National Parks....this breaks my heart
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Comments (23)Hi again tkaye, Pehaps the double load of losing your beloved Dad ... and seeing how much the suddenly being alone has upset your mother's applecart has added to the stress that you are feeling. Also, I've been wondering how your husband feels about all of this. Would he be really, deep-down pleased to see you develop some other interests and friends apart from your relationship with him? Sometimes men like being the boss/leader ... having women lean on them ... and get their noses somewhat out of joint if the leaner even makes noises about becoming more independent, let alone start working on it. Some of them may wonder whether this is just the beginning ... whether she would like to leave and be on her own, for some reason(s), and is gearing up for such a move. A number of women who were used to staying at home when the children were growing have found, after the children are gone and they have much more free time, that they enjoy either going out to find small, or even full-time work, or developing other interests that, possibly, they hadn't been aware before that they had. It's great to be loved deeply. And it's great to enjoy one's self and have a spirit of independence, to grow and develop different facets of one's personality and being as one matures. As someone said - many people who become older find that, though they were two ... they become one, and feel very inadequate. Another thing that is important is that, though each partner may handle a portion of the activities, chores and management that is part of the family's life ... it's important that both learn how to do the whole thing, how to carry on what needs to be done, for very few couples find that both depart this life at the same time ... ... and usually it's the woman who is the survivor. Too often, and often unfortunately, the woman has learned little about how to manage the family's business and financial affairs. It's a real shame when some fast-talking rascal manages to run off with a substantial portion of their, now her retirement asset. Leaving her without that familiar, beloved hand to hold ... but with a much lighter pocketbook ... and justly suspicious of the motives of many who surround her, to whom she should be looking for greater friendship in her newly lonely state. ole joyful...See MoreOT - Warm Thoughts Across the Nation
Comments (10)There should be a petition against the psychiatric pharmaceutical drugs that almost everyone of these 'shooters' since (and including Columbine) were either on or coming off of. A little factoid hardly ever mentioned in the media is that these chemicals can and do cause exactly this type of hyper-violent behavior, esp. in adolescents and young adults. Guns don't kill people any more than spoons make people fat. Interesting that this crap almost always happen in 'gun free zones'. Should be called 'victim zones'. My heart is so heavy with this stuff I can hardly think about it. Those poor parents......See MoreNational Dog Day
Comments (18)Loved the story!! Thanks everyone for all the well wishes. I am taking it slow as the doctors instructed. Hoping that it makes for a better recovery. As Schultz pointed out to me many many times...I am lost without him. I've sadly had to endure many hardships without him here to help me. I've had to bathe totally alone, scary because now I fear being attacked by birds or some nut with a butcher knife. I have had to check the inside of the toilet for monsters before sitting...all by myself. What will I do if I ever encounter one. I've made my bed without his help every morning. Leading to my sheets and blankets looking like no one even sleeps in the bed. It's spooky! There are no new noseprints on my phone or on any windows in the house. And the birds have taken over my small yard without him here to scare them away. Sadly I've had to watch TV with an empty lap too. And sleep is hard to find with his pillow empty beside me at night....See MoreNational Weed Appreciation Day - Part Two!
Comments (214)A very late comment here but... I'm back at my yard/garden and I have more weeds than I can possibly appreciate. Anyone feel a need for some? I'll surely share. The only one on the list that I can't find so far is purselane. I'm sure there is some here. I just have not started working in the right area yet....See MoreBestyears
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