Have you experienced a dog being attuned to another's illness?
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All you sewers.. I have a ?. My3dogs valance
Comments (21)my3dogs wrote: "Now stand back and make sure your valance looks even at the bottom on each side. Use your hand to 'finger fold' and drape your fabric until the look is what you want. You'll be surprised at what a difference it can make in the look by spacing your ties closer together, or moving them further apart on the rod. Also by tying the ties higher or lower... This is where you need to play around until you get the look you want." Shee, I could be wrong, but I don't think you need to make a new valance out of the same material. Just keep adjusting until you get it to fall right. Adding your fringe will also help a lot, so baste the fringe on before you adjust again so you don't get it perfect and have to take it down and start over. Your latest adjustments just need a bit more tweaking. Maybe it's easier to see from a photo than head-on, so if that's the case just keep checking your pix until you get the look you're after....See MoreIf you have a serious illness do you tell your family?
Comments (31)A hidden chronic disease, there are so many of them. Mine are migraines. For others, it is back pain or arthritis, or inflammatory diseases of various types. Hard to determine what others responses will be. Say you have migraines to someone who has them or has experienced them, and they will instantly understand, know how to help you, and be supportive. Others think you are making it up to get out of things. I met a guy once who got migraines, and he said, "Yeah, I know, most people think it is made up or a "girly disease." We commiserated. Another similar story, I moved for a job once, and someone I worked with offered to let me stay at his house until I found a new apartment. The first night we were watching TV in his family room and he said, "I hope you don't think I am too weird, but I have to do these back exercises or I can't function. I do them while watching TV." I said no problem, I totally understood and then I relayed my migraine experience, so I knew what it felt like to have a disease that many people thought was weird or "all in your head" (literally). So he told me that even his DOCTOR thought he was making it up about the pain or was just overly sensitive, UNTIL the doctor himself started to have back pain and back trouble. Then he realized how unfair he had been to his patients all these years. Some say suffering teaches us compassion. While there is not necessarily nobility in suffering, it can sometimes teach you compassion. Depends on the rest of your psyche and life experiences. The way I see it, there are some folks out there who have the capacity to care and support others, and some who do not. Ya just have to forgive the ones who don't and appreciate and bless the ones who do! I know I really bond with folks who have lost someone rather tragically, as I recently did my mom. Sometimes ya just have to experience it to know what it means. I have always tried to be supportive, but now I am especially aware of things I could do to reach out. Oh, and speaking of appreciation, I want to give a moment of thanks and remembrance to one of my Gardenweb friends, Tricia Evans, who also suffered from some "hidden diseases" and was one of the kindest souls imaginable. She gave me so much advice and help from the Cooking Forum. She turned me on to the book, "Sick and Tired of Being Sick and Tired." Love you Tricia, thank you God for putting her in my life!...See MoreHave you experienced cutting Chemical Fireplace Logs into Fire Starter
Comments (4)Similar, I cut pine boards and pallet planks approx 8” with my metal cutting Chop Saw with a 10” Carbide tooth blade. Stand all in a 6” deep metal pan on end chop for 1/2-1” targets. My goal is to start this to start round or split Oak or Pecan, when no coals are held over from a fire. My load of oak pallet planks has lasted since2009 with years of planks left. I would not buy the “Fire Logs” vs them being given to me. I will buy the smaller “fire starters” and break the soap bar sizes in half. They are great toward starting (w/o my news paper) while I move on to another chore. Two 18” x12” pans of processed wood “work” easily last a winter due to wood projects ad tree trimmings. The starter wood is “not fun to store” once it’is cut....See MoreAdvice? Saw this poor sweet black lab dog being abused....*warning*
Comments (41)the scream ....was a nonsensical noise. Just very loud. LM said she was establishing herself as Alpha The nonsensical noise validates what I believe she was doing. She wasn't screaming at the dog. She was using a common training maneuver in basic, not new age, obedience training. She may or not be very good at it. But the maneuver in itself is not abusive. Is she abusive.? We can't really know by what was posted. There was little to on because emotions were brought in instill of simple facts. I don't see how one who is handling two dogs at a time could possibly slam one of them into the ground. I m not saying what she was doing was right and I'm not saying she was wrong. Too much perception and not enough facts to go on. I don't use choke chains. I tend toward the belief that they maybe should be banned (outside of training facilities) because of their misuse. I prefer pinch collars. But yes my current dog was a time or two corrected by being given a quick upward jerk nearly taking her off her feet. Actually once she was taken off her feet for a moment. It was because she showed aggression to another dog on a pack walk. Pack walks as in training walks, not out for a stroll with the other doggies. My dog is completely bonded to me. She wears a pinch collar when we go out. Training is forever. It may not look like training but every time I am out with her she is in training even if it's just re-enforcing basic manners in public. At home and with close friends and family she can be a spoiled, high energy, out of control goof. But when we go out she is expected to behave at all times....See MoreBestyears
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