pictures of my child to friends and family. She was good to my child while she was growing up but there was always tension between me and her- I was always the outsider or outlaw(and the closest neighbor). I sucked it up and carried on, never called her on anything. She was never overtly mean to me but made little comments and made many demands around the holidays. My DH was always aware of it but never took a stand even when I ranted and raved over her. Ten years ago my husbands father died and there was a huge rift in the family, we didn't see or speak to MIL for over 8 years even though she was 1/2 miles down the road. I was shocked last Christmas when I saw her comming thru the yard on her walker! DH's brother had brought her to have Christmas dinner with us. She had had a stroke, and was much older looking than when I last saw her, but I greeted her with a kiss. Then I went out on the deck for a smoke and a drink! I stayed on the side lines and kept my mouth shut, just let DH and DD visit with her, it was strained, but at least they got to "visit" for a while, and all went well. It felt so good! I think she must have seen what shes been missing - family! She came back for Easter too. I am the one that cooks for the holidays now and the house is always full of her kids, gkids and ggkids and I like having her here too. I try to dwell on the good times, DH and DD are still wary (they were very hurt)but they are comming around. She taught me alot, about being the wife of a farmer, raising kids and how not to be a mother in law. I hope I can be a good future mother in law. Things change, be open to it....See MoreDinner tonight?
Comments (13)DS's birthday, we went out to his choice of restaurant, Chili's. The food was good, but we were seated next to a table of 7 LOUD women- hooting and cackling and ordering lots of margharitas- who made a table with 4 kids look quiet. And service was slow. I used to love to go out to dinner. But I'm starting to be so annoyed by rude fellow diners and bad service, I actually rather just cook at home. My kids are usually well behaved. But when people around them are rude and loud, and they wait 20 minutes for a grilled cheese sandwich, and the server forgets to bring their drink--- they get a bit grouchy and not as well mannered anymore, and it's hard to be upset with the kids for that when adults aren't behaving with respect....See MoreMy dinner tonight
Comments (5)It certainly would seem worth the extra $5 to me. Do you typically enjoy the meals there? I haven't had tiramisu in a while now and like it very much even though I'm not often tempted by dessert. Your dinner tonight sounds wonderful....See More- 5 years ago
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