Gift for daughter who just became an RN
6 years ago
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My daughter is so down, she just found out
Comments (9)It's always complicated when mom knows...it's important that she have a confidante somewhere that doesn't take sides. If she and her husband can work this out, which they can if they both want to, then they need people cheering them on heart and soul. Otherwise, each time they see you it will remind them of their failures - I recommend the BEST book written for this situation, for her: How Can I Forgive You, by Janis Abrahms Spring. Also, After The Affair by the same author. She's excellent. Better to work it out with a willing parter and create a real relationship (it wasn't real before and during the affair) than to leave, bitter and with baggage. On the ohter hand, if he or she is unwilling, then there's not much that can be done. There are few things in this world more profound and meaningful than going through the painful process of forgiveness and repentance. Once accomplished correctly, nothing can compare. As a mother, your (faked if necessary) neutrality will allow her to make that decision to stay and work on it or to leave, all on her own, which will make her stronger. Hard, isn't it? This life is about learning and growing, changing, discovering what you didn't know about yourself, tweeking, perfecting - this could be an amazing opportunity as painful as it may be for your daughter and husband to truly look at themselves and each other for what is real and what they could have once they become real with each other. Just stinks that sometimes people have to do it the hard way!...See MoreCould you vote to help my daughter win a $25 grocery gift card?
Comments (16)Jaime asked me to give you ALL a big thank you from her! She won the $25 grocery card! These kids are amazing, or at least I think so! Jaime does such a good job with the refunds and couponing that they normally budget just $75 every two weeks for groceries (for her and her husband). She tells me that since she won the grocery card and also had a $25 coupon left from the early stages of this same promotion, that she will have to allow only $25 more for groceries for the next 2 weeks (in addition to the $50 (coupon and grocery card) that she now has). Wish I was that efficient of a shopper! Thank you again, everybody!...See MoreGood or bad gift idea for daughter?
Comments (19)I haven't read all the replies, but I say back away from the bedding. It is a great gift idea, but bad timing (unless it is something she adores, has to have and is on closeout -- in which case I'd buy it, hide it for later and hope she doesn't change her mind). It isn't something she is going to use now and it will seem less like a gift when is's pile of unused bedding in the corner while other people are using their gifts -- and then the new stuff is starting to feel old by the time she actually does get to use it. I know more girls who want to pick out things with a roommate (I never considered that, but I got a roommate who wanted to go shop and have everthing in the room match -- so we did, and it was fun, but not what I would have picked on my own). She may get things as gifts from others, and that's better suited to graduation gifts anyway. It isn't the gift idea -- just the timing. Letting her do her own shopping in London is a great idea. You could give her a preloaded card to spend so she has something to open and the choices on how to spend can be hers. Travel accessories are good if she doesn't have them, and many can come in handy for college (chargers she probably has, a power adapter, packing organizers, travel jewelry case, etc.) The Container Store has some nice options and Marshalls has a lot of travel jewely cases this time of year. Or something to do while on that long flight -- some new music to listen to, a video or two to watch, materials for a small needlework project if she's into any of those things or would like to learn, or a small coloring book and pencils....See MoreGift for hostess of daughter's bridal shower
Comments (10)By best friend of 30+ years was a godsend to me when I agreed to have a bridal shower at my home for my DS and DDIL. Technically I wasn't the hostess, just providing the setting but I had just come home from the hospital and rehab after having both knees replaced. My BF came early, stayed late and even ran out to the store when the bridesmaids discovered they didn't have enough paper products. I decided to treat her to a spa afternoon at a local salon and she loved it. My other ideas were theater tickets, a GC to a wonderful restaurant or a simple white gold or silver necklace....See More- 6 years ago
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