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Which to donate--blood or plasma?
Comments (6)Keep in mind that while there is no risk to someone donating whole blood, there is a very real risk of a life threatening reaction from donating plasma. (Hypocalcemia from the sodium citrate) As for donating vs selling: I've been donating whole blood for about 30 years. I'm an O negative (considered the MOST desirable blood type, as it can be given to anyone), but I am not a candidate for donating plasma. Plasma can be givenmore frequently, but whole blood can be broken down into more products to help more people. I have always felt that as that blood (and life) were freely given to me, so I should also freely give to others. Yes, I know the Red Cross and private blood banks sell blood and blood products, but that doesn't negate my part of the gift....See MoreI think I am going to have a nervous breakdown
Comments (39)My problems have been relatively minor so far. Demo started last Monday. On the first day, the power went off in my neighborhood for two hours. Not my GC's fault. This was, however, an omen. I had told the GC that I wanted the wall oven lower because I'm short, and he said he'd keep it at the same height as the current one. But, in fact, he raised it 6 inches. That one I caught in the framing stage, so he's fixing it. I think he forgot. Then he asked me as he was heading out to buy lights, did I want black or white UC lights. He recommended white, I'm not good with quick decisions (why I read GW for months) and said OK. Before I could tell him I really thought I'd rather have black, the white was installed (it was the same day - at least he's quick). That wasn't really his fault - I should have asked for time to decide. But we did discuss where to place the recessed lights, since the joist ran right where they should go, so they could be too close or too far from the cabinets, and I'm quite sure we had decided on too far, but he installed them, instead, too close. If this was due to a decision on his part, shouldn't he have mentioned it to me? I think he forgot again, and it was the same day. But I didn't notice until the ceiling drywall was done, so too late! The most recent thing is not really his fault, except indirectly. I'm donating the cabs and metal stuff to Habitat for Humanity Restore. They said they would be selling the oven for scrap, which was a shame, but at least it wasn't going to the landfill. When the GC demo'd, he put the oven in the driveway instead of the garage with the rest, and I reminded him that it was being donated (I'm seeing a pattern of forgetting here). I knew it was very heavy, so I told him that it was OK to leave it there - it was up by the garage, behind the dumpster, not easily visible from the street, and it didn't matter if it was rained on, but I told him to be sure not to put it in the dumpster. That was last week. Habitat comes tomorrow. Today, while my teenage daughter was home alone, a man and woman in a pickup truck came up the driveway with a dolley and took the oven, wheeling it between the dumpster and our Buick Rendezvous. My DD called my DH, who doesn't ever listen to me when I tell him what is going on, and he told her it was OK if someone could use it. She was afraid to go out and say anything to these people anyway - she's only 13. So my beloved oven was stolen by scrappers. I understand if something is at the curb, it's fair game, but no one should walk up your driveway and spend 15 minutes trying to figure out how to get an double oven into their pickup truck. I'm really PO'd. So it's been only 7 days of remodel, and I can't wait to see what's going to happen next. From now on, every piddling thing is going to be in writing. Still, my stories are nowhere near as bad as all of yours. Clearly, no amount of planning - or wine - is ever enough....See MoreDonating blood
Comments (22)When I first got married my Mother In Law and I would go to the fire station in our town and donate each time there was a blood drive. Everything was fine until my last visit. I remember feeling just slightly dizzy. I didn't say anything to anyone about it though, and the next thing I knew there were people surrounding me. They had me lay back and were handing me cookies and drinks. I didn't pass out and I will forever wonder how they even knew that I felt dizzy. Anyway, it was that time when they discovered that I was anemic and they couldn't accept my blood. I have struggled with anemia ever since and never did donate after that. And oddly enough, now it takes all I have in me to not get sick when I have to get just a little blood drawn in order to have blood work done. ????? Go figure....See MoreNervous about family drama
Comments (28)I'm tempted to just have open seating and make them figure it out ;) That's awful. It's heartbreaking to see kids with preventable defects because the parent's are irresponsible during pregnancy; it's so unfair to them. Thanks for sharing. I totally get your stance on alcohol - the older I get (I'm in my late 20s now), the less I want to be around it. I had my fair share of fun and partying in college, but that's pretty much where I left it. I still enjoy a beer or margarita occasionally, but just don't see the appeal of getting wasted every weekend like some do - I like to be functional the next day! I was with an ex boyfriend for over 3 years that would often get really mean when he drank, until I finally snapped out of it and realized the kind of person he really was. Better late than never, I guess. Anyways, our colors are primarily a grayish slate-blue with rose and lavender colored accents. I'm trying to talk my fiance into the groomsmen wearing a light suit (like a khaki or tan color) to contrast the bridesmaid dresses - I think he'll go for it as long as he doesn't have to wear it ;) Going for a sort of rustic summer look....See More- 6 years ago
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