here are the pictures!

i would also take the latin name.. and learn how to propagate it ... so you have multiples of grandma's plant ...

could we see a pic of the whole plant .... to decide if such is a good idea??

ken

assuming the ID is correct.. check out this: https://duckduckgo.com/?q=dracena+propagation&t=ffcm&iax=videos&ia=videos

and... you might get great info.. by following up in the houseplant forum ...

ken

It's not a dracaena - it's a Ti plant, Cordyline fruticosa, perhaps the variety 'Red Sister' but there are many with pink or red edges.

The suggestion to rinse well under a decent stream or spray of water is a good one. It will remove the spider mites as well as mealy bugs, should either be the case. The mealies may require a bt of encouragement for removal like swabbing down the leaves and stems to make sure you have gotten rid of as many as possible.

here are some more pics of the plant! thanks for the advice. i will get it in the shower-- may need to get some help as its rather big haha

i think it is a Ti plant! thank you. looks like i need to up my watering and humidity for her

and here is some more webbing... hopefully it is just a spider. i havent seen any actual bugs or cottony stuff since monday

i would propagate some smaller pieces ... being very aggressive in cleaning them [a much easier job] .. and when those have rooted.. i would get rid of the old monster ... and to be clear ... when they say rinse it with water ... they mean a spray just short of ripping up the tissue ... not just a low pressure rinse ....

i suspect they will root easily: https://duckduckgo.com/?q=Cordyline+fruticosa&t=ffcm&ia=videos&iax=videos

might be interesting to compare how similar the propagation is ...

getting a new plant rooted... is changing your very old plant.. into a vibrant new babe ... plus the new media.. etc ... by the time you are done.. you will probably have duplicates to spread all over the family ... or friends ....

and.. while i was rooting some cuttings.. i would leave the old plant alone .. until i succeeded with rooting new ones ...

btw: besides the webbing.. have you seen any other damage consistent with mites??? .. its called stippling ....

https://duckduckgo.com/?q=spider+mite+damage&t=ffcm&iax=images&ia=images

ken

https://hgic.clemson.edu/factsheet/integrated-pest-management-i-p-m-for-spider-mites/

If you're going to keep the original plant it needs a bigger pot.

I just use a spray bottle or pour water from a watering can when washing off a plant. I don't use anything high-pressure or strong enough to nearly rip the leaves!

Just the shower spray or kitchen faucet spray attachment will work perfectly well!! We are not talking power washer here :-)

"If you're going to keep the original plant it needs a bigger pot."

This is not necessarily the case at all. Root pruning will eliminate a need for constant up sizing with the pots. Many times there is a limt as to how large a pot one can manage easily and root pruning on a fairly routine basis is the way to accommodate that.