Advice? Saw this poor sweet black lab dog being abused....*warning*
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Comments (30)Not sure what the deal is with pork - all of our dogs have always been given table scraps that include pork and since they live to ripe old ages of 13 or 14, it does not seem to have been a problem for us. Our vet is aware of everything we feed our dogs and has issued cautions about several of the things on the list linked above, but those are things we know to avoid. When I mix any vegetables in with food for my dog, he manages to pick them out - he's allergic to green, it seems! Oakley I'm not seeing cattle dog in that mix - doesn't mean it's not part of the mix but just curious what part you think is cattle dog-like? Boone looks to be 100% mutt to me - not a bad thing at all. I read somewhere long ago that if all dogs were allowed to interbreed until they were all the same, they'd have markings like your Boone, be about 45 lbs, and have an upward curled tail. No idea if there's any basis in fact in that but it stuck with me! One other thing - we've had success training our dogs in regards to food by taking it away while they are eating. The breeder of our Dalmatian told us to challenge our dog with food regularly - while he's eating, reach down and take the bowl away - if he gives it up without any challenge, praise him and give it right back. We also had our sons do that when they were very little so the dog treated them as alpha, not just us. We give our dogs a treat, then reach to his mouth and take it away - the dog should not fight. In training our dogs, my DH and I and our kids take turns and get down on all fours, shoulder to shoulder with our dogs as they are eating and lower our heads to their bowl - nudge them out of the way and pretend to eat their food. They have to know from day one that we are top dog and submit to us and we've never had an issue with a dog challenging us or someone else. It's important to get them used to kids and never challenge them, but kids also need to learn 'dog manners' and not pull tails or ears, jump on them, etc. I have a hunch that Boone is a gentle soul and you're not going to have a bit of trouble with him. He just won the jackpot landing on our doorstep and doesn't even know it!...See Morepoodle-lab or poodle-retriever crosses
Comments (48)Our two Mini-labradoodles (2nd generation)have different types of hair from each other. Our female, Andi has wiry hair on her back but her legs, head are soft and wavy/curly. She doesn't shed hair on our clothes or furniture but when you comb her, especially on her thick back fur, you will get it in the comb. Amos, our black male, has more poodle like hair, soft, its wavy to thick curls. We cut his hair about every other week to keep the mats down, which was a real problem when he was swimming this summer. Now it is not such a problem and we let him go a little longer. I do find little curls like on the carpet where he scratches them out, mostly from around his neck or ears. Either that or his sister pulls them out playing! Our breeder did not promise that they wouldn't shed at all, but that there would be less than other breeds like our Brittany. We certainly have less shedding than with either our Brittany or our Cockapoo. Hers was more like fuzz when she shed. He did tell us that they would need combing and that daily would be the best route to go. Luckily, they both love to be combed and its part of our nightly routine while we are on the floor with them. I agree (QQ know this) that they are very sweet, lovable, and smart....See More9 year old lab with allergies - food help!
Comments (21)Hi SG- thanks for the reference to Dr. Kummel. I will browse the vet library for her book. About the food trial and not being on meds- The problem with trying to assess a response to the food trial while the patient is on meds is that you'd expect the patient to get better because of the meds, regardless of the effect on food. And then you don't know if they got better because of meds or because of diet change. Truth be told, if food allergies are suspected, it makes sense to change the diet ASAP, and that's usually what happens. But you just can't assess the effects of the diet until the secondary problems (ear infection, hotspot, etc.) and meds (especially steroids) are cleared. When I was trying to get Aleksander's allergies under control, I switched his food while he was being treated for a hotspot and ear infection. He was on steroids at the time (he had food, environmental, and flea allergies- I have no idea which one set him off this particular time, but it was before he was allergy tested). His original diet was chicken and rice, and I knew beef didn't agree with him, so I switched him to lamb and rice. Because of the steroids, he wasn't itchy, and the antibiotics helped clear his ear infection and hot spot. But as soon as the meds were done, he blew up in a major way- worse he had ever been! Turns out, he was VERY allergic to lamb, and had been on it for a month while under treatment. But this time I switched him back to his original chicken and rice diet while he was under treatment for another hotspot/ear infection combo, and waited to start a novel diet after his treatments were done, and in the winter when his environmental allergies were not a factor. Turns out, he wasn't allergic to chicken or rice at all, and the first flare up was most likely due to environmental and/or flea allergies. I've seen similar things happen to other people too. Now when I suspect a food allergy with environmental allergies, I tell people to not bother doing an official food trial until whatever season the environmental allergies are at their lowest. But it doesn't hurt to switch foods before that, with the understanding that major flare ups in environmental allergies may require medical intervention and make us unable to judge the effect of the food....See MoreLooooong Story: Relationship Advice
Comments (11)- He’s caring - He’s fairly attentive - He’s practical - His family is wonderful and is accepting of me - He reminds me often to slow down when I’m stressed - He is honest - He is trustworthy - He would NEVER cheat on me (My frist serious relationship of 3 years I came to find out my ex had cheated on me with NUMEROUS women so this is a big one for me) - He is moral - He is ver patient in some ways, but not all. *********************** There are women who would kill to have a guy like that. *********************** I suppose I’m looking for suggestions on how to help him: Be more positive: How can he be positive when you're listing his faults? 2. Learn to love himself: Are you on him about that too? 3. Find his passion: Some people don't find it until middle age. I was 40 years old when I discovered mine. Some people NEVER find their passion, and that's why surveys find almost 70% of people don't like their job. 4. Get healthy: According to whom? You? What is so bad about his health? Does he smoke 3 packs a day like I did? Does he drink too much like I did? 5. Live in the moment: He is. He's happy just as things are right now. You're the one who isn't happy. 6. Be content alone: He grew up in a large family. He was never alone, and that thought can be frightening. 7. Be open to bonding over something other than TV: He HAS bonded. YOU haven't. 8. Not allow his negative feelings to upset me or make me feel inadequate: This last one is YOUR problem, not one of his faults. This is why people DATE and not move in after four seasons. You are realizing you're not compatible. Your personalities do not mesh. You have become rigid and he's laid back. Under normal dating circumstances you would just break up. But now you have property (things) that must be divided so you can go your separate ways....See More- 7 years agolast modified: 7 years ago
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