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Entitled (lazy) roommate w/ ? behavior towards GF
Comments (11)Talking weird to your girlfriend would be the clincher for me. If he signed anything, he might have legal ground to stand on. Otherwise, I'd ask him to leave right away. And change the locks. Sometimes good friends don't make the best roommates. I knew a girl who bought a double and let her best friend move in. They are no longer friends because she quit paying rent and then trashed the place when she moved out. One of the best roommates I ever had was not a close friend. Just a neighbor I lived next door to at an apt building we both rented at. We decided to cut our expenses and share a two bedroom double. We had different schedules and tastes so we knew it would be more likely to work out than if we were running into each other all the time. We posted a list of what chores were supposed to be done and how often. One week one of us would clean the kitchen, the other would do the bathroom. We switched off every weekend so no one was stuck with the dirtiest jobs. If either of us dirtied dishes, we washed them right away. They weren't allowed to be left in the sink. We bought our own food and split the shelves down the middle so there were no mistakes about what belonged to who. If one cooked and both enjoyed the meal, the other one did dishes. When we had friends over, we had rules about how long they could stay over. No one wanted to come home and have to stay in their room to get privacy because the other roommates boyfriend was around every night of the week hogging the living room. The bottom line was that we had respect for each other. Speaking of respect, you might want to consider moving any important valuables you care about into your parents place until the situation is resolved. If he is acting weird to your girlfriend, who knows what he might do on the way out? It would be a good idea to do this BEFORE you tell him to leave. Good luck....See MoreAm I entitled to a copy of my dental records?
Comments (5)Yes, you are entitled to a copy. Even dental offices have to follow HIPAA practices. They do have a right to charge for making copies, but you have already said that you don't mind paying, so that's not a problem. Tell them that they are in violation of HIPAA & that you want a copy of your records....See Morewhat percentage of exhusband's ss am I entitled to?
Comments (17)I have another friend who lost her husband when she was 52. Her husband was retired, but I don't know if he was collecting or even had put into SS since he had his own business, and may have decided to pay himself in cash. Yes, I know it's breaking the law, but that's the possibility. When she inquired re: his SS, she was told she 'wasn't old enough', huh? I lost a first husband at 27 and was able to collect for myself as well as my children, so don't see age as being a prerequisite. I'm curious, is it because he didn't pay in, or is there another reason this could be the case?...See MoreEvil entitled neighbor.
Comments (53)Hi. I really believe you should try and work things out with you neighbor, if for no other reason than they can make your life difficult -- and who wants that difficulty in their life, especially since you have young kids and don't want to be worried about some crazy neighbor. But if you are sure that you want to confront these people, I suggest you get a copy of your deed and read it to see if there is in fact an easement -- which is a right of egress and ingress from a property (or a vista easment or the right to take something like timber,etc.).If there is no specific right granted in your deed, than it is very difficult to claim a proscriptive easment. Simply put, if your deed does not say that your neighbor has the right to enter your property, they have no right to be on your property and you may deny them access at any time. They can claim a proscriptive easement, but it's up to them to prove such in a court of law and the law does not favor implying such easements. You could possibly file a restraining order against your neighbor and file an action against him for tresspass. Do a little research, you can act as your own attorney pro se (or see someone at legal aid if you don't have the cash to hire someone). In short, the law does not require that you be a good neighbor and you can park anywhere on your property as the town permits. Good luck, and try working things out before you do anything drastic -- like resort to the courts or police. Remember, life is short, is it really worth a fight?...See More
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