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Comments (5)Have several colonies of Bletilla and Cyclamen(7 species +cultivars) and lots of gray squirrels. They have never eaten any of the Cyclamen tubers, but the dumb amimals will unearth them from freshly tilled soil, looking for buried seed and nuts. Gravel or crushed stone will not deter them from digging. I cover every plant and bulb with sections of 1" wire mesh until the soil settles, often leaving it there to decompose. Bletilla pseudobulbs are planted deeper, 3-4" in friable soil and will tolerate bright shade or sun, even afternoon sun in my latitude(33*47"N). They are also protected, not only from squirrels, but from Voles(often called Field Mice, but are in the Lemming Family,not the Mus Family), with a circle of vertical hardware cloth(metal), 3-4" in the soil & 4-5" above. It also helps to have free-roaming cats in the garden! Bletilla striata is available in 3 colors, Magenta/Purple, White or Pink and a variety with white marginated leaves. A species with yellow flowers, Bletilla ochracea, would also be hardy in Zone 5, but is more rare in commerce. A third species, Bletilla formosana, with light pink flowers, is more tender and is not recommended for Zones below 7. These 3 species hybridize easily and you can sometimes find those available....See MoreAre they good roses? Convince me
Comments (20)It is so good to read messages from all my old rose friends. It is amazing on this forum how you really feel a friendship with people you have never seen. Of course, it was a pleasure when I did get to meet some of you. I really enjoyed going to the rose gatherings. I never made it to California to meet any of that group, but have always wanted to make the trip. Okay, let me see if I can remember what happened to some of these roses. Remember, I was having an anit-rose season last year so I was acting like the Queen of Hearts in Alice in Wonderland with her, "Off with their heads" comments and actions. As an excuse for my behavior I was hyper-thyroid on synthroid, I got a bad deal out of the overseas order, then I got a bunch of mislabeled roses from my favorite vender who admited I got roses bought from a second vender and probably were mislabeled but never appeared too concerned. Some of the roses came in a late fall (November) shipment and didn't get established before winter. Then to top all that off, we had a lousy spring and summer for roses. Patricia, I never though about nematodes because the roses all seemed to have different circumstances and roses next door to them did well. I will do some reading to make sure I haven't missed watching for nematodes in a rose with a problem. At least 50% of my loss is likely my fault. I took the approach that I wanted only roses that grew with little care and frankly would have turned the garden back to pasture grass except for DH. How glad I am he sided with the rose garden because the roses that survived my brutal treatment are looking great this spring. Angels Camp Tea --grew to about four feet, but got severe winter damage. Alexander Hill Gray---maybe lack of water and care Alliance Franco Russe ---maybe lack of water and care Antoine Rebe died as a band Arcadia Louisiana---beautiful, but couldn't handle the winter Blumenschmidt---healthy, but had green centers and I needed the space Catherine Mermet----just looked puny compared to neighbors Clementian Carbonieri--moved and probably didn't get water Comtesse Emmeline de Guigne---don't remember--just died young Devoniensis---pampered and died anyway Etoile de Lyon---didn't handle winter Frances Grates Tea---didn't handle winter--blackspot Freiherr Von Marschal --just slow an puny Isabella Sprunt ----too much blackspot La Pactole---pampered and died anyway La Sylphide---I had two one white blooms and one pink--blackspot proned, didn't know real name--just removed them Lady Hillington---a band that just never got more than a foot tall, had winter damage Miss Atwood---loved this rose, got too much winter damage Mme de Sombreuil-- loved this rose, got too much winter damage Mme. De Tartas ---never got started Perle des Jardin---never got started Rosette Delizy ---never got started Safrano --blackspot Second Street Tea ----too much winter dead Souvenir de Victor Hugo ---don't remember Susan Louise --winter died, came back from roots never took off, may have been mislabeled. Thomasville Old Gold---winter damage Tipsy Imperial Cocumbine---moved and died...See MoreHelp me convince someone
