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Comments (11)The secret to success here is to plan your visit. Go to their website and download the map and visitor guide. Plan how you are going to walk through the garden, because it's a lot of walking and it can be hot. Avoid backtracking. Prioritize so you don't waste time looking at things which don't interest you. I do recommend the Conservatory for sure, Pinkie and Blue Boy in the Huntington Gallery. You can enjoy the A/C there too. As you look at the map, you will see the cactus and palm gardens are on your left after you pass through the entrance buildings. This is a good place to start. (As you enter the cactus garden, be sure to watch for the cactus greenhouse on your left.) You will walk through the cactus garden to its farthest point from the entrance, then you can walk to the right on a road around that end of the garden. Honestly, there isn't much to see there and it's a long walk; I would recommend turning around back through the cactus garden and continuing on to your points of interest that way. Comfortable shoes, maybe a hat and water. Arrive when they open, and on a day they are open. California Cactus Center is a really interesting place to visit as well, as a previous poster mentioned. It's a nursery, not a botanical garden. Here's a picture I took in the cactus greenhouse some time ago: Here is a link that might be useful: Huntington Lib. visitors' guide...See MoreHuntington Library Plant Sale
Comments (4)The spring sale is the BIG ONE. Every year there is a theme. I worked it a couple years ago and the theme was dwarf plants, but there were alot of plants that were not dwarf as well. The best way to get access to the goodies is to volunteer. After the sale the volunteers get to buy the leftovers at a significant percentage off too. The lady in charge is Shirley (can't think of her last name but everybody knows her, she's been doing the sale for at least 20 years) and she spends most of the year sourcing the plants for the sale. You will find cultivars there that are pretty much very hard to find if not unavailable....See Morehello, I'm new....I'm hurt....
Comments (35)Hi Kmttsmom, Thank you for being kind. I'm really not trying to get a reaction or hurt anyone and I think I've stated it over and over, but it bears repeating. :) I'm hurt too, and confused at how my estrangement got to the point it did. Years and years of misunderstanding, letting things go when they really should have been talked out then, not feeling like I could say anything because it would be taken the wrong way. So I'm just trying to understand it from a mother's point of view. And it seems like a lot of mothers are defensive (that's ok, they have a right to be, but then they take it as I'm attacking) and words like "spoiled brat" come into the picture. I'm not, nor was I ever, a spoiled brat. I was raised one of the least spoiled people you would ever meet. No electricity, no television, catchment water, no neighbors. No Christmas tree, very few presents for my birthday. My mother never bought me a car, paid for insurance, college, rent, bills, etc. I had to give away my toys to more needy kids time and again. We recycled everything. I moved out at 14 to live with my dad because of her emotional abuse, and I lived pretty much on my own because he had to work 150 miles away and would be gone for days at a time. I walked to school a few miles away and walked home, did my homework, made myself dinner, and went to bed. And I forgave her in high school. I was able to put it all behind me and move forward. And I included her in my daughter's birth. And when she needed a place to live, I let her move in with me. And then I realized she was an energy vampire. She literally sucked me dry, blamed me for everything, took my friends and started to turn my daughter against me. And she walked all over me. Time and again. So, my defenses go up too, when mothers just say that kids just need to respect their parents, and "get over it". It's a very emotionally charged situation. I didn't come on here for support, I came on here to learn what others think. So I think part of the conflict is our approach to what we expect from this board. I'm shocked at being told to go away, that my opinion is not wanted or needed or valued because I don't agree and I'm asking questions. It seems it's either one way or the highway. And when I apply this to what women here are saying about their damaged relationships the correlation seems too blatant to ignore. I don't think anyone here is a "Bad Mother". The fact that people are even talking about it indicates that they are truly trying to be good people. I'm sure everyone on here has their good and bad moments, and it can be hard to judge emotion when it's in writing, without any facial gestures or other non-verbal clues. I guess this isn't the place for me to be asking my questions because it is seen as an attack, and I felt just terrible the past few days, because I feel bad that people are taking my words that way, and now I feel attacked too. Thank you again, for your very clear, from the heart post. I do wish you the best in your situation. No one should have to feel like this. ~Silver...See MoreHowdy, I'm back! (extremely long, hopefully not too boring)
Comments (15)Sue, the Etap hotel is a few steps below a motel 6...quite a few steps in fact. LOL! The rooms were tiny, which were expected but the floor was really grungy and the toilet/shower area were a one piece porta potty plastic unit that had been put into a corner of the room. It was very small and the floor area by the toilet got soaked when you showered. The shower stall area was barely big enough to turn around in. Now I wish I had taken a picture! Patti, I think the house I used to live in was torn down and a new one put in it's place, there were a lot of new homes there. The town was very small, just one street with one tiny restaurant and a coffin maker. That was it...not even a post office. Stacy, yeah, I think I should've learned after our trip out west. Some of it was fun but for the most part they weren't interested in a lot of it. I've downloaded my pictures and will start posting them. Wish I had taken more videos, they are pretty funny because they are so BAD! LOL!...See More- 6 years ago
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