When you must have had a terrible childhood.....
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Have you visited your childhood home?
Comments (48)I rejoiced to hear some of your stories about happy childhoods ... and was sad to hear of people who were disappointed that their former homes or/and neighbourhoods had deterioated. But especially sad to hear that a few of you had endured such unhappy childhoods that you felt that you couldn't stand going back. Memo to Country Sunshine (and some others): "You don't ask - you don't get!". Take courage in hand, put on a big smile ... and sashay up to the front door. If they say, "No" ... you're no worse off. Right? We had a big 36' x 40' old white brick farmhouse near London, Ontario, when I was a child, with six bedrooms upstairs , three of them with built-in closets, and a big old walnut clothes press in one of the ones lacking one - Dad's bedroom was downstairs, would be an office/den, now, off of the large kitchen/dining room. Brick summer kitchen and woodshed on the back. Mom became ill when I was just short of 6, Grandpa (Dad's) and Grandma had moved in with her sister a few years before when Dad took over the farm. Grandpa died not long after Mom got sick so Grandma moved in with us and the farmhand's wfe helped in the house. World War II started in '39 when I was 10, so my younger brothers and I were the only hep that Dad had on our large farm. I lived there till I was 17, visited later after finished college (fiends from church had bought the farm when we moved west [that was "friends" from church: dratted keyboads!]). We had a quite close family ...Grandma used to get after us, e.g. for running up the back stair and sliding down the banister of the front stair ... telling us that she'd give us the strap ... but we laughed at her, saying that she, who had a bt of a hard time getting around, having inward cuvature of the spine, couldn't catch us! I have happy memories of the place: Mom not being there was just a fact of life. It was torn down a number of years ago, when they put a freeway from Sarnia, across from Port Huron, to join the one between Windsor(Detroit) and Toronto that goes just south of London. ole joyful...See MoreDo you have many items from your childhood?
Comments (31)Maybee, wha a cool piece! I love eccentric art like that, I am glad you got it! I have the same situation with an aunt, my mom's mom babysat me for the first year of my life and fed me with my "daddy spoon" and when we would visit until I was about 10 I always got to use the spoon. It was one of those spoons that have a saint or something on the handle, I thought he looked like a daddy, hence the name. When Grandma moved out of the ginormous house her 10 kids decended on it like looters. My mom fought for the daddy spoon for me, but my greedy aunt said she got it first, it was hers. I still haven't gotten it back, my aunt now has Alzeheimers and her daughter and grand daughter who I am close with are so afraid of her to even ask or snoop around for it. So I am glad you won your "battle", and have just something else to remember her by. Lazypup, are you giving her the house, the chair, the dog or the child?? ;-) Sorry, couldn't resist! Linda in Iowa, isn't there someone who might know who the people are? Please don't throw them away, you may just find out one of the pics was someone famous you are related to! I would take steps when you can to visit relatives from your mom's side (if they are still alive)and show them the pics. Pekemom, I would fnd a good furniture restoration place, I am sure they can fix it up for you. Thistledew, any memories from before 20 I consider to be from your childhood. Does it still fit?...See MoreHow much/what do you have from your own childhood?
Comments (11)but it seems like the memory is often in much better condition than the toys actually were. This is so true! I nearly "lost" a wonderful memory because of this. When I was a little girl, I helped with a skit as an ending to a performance by a barbershop quarter of high school boys (my dad as a drama coach, and helped them with it--I was the "love interest" at the end of "What Ain't We Got, We Ain't Got Dames"--not something you'd make jokes about now, though. I was a little bit in love with all of them, but especially curt. (I was, oh, 6.) After the contest was over, the boys got together and bought me a purple bunny with yellow satin lining in his ears, and Curt (swoon!) brought it for me. I LOVED that bunny. Loved it. Slept with it, carried it everywhere. Kept it around as I got older. At some point he ended up in a box in the attic. And when I was a young adult, out on my own, my mom & dad sent me all my stuff from the attic, including my stuffed animals. They were really in a sorry state--misshapen, coarse, and dirty. Their present-day reality pretty much overwrote my wonderful memories of them from when they were lovely (or, loved and their misshapenness completely invisible because of it). I have a few things I treasure: -the license plate w/ my unusual first name that my grandparents had custom-made for me -the cloth doll that "my little old lady down the block" gave to me, and I used to create a room design that won a red ribbon at the Iowa State Fair. -the "Night Before Christmas" book that I was given as a kid, and read from every Christmas -the printed velvet vest that my mom made for me (part of a set, but I accidentally ruined the skirt); I could wear it up until relatively recently....See MoreSo I had a dream...Now I must have it.
Comments (51)Hmmm, let's check that out. Can you post a photo of your whole house? We could try some mock ups to see how it all looks. Think of this: lots of people paint their doors bright colors to make them pop. Their door color doesn't match anything else, yet people have no qualms about that. So maybe a wood door wouldn't look off with a white garage door. And here in colonial country, I can think of many homes with wood doors and white garages....See MoreBunny
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