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What are you grateful for?

7 years ago

It's been a difficult and painful summer, and I've had to be more purposeful in finding gratitude. Thought I'd start a thread because you all seem to be the most grateful bunch on the internet!

For starters, I'm grateful for my health, which has allowed me to be a support for those who needed me. I'm grateful for dear friends and their support of me.

And I'm grateful for coming across this quote:

"Things falling apart is a kind of testing and also a kind of healing. We think that the point is to pass the test or to overcome the problem, but the truth is that things don't really get solved. They come together and they fall apart. Then they come together again and fall apart again. It's just like that. The healing comes from letting there be room for all of this to happen: room for grief, for relief, for misery, for joy." Pema Chödrön

And, of course, grateful for my morning cup of strong, black coffee.

What are you grateful for today?

Comments (42)

  • 7 years ago

    Today I am grateful for the rain. We have had hardly any rain for the past few months. Also the coffee. :)

    Feathers11 thanked cooper8828
  • 7 years ago

    I'm grateful for a sense of humor because at my age, if you don't have a sense of humor, you are in big trouble!

    Feathers11 thanked georgysmom2
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    I am grateful for my health, also...for my daughter & SIL, and my sweet Grandsons, grateful for my home and a place to plant some flowers and

    grateful for all my friends. And, actually...way too many things to type today. :)

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    I’m grateful that my sons are healthy and doing well. I’m grateful for my health and for being financially set. I remember my poor days wheni was young and how stressful it was to worry about money.


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    I'm also grateful for threads such as this as they help to remind me to look for the goods things in my life rather than dwelling on the negatives which often seems to be easier.

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    Thank you, Dawn.

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    My thoughts are with you, Lgmd, and that your struggles are a little less today.

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    I'm grateful for my sisters. I'm grateful that my sisters who get ill recover completely.

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  • 7 years ago

    Lgmd_gaz, whatever you are dealing with, I pray you find peace. Sometimes I find my life is worthless and filled with so much pain that I pray that God will take me and I won’t have to face another day, but so far, He hasn’t so He must have a purpose to leave me here.

    May you be blessed and many hugs (((0)))!

  • 7 years ago

    So grateful for my dearest friend.

    She and husband have two homes, one in my area and another in Boston, as she has two sets of families there.

    Divide their time between the two, but this time, they left in March and have no been back. WE have not communicated that much either, with kinda concerned me.

    Email last night and she's been diagnosed with lung cancer and will have chemo and radiation in Boston.

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    Prayers for my dearest and bestest friend, Viv, please!




  • 7 years ago

    Feathers and Phoggie, thank you for your kind words. I should be ashamed for my at times ungratefulness. After 50 years of a very, very slowly progressive weakening of my muscles, I am having a hard time adjusting to suddenly (it seems to me) lacking the strength to do a lot of basic things. I should be very grateful for fact that there is very little pain involved in all of this, and am able to do what I can do with no pain, I know.

  • 7 years ago

    ((((((((Igmd_gaz))))))))).

    So sorry for your struggles. I hope medicine catches up with your needs soon.

    Sorry you are in such pain phoggie. I am wishing that you find a more peaceful way through it all.

    Hugs to your friend Viv, Glenda. Good thoughts and prayers for a full recovery.

  • 7 years ago

    Igmd_gaz, I too am sorry that you suffer from an illness that causes your days to be a struggle. It must be hard to feel grateful when even daily tasks are difficult to accomplish.

    Phoggie, living with pain really wears a person down. I'm sorry you have to deal with that.

    Glenda, I hope your friend responds well to treatment.

    Reading your stories makes me feel even more grateful for good health. At 61, I think I'm one of the younger KT members so who knows what the future may hold for me as I get older. I do know that life can change in an instant and that there are no guarantees.

    I'm sorry if my original post came across as glib or made anyone feel bad. That was never my intent. After my mother was diagnosed with brain cancer, I watched her go from vibrant good health to completely helpless within three weeks at which time she passed away. That experience really made me realize just how precious good health is and how quickly it can be taken away.

    I can't offer offer much to those of you who are struggling, but I hope my best wishes and thoughts for some relief from your struggles or pain and cyber hugs brings a small measure of comfort for those who need it.

