Don't paint gutters unless you must. You don't have to. The Almond windows and gutters are the color baseline from which you have to work. Means you should be looking at warmer tones in the roof category. Driftwood, weatherwoods, Bark type color names are usually where you find those warmer tones. Pewters, charcoals, silver, steel - those are the kind of roof color names that likely will not harmonize easily with the almond windows and gutters. With that said, can not go by color names alone. It comes down to carefully evaluating samples. Sway off from harmonizing the roof color with the baseline elements you have to work from, windows and gutters, and you will make nailing a paint color scheme harder. Choose your roof, ideally get it on the house and then choose new paint color scheme. Blues *might* be an option but it depends on how the roof comes out.

I've been looking at high end roofing tile websites and one of them has a color expert that made recommendations for house paint colors with their orange/brown roof tiles. Here is a link to some of the schemes they recommend that may give you some inspiration: https://www.davinciroofscapes.com/blog/exterior-color-schemes-autumn/ You can color match to Sherwin Williams brand paint.

Also, open to landscaping ideas. It’s a bit much, I know.

How modern? anything in the neighborhood that looks like you want? what front door? No one can see the front door. You have some serious pruning to address. If you want modern, I'd start w/the yard and then address the home. the Portico, columns and window pop-outs would need something different. Then you could consider a more modern garage door. a metal roof would be great. you have 30k? lol This would make in impact. notice the garage doors, the front door, but look at landscaping. That and exterior paint will give you the biggest change ignore landscape on this one, look at house colors and how they addressed the window trim and portico area. (and house colors) just by trimming back the growth and getting a new paint job, remove the pop outs and new garage door, would make a big diff this is extreme, but look at landscaping, tile roof, and colors. (In fact, I like this roof better for your house than a metal one. when it comes time for a re-roof, look at the Mediterranean style tiles) yard on this one is clean and modern looking