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maifleur01
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sad and regretful (warning, LONG post)
Comments (10)Your first obligation is the safety of your family. It sounds like the aggression is not only food-related situations. From your post it sounds as if the aggression is not something that only occurs infrequently. It doesn't really matter why Belle is exhibiting this behavior, what matters is what you do about it. Scolding her and sending her to her crate is not going to stop the behavior. Life is hard and you have to do what is best for everyone. Perhaps Belle would be better off with an owner who lives alone. I have an old gal who has "bitten" two children at my home. She bit the first at about age 6 when she began having problems with pain from hip dysplasia. These two incidents were precipitated by the kids teasing my old gal (still not acceptable). Old gal has never broken the skin on a person, she just gives a warning bite when she's had enough. She has never shown agression toward myself, DH or my daughter. If she had shown any aggression to my daughter, she would have been rehomed. I would not put up with that worry of not knowing if and when she would bite again. My gal has been with me since she was 3 months old and was rescued by me from an abusive home 12 yrs. ago. We have made every accommodation so as not to put any child at risk. We have locked old gal up when children were visiting, etc. The last incident was about 5 yrs ago. We had a family over for a bbq and swimming in the pool. Old gal knows that when there is company at the pool, she won't be swimming. All 3 dogs were in the yard, occasionally running up and down the fence line while we were in the pool. My friend's son kept putting his arm through the fence gate teasing with old gal. She just gave a bite on the top of his arm. No skin broken, but I was very concerned about the child and my old gal. I feel the parents weren't watching the child, but on the other hand, I should have been in control of my dog. She has never since been in a room with a child unaccompanied. This particular child had a small bruise on his upper arm. I felt as did the child's parents that if my old gal really wanted to, she could have torn the child's arm off before we could be up out of a chair and to the situation. She gave a warning bite and let go. (still not a great scenario) My nephew and neice 9 and 6 have been around old gal since they were babies and they know not to sit on her or tease her. There have never been any incidents with them. It seemed to be a stranger thing. Kids who were not common to our house. I did have our trainer come over and work with old gal after the last incident. This was about 5 yrs ago we started working with her again. We went back to her initial training and started reinforcing her with the common commands, sit, stay, come, etc. The trainer did comment that old gal was picking up on my anxiety about the children visiting and I needed to change some of my behavior when people visited with children. I haven't had anymore incidents, but I will say that the kids are older now that come to the house. There seems to be a problem with a certain size/age children with dogs that bite. They feel threated for some reason. A pack thing apparently as explained by the vet. I don't know how old your daughter is, or your dog (what breed), but I don't think I would keep Belle. You were very lucky that she didn't bite your daughter's face. She may not, but then again, there are no guarantees with a dog that bites. The aggression shown by Belle is directed at your husband and child (living in the house full time). I just wouldn't take the chance. I knew my old gal hadn't shown any aggression toward any of us and has never made any signs of aggression toward any extended family member. I guess what I am saying is - do you want to worry about your daughter's well being constantly? You also have to worry about anytime she may have a friend visit. It is a difficult situation to deal with. If you cannot make it 100 percent safe for your daughter and any other person visiting your home, you need to seriously think about finding a new home for Belle. Have you spoken to a professional about this behavior? There are alot of behavior specialists who you could consult for answers to what is best. I wish you the best of luck. I haven't been exactly where you have been since old gal hasn't ever been aggressive with DD, but I have experienced another parent's anxiety when old gal did her warning bite. Not good....See MoreFunny (and kinda sad) situation.
Comments (5)Ohhh...that's too bad! Yes, I can picture the family in swimsuits, inflatable toys, towels, flip flops, etc. Hope Plan B was fun, whatever it was. I guess we think when we don't see kids often, they don't grow or change, and we expect them to look the same as before! Our nephew stopped by and I almost didn't recognize him--he has turned into a very mature, handsome young man. So I know how surprised you were....See MoreEmery then....Emery now
Comments (33)He looks so good! Is this the one that you had to walk home because he would not get in the trailer? I was just telling someone about that story the other day. I am so grateful that there are souls like you in the world :^)...See Morehttp://blog.plantdelights.com/the-salvia-doctor-has-left-the-greenhous
Comments (1)So sad! I live in Greensboro yet didn't know about him. I hate that things became so difficult for what sounds like a very nice person....See MoreElmer J Fudd
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