I think that it's important that the room look good to you, no matter how you perceive it as well. DH has red/green color blindness, and I selected a bright teal for our shelves and stairs in the garage. I asked him what color it was and he said gray. I said perfect. He perceives it as a more conservative color, which makes him happy...I perceive it as bright and cheerful, which makes me happy. I would start with an inspiration piece...it can be a photo of a room or a swatch of fabric. You might want to ask a friend or a sales person or as suggested an in store color consultant about the intensity of the choice so that you don't end up with say primary colors when you want something subtle, for instance. When you have your inspiration piece, they can then help you pull colors from the fabric or picture to blend and the results will likely be good. You can also get the Ben Moore color preview which is laid out like a rainbow and the location on the swatch will help you with intensity...the higher up, the paler, the lower down, the deeper, and going across you'll probably be able to perceive where the more yellow color tones are as they may look paler to you. On line, Sherwin Williams has a chip it! app for free where you can select a picture, click chip it! and it will tell you what some of the key colors are in the picture based on SW paints so it will help you match colors to the picture...and it can be a picture of anything....so you can even use your own photo, of say a beach or landscape or whatever as your inspiration. And you can always post pics here...lots of people here who would be more than happy to make helpful comments to guide you.

My favorite of the ones you've chosen is your third island light. I like the sparkle you get with the metal and glass juxtaposed with the stone fireplace and wood floors. However, you might want to consider not doing clear glass in the kitchen. We have a fixture above our island with clear glass, and it gets dusty so quickly. And because it's in the kitchen, tiny bits of grease float up and then make the dust stick to it, so it's difficult to clean. I also think that your dining light can be a different style than your island/sink fixtures. (I think your first options are too matchy.) That would define the dining area. Here are some options I found that are reasonably priced. Sink: Island: even though it's glass, the top is solid to hide the dust. Dining: the white color ties in with your white cabinets. This company also sells chandelier shades so you could customize it with a color or pattern.

If you are going for color I agree with the one on the left from Beth. However, I still think the black and white is a good option with each one taking you in a different direction. When I look at the photos from further back, I see lots of texture in the pillows on the leather sofa and it seems the natural vibe in the living room currently is complemented better with the black and white. With this direction the nod to the stained glass could perhaps be introduced with some amber and teal accessories but maybe not the pink. If it was me I would complete the vignette with the black and white, the plant arrangement, etc. and live with it for a while. Hope this makes sense and helps.

I see what you mean about the wood tones … I’d go ahead and decorate the table, maybe add art, as that will be the focus (the eye will be drawn up, not down). Especially if you get a lamp — it will change the lighting and tones there when on. See what you think then. Beautiful entry and staircase, it’s going to look great!