Do you have a phobia?
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Comments (32)I grew up going to catholic school so nuns really don't scare me, my nuns were pretty nice. Now I did get lost at the circus when I was little,so you guessed it ,I'm scared of clowns even though I didn't see one until the performance. Now if you want to talk heart-stopping paralyzing fear that produces like panic attacks; it's water and swimming. I just can't do it. And having to drive over a bridge or flying over water is just terrifying. I hate it when we've flown into San Fransico, having to fly out over that ocean is just chilling!gb...See MoreDo you have a basket or remotes or do you have a universal one?
Comments (6)my wife got me the best Christmas present ever last year, a Logitec Harmony remote. you program it thru your PC. enter your model number of each device in the program, it retrieves the codes and dumps them to your remote. you even tell it what devices to turn on for what activity. it is truly the only remote i have ever seen that does all functions of the originals. i included a link below. mine took the place of 12 remotes. i even have read of people using them to control lighting and gas fireplaces, though i don't. the only drawback is that you must be connected to the internet to program it, and i only have dial up at home so it can sometimes take a while. Here is a link that might be useful: pricey but worth it!...See MoreDo you have phobias?
Comments (38)Those of you who fear snakes may enjoy this family story. As I've mentioned, I like snakes. When my parents visited, I took them to the zoo. When I want to go to the snake room, my father suddenly had to go to the bathroom and made a beeline for the facilities. Mother resisted saying that snakes are slimy. I explained that snakes aren't the least bit slimy unless they've been in something slimy. Their skin is more waxy. And a snake's tongue feels just like a feather. Well, she didn't like it one bit, but she refused to show fear. The docent was holding a snake. I stroked the snake, and encouraged Mother to do the same. I had lived with the woman for 17 years, so I really should have known better. She gave me one of those I'll-show-you-looks. She stroked the snake, and in her sweetest Southern drawl said,"My, what a pretty pair of shoes you'd make!" The horrified docent backed up and I dragged Mother out of the snake room muttering, "I can't take you anywhere!"...See MoreDD's potty-phobia is making life complicated!
Comments (13)When my son was 4, his phobia was a motorized wheelchair. His preschool teacher's son had CP, he was about 10 at the time, and used the chair. His school bus dropped him off at the preschool about on hour before I picked DS up. His fear was like your DD's. He would go nowhere near that chair, panicked. He would have peed his pants if he had to walk past the chair to get to the bathroom. His teachers would have to pick him up and carry him across the room if he had to pass that chair. I found him at pick-up a few times cowered under a table with the chairs pulled in tight around him. If the son was on the floor, DS was not afraid of him. But that WC scared the life out of him, so when the son was in that WC, DS would run from him like his life was in danger, screaming in terror. I was so upset b/c I thought he might be hurting the son's feelings, and felt like a failure b/c no on else's kid was scared of the WC! So I found a store that sold wheelchairs, a medical supply store with a showroom. I called, explained my issue, and the staff was so nice! They made time to help us out, we went in, the manager showed him all the chairs, the parts of them, how they work, let him use one. Ended the fear! (I will never forget the kindness that manager showed DS, the time she took for us when there was nothing in it for her, there are good people!) Next day at school DS kept his eye on that WC, but he was no longer panicked. Eventually, he accepted it as part of the furniture in the room, he'd talk to the son while he was in it. It was like Sweeby's talking about, desensitizing. And he needed to learn that in a different environment, with no pressure. There were no words I could use to get him to understand he was safe, it took a physical lesson. I like Sweeby's idea about personifying her fear, talking to it, being the boss of it. That will be empowering, and it will teach her skills to overcome other fears as she grows. Talk about it to her, ask her about what she thinks will happen, what really does happen, how it makes her feel. Go somewhere every day if possible just for the purpose of using the bathrooms. It's hard to be patient with something so irrational. You are doing a great job at handling it, being compassionate but still strong....See More- 5 years ago
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