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I guess Thanksgiving dinner is free this year!

7 years ago

I'm hosting Thanksgiving for 12 this year, and I made a large order on Amazon Fresh for delivery this morning. Well over $200 worth of food and it was supposed to be delivered between 7 am and 9 am. I've used Amazon Fresh numerous times with no issues.


Around 9:10 AM, I noticed it hadn't arrived yet so I checked the status, and it was marked as delivered! After looking around my house and asking other family members, I immediately called Amazon and they confirmed that it had been delivered at 8:30. I went outside while on the phone with Amazon and looked at the neighbor's porches. A large order like this would have been visible, and I didn't see anything.


Amazon was very apologetic and started working on a full refund. She was going to help me re-order and try to have it delivered today, but there were several items that were no longer available. I told her to just forget it, and do the refund and I'd go to the store. She apologized again, said I'd get a refund and if the groceries happen to show up, to keep them as a gesture of good will.


Thoroughly irritated (I didn't want to battle the crowded grocery stores for hours when my family who I haven't seen in years is in town), I decided to go talk to the neighbor. I had already checked his porch. He answered the door, and there were my groceries! His adult son recently moved in with him and he assumed they were for him. In his defense, he doesn't speak much English so I wouldn't expect him to read the labels. And Amazon delivered them to his door!


So, I have my groceries, and I have a full refund! I feel a little guilty that I didn't go talk to the neighbor first and discovered the issue, but I do feel it was their mistake to deliver $200+ in groceries to the wrong house! If my neighbor wasn't honest, he could have just kept them and I would have never known. So I'm relieved and happy to keep them with Amazon's blessing.

Comments (57)

  • 7 years ago

    How did my story change?

  • 7 years ago

    First you "looked" at your neighbor's porches. Then you decided to talk to a single neighbor where you located your groceries.


    Then you say you spent 30 minutes walking up and down the street going door to door.

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  • 7 years ago

    Yes, I looked at my neighbors porches while walking up and down the street while on the phone with Amazon. I have many neighbors, and I checked everyone on my street. I cannot see their porches from my house, so looking at their front doors involves walking. The associate asked me to look for the groceries but did not tell me to knock on the doors, so that's what i did. While on the phone and looking at the neighbor's houses, she issued the refund and attempted to re-order. I followed all of her instructions on places to look.

    I did not say I spent 30 minutes going door to door. I spent 30 minutes on the phone with the associate looking at doors, and then decided to talk to my neighbors directly after ending the call. I have two direct neighbors and I suspected the groceries were most likely with them, if they were delivered at all, since the addresses are the most similar. I started with the one I know the best, and lucked out. If he didn't have them, I would have kept going.

    I have spent thousands and thousands of dollars with Amazon, with a clean record. They know I'm not trying to scam them, and they responded appropriately. I'm pretty surprised at these responses and implications that I did something wrong.

  • 7 years ago
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    Chi, they didn't deal with it. Don't worry about it. Amazon screwed up.

    ETA: I too have ordered an uncounted amount from Amazon. I have only had one problem in years. They lost it at Christmas. I have only returned one item for a defect and one for my misorder (which I told them about). You have no problem.

  • 7 years ago

    My ethics would require a second call to say that the stuff had been found. While probably refund is already processed my conscious would be clear but that is just me.

  • 7 years ago
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    I did email them to let them know. The representative had sent a nice email apologizing and detailing the refund, and I replied to that. Mostly because I want the feedback to go back to the transport team so they can take steps to prevent this from happening again.

  • 7 years ago

    Amazon's mistake. Believe me, they afford to spot you $200 worth of groceries. I would have no qualms about it.

  • 7 years ago

    You have done more than they asked you to do. It was their mistake and a bad one especially since it was groceries and they could have spoiled. You don't need to do anything else. That is Amazon's policy. If they are responsible for the mistake and you are inconvienced they do exactly what they did for you. I have had similar problems and they did the same thing. They also told me not to worry about it if the product arrived somehow. Most recently they took a picture of the delivery at my door, that's very helpful. Especially if you see it's not your door!

    Go on with your family visit and your meal! Happy Thanksgiving!

  • 7 years ago

    Since your dinner is free, you might consider sharing the wealth with some of those less fortunate. Community food banks typically run low during the holidays.

  • 7 years ago

    They delivered to the wrong address, Chi attempted to locate the groceries visually, and also attempted to re-order. She could not know that the groceries had been taken indoors by the neighbor. IMO, since the neighbor presumably was not expecting an Amazon Fresh order, s/he should have looked at the delivery name/address and returned the groceries, or at least let Chi know s/he had them.

  • 7 years ago
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    He said he thought his son ordered them. He doesn't speak English well so I don't blame him at all for not reading the label. I'm not sure if he even knows my name, and 4 of the 5 digits of our street numbers are the same so it is an easy mistake. These grocery bags aren't clearly labeled like the boxes are.

    I'm sure once he talked to his son he would have let me know, but by then the groceries would have probably been ruined.

  • 7 years ago

    Seems like the delivery person and the neighbor have a problem reading labels.

