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Comments (18)Hi Thurman, I remember at the same time last year reading one of your post in regards to your SD coming to your home for the holidays and how it was stressing you out. I have continued reading your posts since then and i always finding interesting you cuz your situation reminds me alot of my relationship with my oldest SD. For years and years and years, she has always managed to get me upset with her attitude towards me, constantly laughing at my English, constantly ignoring me when i would take part in a conversation, always, always, always getting what she wanted from DH even if what she asked for had a negative effect on DH's and I relationship. I've seen myself having to cancel an entire holidays to please SD's demands and wants. Believe it or not i've had to go for counseling because of her; i believe i've read every single book there is to be read on detachment, disengaging, etc. I honestly thought i was going crazy because of her; i couldn't believe that even though i am practically twice her age, that this person had such a negative effect on me! Last April, enough was enough. I got the book that was suggested on this forum called The Dance of Anger and i went away for 8 days. Never called home. I spent this time taking care of myself and making the decision that i would not take part in this person's life ANYMORE unless i had to! When she came over to our house, i would not even invite her to sit down. (I figured her father could do that or that she was old enough to take a chair and sit down; i did not go out and buy her a birthday card/gift like i have been doing for the last 18 years; i did not invite her to the cottage; i did not answer the phone when i knew she was calling and most importantly i tried doing all of these things without feeling guilty for once and remembering that i was doing it for ME, for my mental health, because i did not need a person like her to disturb my emotional, physical, and spiritfual health. I didn 't care what DH thought. I really didn't. If it meant putting an end to 18 yrs of our lives together, so be it! I' ve told him often that the relationship between his daughter and i was what it was because of him, that for far too long he had let her disrespect me because of his ''guilty feelings'' he had to deal with! I always told DH that if i had had a daughter who would have disrespected him the way his oldest daughter has disrespected me (after 14 yrs of knowing, on the day of her wedding everybody and their dog had a corsage, but me. And yet, i had gone to the bank with the father to get a loan so WE could give her some $ for a wedding gift. She had NEVER, NEVER thanked me for the wedding gift. Oh well!), I would have literally slapped him across the head. Since last April, this SD had called me for Mothers'Day (first time in 18 yrs.) Since last April, this SD has offered me a birthday gift and a nice card with truly nice words in them especially for me. Since last April, this SD has even called me home to tell me there was something being shown in tv that she knows i love and wanted to make sure i knew it was on TV. I could go on and on and ...but what i am trying to say is once i truly made an effort to disengage from her, from her nastiness and all and started thinking about my health in terms of my relationship with her, things started changing for the best! In fact, i can hardly believe this SD who for years and years has been disrespectful towards me.....is starting to see/feel/know that she no longer has a hold on me! When she would talk and we were all around, i would not even reply to her remarks, comments or anything that came out of her mouth. I acted like she didn't exist. This being said, there are still times like tonight, when i know she will be at our house, that i get a little uptight!But i keep reminding myself that i don't have to stay in the same room she is in; i don't have to sit there and entertain her(Her father can do that. I've done that way too long!). I do what is best for me. I can only hope that this year, you will truly truly make an effort to go away with or without your son while this SD is visiting your home during Xmas. Do it! You won't regret it! Keep posting!...See More- 5 years ago
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