Making a career change at 57, going on 58.
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Comments (10)There are I think three sets of bolt patterns on the Tufftorq trannies. You pick one matching set of bolt patterns to match the chassis of your tractor. With that said, why not take Steve's suggestion above, or even try to find a 2007 model of this tractor. Some who have posted here said they've found new 2007 units in display rooms. It might pay to look around. If you buy the new tranny from Tufftorq, you're probably looking at better than $800.00 for the tranny, then you have to deal with mounting, linkages, etc. Not sure it would actually be worth it, especially when it comes time to trade/sell that tractor....See MoreMid life career change?
Comments (17)I'm full time. The only person in the office. I have a gal that comes in two afternoons a week to help with copying and filing. I'm supposed to get two weeks paid vacation. And for about the first 17 or 18 years the agreement was bonuses on larger settlements in lieu of COLA raises every year. (I've never had a cost of living, or any other, raise) When the economy tanked and people started settling their own cases to get the cash faster, the bonuses stopped. So did my vacations. If I call in sick or if I ask for a day off to maybe get away for a three day weekend, he calls me several times a day. When I'm not here, the office phone is call-forwarded to my cell, so I'm on call 24/7. He's even come to my house if I don't pick up the phone when he calls. I have to do relaxation exercises in my mind every morning before work to settle my stomach from stress. When I see his car pull up, my stomach just lurches. I told him last November I was booking this trip to see my mom. He actually told me "I don't think I can let you go unless your mom is dying or something ..." I booked the trip anyway and started looking around for another position. I knew it was bad, but was sure with my experience and people I know, that something would come up. Slim pickins out there right now. I can't take it any more. But he knows he's got me over a barrel because DH has been scrambling for work for about three years now and I don't have the option of just walking out the door like I did when our construction company was thriving. He treated me like gold ... until DH's company started getting slower and slower. When he realized I was dependent on this job (him) now, he started treating me differently....See MoreSuggestions for changing a career...
Comments (9)Would private school teaching be an option for her? If it's anything like here, it might pay less (a LOT less), but she might be able to shop around and find a school that aligns better with her philosophy of teaching. Or what about working in a college--even if she weren't qualified to be a full professor, there are jobs. And working at a college/university she'd probably have the added benefit of going for higher education free or at a reduced rate. Private tutoring--does Canada have the private firms that offer one-on-one help like America does? Has she considered getting back into writing? Either as a journalist, or working for a publishing house, or maybe even writing her own book It's really hard, though for anyone to advise another about job choice. Best advice you can give her is to really sit down and identify her strengths and passions, and then find a way to make them pay. She's really going to have to do this for herself, I'm afraid....See MoreIf you could go back and change one thing, what would it be?
Comments (46)I wouldn't have believed the societal message that the only honorable thing to do when having a baby, if you were unmarried in 1969, was to place that child for adoption, so he could have a "normal" stable, two parent home. It was not the best for him, nor was it good for me. The societal message was that it was the loving thing to do and the only way to redemption for the "sin" of pregnancy outside of marriage. That was immediately replaced by a new societal message: What kind of mother would give away her own flesh and blood? That "normal, stable" two parent adoptive couple divorced when he was 5 and he was raised by a single mother! I knew the minute I left my baby in the hospital and returned home without him that it was a mistake. But the adoption industry ($$) was so powerful, they would have young women believe that there was no turning back, no changing your mind. All lies. They had a baby to sell and there was no hope or help to fight them....See More- 7 years ago
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