Comments (23)Its kinder to allow a cat to deal with the hormonal issues of being unfixed the to de claw it IMO, Allowing a cat to spray, call and go into heat is all part of nature, and though not ideal or very humane it is better then cutting off the tips of toes, and taking away 75 percent of his/her defenses if you knew it, and hated the thought of it yet did it anyway, then IMO you don't/didn't really care about the cats in question or your husband for that mater,( most cat meds to control feline allergies, render a person tired and sometimes grumpy,) knowing his allergies you should have had the cats fixed and given them to a no kill shelter/a friend/or even a barn, many barns welcome cats to control rodents issues, and baring avoiding death from cars,other animals, I think the cat would be in heaven, free to do whatever he/she pleased.. In gen its always better to work with nature then against it/ not that I'm disproving of fixing a cat, I'm just saying that if given the choice, I would prefer an intact cat outdoors in a cage, possibly if female, mated with a fixed tom to bring out of heat, every so often. Another thing to do, would if in that situation, allow her to breed, then abort, again and again until her eggs are all out, cats who go heat after heat without intercourse get eggs that can be harmful because unlike humans cats don't have cycles where eggs are flushed out. Again this would be problematic,costly, have moral issues if you are against taking life, and quite possibly harmful to the female cat, which is why I think rehoming after spaying/neutering would have been the best course of action to take. Be aware that if the cats ever leave the house they are pretty much at the mercy of loose dogs, tomcats, ect. AND if they ever did lose you and had to survive in the wild, its highly doubtful they could keep from starving to death without claws to help them hunt, mark territory, ect. If it was a landlord situation requiring the de clawing of the animals, well you've shown a poor resistance to peer pressure, there are alternatives to de clawing, soft paws are good, its a shame the landlord ( if there was one) values an mere object over a living feeling being. Another thing you could have done is agree to use the soft paws, and cover the/any costs of damage- knowing the soft paws I don't think it would be in any amount....See MoreGranite fatigue ... please help me pick one (or keep looking???)
Comments (17)LOL we should definitely start a granite support group :) I also really wish there was a National Granite Database. In my perfect fantasy world, this database would have pictures of all the slabs of granite currently in the US, their locations and dimensions. You would be able to do a search for slabs by color or by name (oh and by the way it would automatically include all the slabs that go by different names) and put in your zip code to find slabs within a radius. I know you really have to see them in person, but it would sure be a start to help figure out what there is out there and where it is, without having to drive around for hours. Anyway, back to the real world ... THANK YOU ALL SO MUCH for your opinions and advice!! I really appreciate it! As of today I will say that I am leaning towards the Colonial Dream ... but I reserve the right to change my mind again tomorrow :p The main reason is that I think saskatchewan_girl was right about that it would leave more options open for the backsplash (we are planning to do some kind of tile) and also for the floor. We really want wood floors and are having a hard enough time picking a floor that will go nicely with our cabinets. I'm a little worried that with the Yellow River our floor options will be more limited and even more difficult. I know that the Colonial Dream is not really WOW and might even be boring. But I'm hopeful that maybe it will look quietly sophisticated??? (or am I stretching? :o) ...) I think that the reason I'm struggling here is that as a slab I think the Yellow River is definitely more beautiful and interesting than the Colonial Dream. I'm just not sure that it will translate to a more beautiful counter in my little island-less kitchen with its tiny runs, and so just like sheilaaus122, I'm not sure if it should "live in my house". mustbenuts, I looked at your slab of Yellow River (which is absolutely stunning by the way and actually much nicer than any I have seen around here) and also at glad's kitchen. I think it looks beautiful in glad's kitchen and also with mustbenuts' door, but then you both have white cabinets, so I wonder if YR would look as good with my dark cabs? I'm worried it would perhaps look a little muddy and maybe the overall effect would be too dark. It's hard to tell how much light there will be in my new kitchen as the current kitchen has such poor lighting. We have a fairly big north-facing window, and will be increasing the size of the pass-through in the south side and adding much more lighting - recessed, undercabinet and pendant. Still, our current kitchen is all creamish so I know the dark cabinets and wood floors will make it feel a lot darker. I was hoping to find a granite with a streak of chocolate brown the same color as the cabinets, but we haven't been able to find any like that. Maybe we should keep looking, but then I'm also nervous that if we let the CD go, then don't find anything better and return to find the CD sold out. (A couple of weeks ago there were 8 slabs, now there are only 3 left, one of which is not as nice. Haven't seen it anywhere else.) I'm not as worried about missing out the YR, as there seems to be more of it available. mlraff53, thanks for putting the cherry on my vanilla sundae :) - potentially being able to fit it all on one slab definitely is a big upside to the CD. Thanks again for all your comments! Any other comments are still very welcome as I am not yet committed ......See More- 5 years ago
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