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Comments (10)Kimmsr, this is a discussion about powdery mildew. This particular pathogen is unusual among fungal disorders in that it does not germinate in the presence of water. This is why spraying the foliage of PM susceptible plants can PREVENT an occurrence. It can also prevent an infestation from spreading. The spraying of the foliage is so effective that experts have been recommending it for generations for this particular disease. One only needs to spray the foliage briefly...no drenching at all. Just as misting a houseplant does not raise the humidity for any more than it takes for the droplets to evaporate...so does syringing foliage of a shrub. Other cultural activities aimed toward PM prevention include thinning a plant by careful pruning in order to boost sunlight penetration and air circulation, never overcrowding susceptible plants when planting, avoiding excess fertilization as well as shearing or topping of plants, practices that promote the kind of succulent growth that PM is able to infest easily. I've always considered PM to be almost entirely preventable, though there are some plant species that just seem determined to get it. Here is a link that might be useful: Powdery Mildew...See MoreHow do I bond with my stepdaughter?
Comments (12)"I give her love and I take care of her but it is so much harder for me to do those things than with my bio kids. I hate that about myself!" I can really relate to those feelings. I used to have them a lot. They were so intense at times, that I thought I was going crazy. I would feel overwhelmed with guilt because I found myself resenting when my SS was with us. I also noticed that I would be less patient with things wit SS than with my DD. I wouldn't show HIM this, but I could feel my blood pressure rising over things he did/didn't do that wouldn't make me blink an eye if DD did them. I think there is a biological urge/instinct that makes us much more tolerant of our own children. It IS a biological thing. It's the same mechanism that enables us to not be bothered by our newborn's cries, or to not be bothered by changing our child's poopy diaper. DD threw up in my car not too long ago and I didn't blink an eye---but if anyone else throws up, I GAG at even the thought! YUCK. We are genetically programmed to love, nurture and protect our own. THAT SAID... for this little girl's sake, and for your own sanity, you have to work through these feelings! And feeling guilty about your feelings will get you know where. What worked for me was slowing down, backing up and saying "why am I upset here? What is the real issue?" It has been my experience that when I'm frustrated about SF issues, there's usually a *deeper* reason than I initially think. If I am frustrated with SS, I can take a step back and realize that my frustration is more with DH or his BM. Just re-focusing my frustration or realizing that it's directed at the wrong person is usually enough for me to regroup and feel okay again. I wonder if you are resentful that your SD is coming to visit her DAD, yet you are the one caring for her most of the time. I know DH has to work, I get that, but I wonder if he couldn't have a more flex schedule when she visits, since it sounds like she's not there very often. I think you don't have a strong bond with her because she's not there enough. It's like babysitting someone else's child for you. (That may be too extreme, but you know what I mean.) So try not to expect too much. I know you want to love her and have your big, happy family, but realize that, given the limited time you have with her, this might never happen. I'm not sayign you can't have a loving relationship with her but if you expect it to be like the one you have with your own children, you are setting yourself up for failure. Give it TIME. I think counseling for you AND DH about blending families would be a GREAT thing....See MoreNext year will be a challenge, but I hope to overcome the challenges.
Comments (28)Well, one sister died before I could visit her. She was not the one we thought would go first...but had many good phone calls with her. I was able to visit the other. Full family wants to get together in a month or two for a full memorial for the sister who died. Unfortunately, I'll be in the middle of my recovery time for my surgery, so I may not be able to make it out of state to be there. (3 planes to get from Fargo to that area of Florida.) My surgery is in one week, and I am busy trying to ready the house (and me) for recovery. So much to do -- just have to bite off one thing at a time. Hopefully I'll be able to return to work (at least part time) by March. A comfort in my sister's passing is that she was not in pain due to the brain cancer. Her body functions just began malfunctioning and that was it. The other sister with ovarian cancer is not having that easy of a time, therefore the visit with her was not pleasant -- she is very bitter and surly. I'm hoping it is only her meds talking. It is draining to be around her. I'm making a mental note to be kind to all my nurses and doctors - no matter how I feel. I'm just glad I'll be in good hands. I'll keep you all posted....See MoreHere's Your Challenge for the Day!
Comments (22)You might consider City Lights. Mine is still very young, but I saw one on a local garden tour and it was stunning. 3 feet tall and over 6 feet wide, and it was practically glowing. If you prefer variegation, look at Satisfaction, very striking plant, and it gets quite large. Mine is nearing maturity, and it immense. Either of these will stand out beautifully in the garden....See Moretinam61
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