    Enjoy the Amazon dinner!

    Please don't tell me your last name is Smith and the neighbor's is Shotzensteimer.

  • 7 years ago
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    I'd be interested to know what delivery service did this. I recently posted about problems I've had with on-trac misdelivering, or leaving things on the curb, outside my fence. Others in my area have complaints about them, too. No problems with USPS or UPS or FedEx, usually.

  • 7 years ago

    Lucky you! Amazon is very nice most of the time.

  • 7 years ago

    Enjoy your dinner with your family. It isn't like you were out to scam anyone. Amazon made the mistake and you did what you could.


  • 7 years ago

    Amazon has been AMAZING any time there has been a delivery/order error - whether on their end or mine...I have no complaints with their customer service, this is the only reason I continue to pay for Prime.

  • 7 years ago

    Raven mentioned that amazon took a picture of her delivery and sent it to her. That happened to me the other day. It’s a good thing I looked at my email before I left the house. The picture amazon sent me showed my package was left leaning against my closed garage door. If I had left the house before looking at my email I would have driven over it. My front porch is 5 steps away.

  • 7 years ago

    I noticed Amazon does that for packages. It's such a good idea! I asked her if they do that for the groceries and they don't. They really should.

  • 7 years ago

    I recently ordered a pair of shoes from Woot, an Amazon company. They were a brand I've worn before (Sketchers), so I was surprised to find they were too small. Woot has daily deals that sell out quickly, so I couldn't exchange them for another size. When I contacted them to ask about the return process, I was told my money would be refunded and I could do whatever I liked with the shoes. I gave them to a young friend who wears a smaller size than I. We both appreciated the generosity.

    Have a delicious Thanksgiving, Chi!

  • 7 years ago

    Enjoy the meal and your company.

  • 7 years ago

    You've been given a freebie....enjoy! and Happy Thanksgiving!

    I ordered a range hood last week from Amazon. It said it was out for delivery, I stayed home ALL day waiting for it....highly anticipated.....holding up my remodel.....and it never showed up. ;c( Next day it showed being "returned to sender". I called Amazon...no one knew why. No phone number to contact the 3rd party sender, they emailed them & later that day.... found it'd been damaged. So instead of OVER NIGHTING a new, undamaged one....they wanted me to reorder...start again. No refund until they had it back and processed.

  • 7 years ago

    When my grocer started home delivery I was beyond thrilled. With my first order I received a whole pork loin unordered by me. I quickly called the store and they said they couldn't take it back so keep it at no cost. I did not run up to the store and insist on paying for it!

  • 7 years ago

    Thanks everyone. My customer service agent replied again and said to please keep it, so no guilt whatsoever. :) She gave the information to the head of the transportation company letting them know they delivered to the wrong address, so hopefully some more precautions can be put into place.

  • 7 years ago

    >> Since your dinner is free, you might consider sharing the wealth with some of those less fortunate. Community food banks typically run low during the holidays.

    I wish I could "Like" this comment a million times. You got a gift. Pay it forward. Just a suggestion.


  • 7 years ago
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    I should give my groceries away? The biggest part of why I ordered was for the convenience, and because I need them. I do donate, especially during the holidays, but donating my Thanksgiving groceries because Amazon made a mistake doesn't make any sense to me.

    My charitable contributions aren't tied to my grocery shopping and aren't related to money I save elsewhere.

  • 7 years ago

    It's nice now and then to step outside our current "giving" campaign and do something that stretches a bit. To me, this would be a great opportunity for that. You were expecting to pay; you don't have to. Why NOT pay it forward?


  • 7 years ago
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    Yeah I am feeding 12 people in 48 hours and I need these. My family, who I haven't seen in years, is in town and I'm not leaving them to battle the crazy grocery stores for food I already have.

    I don't really appreciate the guilt trip. If you want to donate your Thanksgiving groceries, that's wonderful, but publicly shaming me for wanting to keep the groceries that I ordered is not very nice.

  • 7 years ago

    Chi, I agree with you. Your charitable deeds do not have to be prompted by this mixup. The groceries are yours; Amazon took responsibility for the delivery mistake. Keeping the groceries and accepting Amazon's graciousness should not be big deals or moral dilemmas. Enjoy your company and dinner.


  • 7 years ago

    Thanks happy, I will! I hope you have a lovely Thanksgiving as well.

  • 7 years ago

    Chi...I agree with you too.......it was unexpected...now enjoy it!


  • 7 years ago

    Chi, you did nothing wrong, except maybe the title "dinner is feee this year." Enjoy your thanksgiving dinner with your family,

  • 7 years ago

    You informed Amazon of the situation - it was THEIR choice to tell you what to do with the groceries... it's not like you lied to them about it. They said keep them so that's what you're doing. It's no one's business who or what charities you donate to.

    I went to the grocery store today briefly - it was a zoo! Stay home and enjoy your family!