  • 7 years ago

    I'm grateful that, during my efforts in the garden I've had only a few tick bites this year, as they report that they are much more prevalent in this area, and there's substantial concern about Lymes (spellg?) Disease: I had a couple checked at the health unit.

    There was an interesting program on our national radio this morning about Lymes Disease, on a weekly series hosted by an emergency room doctor, who deals rather in-depth with various health-related concerns.

    If interested, you can find it at www.cbc.ca/whitecoat.

    If you check out a few of his programs while you visit, I wouldn't be surprised if you might choose to visit fairly frequently.

    I'd like to have started a thread about this but am finding it almost impossible to get my threads posted.

    ole joyful

  • 7 years ago
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    CBC programming does not have a lot of appeal for Americans. We have our own, more extensive media with content having national and local items of interest, as you do.

  • 7 years ago

    Dawn, your original post did not come up as 'glib' to me. It was the first sentence in my post that was not well thought out before posting. Once posted and I read it over, I knew it would give the wrong impression of what I was trying to say. I tried to go back and reword it, but as others have found out there is no going back and editing one's post these days. I am sorry if it made you uncomfortable about your post of well being. It was well written.


  • 7 years ago

    I (accidently) heard a sermon on the radio when I was a young adult that has always stayed with me. It was about blessings from G-d -- do you have a roof over your head? G-d has blessed you. Do you have a bed? G-d has blessed you. Do you have family? G-d has blessed you. Do you have clothing? G-d has blessed you.

    And so on. I try to remember this - even the slightest things are a blessing. Blessing = G-d involved with your life.

  • 7 years ago

    Igmd_gaz, I think we've found ourselves in one of those situations where it's difficult to convey our exact meaning because we can't see each other's facial/body language nor can we hear each other's tone. Your initial response gave me food for thought about how I come across to others who may going thru difficulties I hadn't thought of and I think that is a good thing. Its important to be aware of how our words may affect others, so I thank you for that.

    That not being able to edit thing sucks, doesn't it? ;-)

  • 7 years ago

    If you go to this site through a Houzz URL, instead of Gardenweb, the Edit function works normally. Try clicking on this link to do so:


    https://www.houzz.com/discussions/tag=33

  • 7 years ago

    I'm grateful for when my granddaughters come for the weekend and I'm grateful when they go home. Lol They wear me out.

  • 7 years ago

    I'm thankful that, despite some health problems, that haven't restricted me much, I can consider myself to be in good health.

    For you people coping with varying restrictions, I hope that as each day dawns you may be in the best possible condition and find the grace to deal with it in a way that satisfies you.

  • 7 years ago

    Thank you, joyfulguy!

  • 7 years ago

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  • 7 years ago

    I am grateful for just being. For having a sense of humor, an adventurous spirit, hanging on to mental strength and being able to laugh at myself. Very important when you live a full life of up and downs and especially as we get older.

  • 7 years ago

    I am grateful that I got the “all clear” phone call after my mammogram last week.

    I am grateful for what is unkindly known as “Obamacare,” which is my DH’s only option for healthcare from now till he’s 65. It’s very pricey for us, but he can’t be without health coverage with his health problems.

    I’m grateful that DS #1 and his wife have just announced another pregnancy. This will be grand baby #3 for us.

  • 7 years ago

    i am grateful that DH & I are able to travel as we are still on the young side. i did not realize this until we were just on the West Coast for 12 days this month. almost everyone we saw were of retiring age. i said to myself "WOW we are really blessed. there was a couple in their mid-70's who were seeing Big Sur for the first time. we were there in 2014 and back again this month.

    i am truly grateful that we have our health, financial ability and kids who take care of the dog, cat and our home while we are away.

    good coffee

    our kids all get along and enjoy each others company

    my DD's wanted to take a trip with me :) we went to Portland for 5 days in August. DH passed on that trip

    youngest DD asked if i would go with her to Seattle since her boyfriend was there for a week on business. off we went in May....

    my thoughts and prayers to all those with health issues, so sorry

  • 7 years ago

    I am glad for your “all clear” phone call. Congratulates on your up-coming arrivals! I have my first GG coming the last of March!