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Comments (13)How did we come up with Kotex, Pidge? I made the proverbial deal with the devil. You know, you negotiate the rules, but not the particulars, and you think you have all your bases covered, but you really don't? When we were getting a kitten, I knew Steve would want to name her "Hoser." For 20+ years, he's wanted to give that name to an animal. He even suggested it for Izzy. So I pre-emptively put my foot down. I told him he was not allowed to name our kitty Hoser, since it was a stupid name and a boy's name to boot (we knew we were getting a girl cat). I said he could name the cat, so long as he abided by my naming guidelines: 1) The name needed to be phonetically dissimilar from Jazmyn (Jaz) and Isabella (Izzy) so there would be no confusion. 2) The name should somehow relate... as in it should contain a Z... or even an X (I was imagining "Xena" as an acceptable possibility). 3) The name needed to be unmistakably feminine. ... and that is how I got a cat named "Kotex." Honestly, my eyes rolled a lot in the very beginning, but now I'm more amused than anything. It doesn't really matter to me what a cat is named anyway... I mostly just call them all "Kitty" regardless......See Morea new family member?
Comments (51)FairyGM, I have some pretty good advice on diet that has worked really well for me with exotics. Get your Hedgie from someone who has managed to breed them instead of a store. Right off the animal will be healthier. Then follow the diet that the parents did well on. (Don't get a baby from sickly looking parents even if you need a friend to come along and drag you away!) All of my exotics except one(pity purchase shame on me...) came from people who bred their animals out of love not money. My animals are so healthy and have very few issues that others have had with their exotics. It's so worth the search and the wait to find the healthiest animal you can! PJ...See MoreWe have a New Member
Comments (4)Welcome Shannon, My daughter doesn't do quilts although she loves them. She says what Mama does with fabric I do with paper. She likes to do cards. She is not technically a scrapbooker but she makes scrape books of pictures of the children and especially when all my grands come for their annual "Nana & Papa Camp" each summer. Hope the two of you have lots of fun quilting together. I think it is great. We do love pictures!! Sally aka Nana24...See MoreHow much do we pay our realtor/family member if we found the buyer?
Comments (16)As always, Denita is correct. Have you signed a listing agreement with your relative/agent? If yes, you are bound by the terms of the agreement. The listing actually belongs to the broker and not the agent. If you have not signed a listing agreement, you are not bound to anyone or anything. My guess is that you have signed an agreement in order for the house to be listed in the MLS. I negotiate for 4.5% and sometimes I get it. How it is split between brokers and agents is none of my business. Remember, real estate is the last of the great horse trades. You won't know unless you try. As a seller, I never pay more than 5%. I will set up a separate, lower commission arrangement if the selling agent brings the buyer. I'm not paying the full freight for that situation. If your conversation with the friend has been casual, you can say nothing to no one and allow the listing agreement period to lapse. Your relative may bring you a superior offer. It's not the most ethical way of doing things, but it's not illegal. Given that you found the buyer, not the agent, afterwards you can arrange for an attorney to draw up an agreement and pay the attorney for their services. If it were me. I'd wait to see if my relative brought me a superior buyer. If not, I wouldn't renew the listing contract. It's business. Family needs to perform to get my business. Would you accept less than stellar effort from a stranger? No....See More- 7 years ago
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