  • 7 years ago

    LOL Some REALLY strange comments! Nothing wrong with what you did Chi, including the title of your post. They screwed up, they settled with you, you went out of your way and you notified them of the end result. There was a suggestion to (and I despise the term) "pay it forward" and it should be taken as nothing more than a suggestion. It's wrong for people to jump on you that you choose to not follow the suggestion. None of their business anyway.

    IDK who delivered it but they're the ones who screwed up. Amazon didn't screwup but they're the seller and it's their reputation that is tarnished when their shipper doesn't deliver properly. I'm glad to see you had a better experience with Amazon than I have. I'll never buy from them again. Bought a $150 Garmin GPS unit, it died in about 1/2 hour. They refused to replace, refund or give an RMA to return it. So for me, never again. I had never had to deal with a return to them but with this customer lack of service, they'll never get my dollars again and I bought a fair amount from them prior.

    Enjoy your gift. You earned it. You have nothing to feel guilty about. (Unlike others! lol)

  • 7 years ago

    Good for you, Chi! Enjoy your Thanksgiving.

  • 7 years ago

    That's surprising, cynic. Amazon's customer service has always been top notch for me. I'm amazed they wouldn't help you.

  • 7 years ago

    I detest pay it forward. So if I'm in line to get a black coffee and someone pays for it I am to pay for the one behind me that has 4 big over the top "coffees" and 4 big breakfasts? I don't think so.

    Amazon builds the mix-ups into their pricing structure. It costs them less to write off the mistakes, than to try to fix it. Not to mention, that since it is food, it is more than likely illegal to transfer food from one address to another.

  • 7 years ago
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    That's a good point, Sherry. I was thinking about how she never instructed me to ask my neighbors. Maybe it's a liability issue for them in case it goes badly.

    I doubt they can ask me to pay for groceries that ended up in someone else's home. It wouldn't be a safe policy for quite a few reasons.

  • 7 years ago

    Chi, speaking for myself, I never meant to imply you had done anything wrong. In fact, you did way more than expected of you first time around by checking out nearby porches. I just thought once you found out what had happened to the package it would be nice of you to let them know so they know where the weak link was, and I think after you E-mailed them what had happened, you probably felt better about the free Thanksgiving dinner. I never doubted that they would stick to their original gesture of keeping the groceries should they arrive, and keeping the refund when it arrives. It was not your fault it was delivered to the wrong address nor your responsibility to track it down.

  • 7 years ago
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    If you want to donate your Thanksgiving groceries, that's wonderful, but publicly shaming me for wanting to keep the groceries that I ordered is not very nice.


    No one suggested that. Like you said, you got your groceries for free. Why not donate a little of that free cash? Amazon screwed up; you benefited. Why not share the wealth?

    Like Suzieque I donate through the year, but kick in a little more around the holidays when the food banks typically run low.

  • 7 years ago

    Good for you Chi. Enjoy it. And don't let anyone guilt you into giving anything to anyone. Or feeling bad for not doing so. THAT is certainly no one else's business. What you do or do not do with YOUR money or YOUR groceries is YOUR decision. Geez.

    Have a great Thanksgiving.

  • 7 years ago
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    I have read the food banks run low in the off seasons when people are not thinking about giving. I agree, there are some strange comments on this thread. Guiltlessly enjoy your meal, Chi.

  • 7 years ago

    When at DD's home this summer, she noticed that the neighbor across the street had a box from one of those companies whom you order the foods to make a dinner. DD knew that they order from them weekly, but the family was at Disney World. She called the neighbors cell and explained what happened. Neighbor asked DD to take to her house and refrigerate til they got home. Neighbor did call company and cancel for the time they were gone, so no charge for them. Things happen!

  • 7 years ago

    Chi, I agree that you should enjoy your groceries, whether or not you make a donation. I think that is strictly up to you and is your business only! I guess that is just one of my biggest pet peeves and I am reacting strongly to all the suggestions that you donate. I give generously all year and nothing bugs me more than someone "suggesting" that I should donate to certain causes. Happy Thanksgiving!

  • 7 years ago

    I think you did the right thing, Chi. Enjoy your Thanksgiving!

  • 7 years ago

    Thanks for the support. I really appreciate it. Happy Thanksgiving to all!

  • 7 years ago

    I have read the food banks run low in the off seasons when people are not thinking about giving.


    Donations to disaster relief have spiked this year with so many major natural disasters. That diverts donations from local communities.

  • 7 years ago

    Oh please.

  • 7 years ago

    Sorry about the Amazon mix up. Glad it ended well and you didn't have to go to the store and brave the lines. Wishing you and yours a very Happy Thanksgiving.

  • 7 years ago

    I would just add that here, food banks are often overwhelmed with donation at this time of year. There are typically all kinds of food drives sponsored by local organizations and every grocery store of any size will have options to either donate cash (at the register when you check out) or purchase a $10 'gift bag' of who knows what. It is the other times of the year that they typically run low on donations.

    Also wanted to say that Amazon generally has an excellent reputation for returns or credits on misdelivered products!! They are usually very prompt and almost never ask you to return the merchandise. With over a trillion dollars in net worth, they can well afford to be magnanimous!!

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