I would agree with both Kathy & Karl. Keep in a well lighted spot inside,water regularly, add a minute amount of a balanced (20-20-20 ) Fertilizer (about 1/8 th the suggested amount.) to the water once a every couple of weeks. When the chance of frost has past, then plant in a bright spot that is well drained in your garden. Enjoy. Bill

Becky! You must have read every possible choice of what I wanted on my want list! You're the BOMB! Thank you so much! If you can't tell, I got my package Saturday. It was really late when I got in and was able to open it, or I would've posted sooner. I didn't have any idea how big my envy would be coming back to me... Oh, my! I am seriously very happy! I can't wait to harvest from these and give back way more next year for this swap if it's done again. Blessings, Angela

If you've told lies on top of lies, on top of lies over a 6 year period, I would imagine your wife is beyond frustration, as you have clearly stated. All trust would definitely be lost over that period of time. You aren't responsible to her reactions, but if this is an ongoing issue, it's pretty much understandable even if it doesn't seem right. As popi suggested, you need counseling, whether your wife goes or not, whether you're headed for divorce or not. Until your wife gets it all out of her system, I'm not sure joint counseling would benefit you because she has alot of frustration and anger directed at you to get off her chest and a therapist might have a hard time not agreeing with her, putting you in the hot seat on every visit. Regardless, I doubt your marriage could ever improve without some outside intervention, and you definitely should not be putting up with any abuse, and nor should she! I could put another couples names in place of yours and your wife's and have the exact same story. His problem was gambling. In an 8 year period he admits to gambling away $20,000 so it's probably even more than that. But that couple has recovered, I guess, so there is hope for those in severe marital difficulty. Think long and hard on whether it's the right thing to be seeking custody of your children. If you can't handle your own finances, how can you take care of your children?

We have the funds but since the furnace is still working fine, we just never thought up upgrading it. We have a baby soon and dont want to spend money we dont have to right now. Its a very legit auction- its an iHeart radio (FM radio company) auction- Basically the company gets radio/tv advertising when they put up something. This heating/ac company put up AC units with install- My auction that I went went for $1,000... iHeartRadio pockets that money gives the AC/Heating company $5,000 worth of advertising. The AC/Heating company could careless what the auction went for. I have bought furniture, lawn care and more from these auctions over the years and its worked out great. This particular AC/Heating company probably had 20-25 different items up, so it seems like they are trying to get lots of advertising money.