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Comments (12)Hi Olga, Years of gardening experience has thought me to use my garden hose to spray with a fine mist fresh water over the trees and their leaves. This must be done early in the morning before the sun is up. I just sprayed my fig trees this morning and for the past few mornings that are out with no covers on and sporting figs as well as leaves. I had about five days of frost to deal with. Just donÂt use a heavy spray that may knock off the young leaves. Be sure to spray every leaf so the frost is sort of washed off. Lou...See Moreoh boy... a cat happened to me tonight!
Comments (47)I certainly don't think I've stolen the cat. There are always posters of lost/found pets at the mailboxes, so I posted them on all the mail centers and in the stairwells of the apartments with e-mail address and phone number. If the people cared about the cat they could have put a collar with a tag on him instead of the crusty flea collar that I found him in. Jasper's vet is just down the street from the complex, so I will go there to see if anyone reported a lost cat. I've been waiting to have him vaccinated and neutered to see if anyone claims him yet, but I have an appointment for Monday at the low cost animal care shelter to get that taken care of. If I spend money on that and then someone claims him, they will have to reimburse me for the expense. They should have done it in the first place. I don't feel like a hero or a theif. If someone calls with an accurate description of the cat and pays me for the medical expense they can have it back. Until or unless that happens, I am going to be a good steward with the life that has been (even if temmporarily) entrusted to me by happenstance or the great Universe or whatever you believe in and enjoy every second of it. Maybe there are people on this forum who would rather me turn the cat back onto the streets so he can get run over by cars or eaten by predators in hopes that he will wander back to his original "owners". I placed an add on Craigs List. I've gotten 3 offers for Viagra and one offer to make a million dollars a month to work at home from a textile shop based in the UK. Then the add was flagged. There is a point at which you have to draw the line. Maybe I should quit my job and just knock on every door in the state until someone says the lost the cat I have found. Then I will be able to sleep at night since I'm such a horrible person! Some people!...See Morewho else is fed up with their reno? get it done and get out!
Comments (49)We started our remodel in January and it was supposed to be done by the end of May. Here we are halfway through July and have at least several weeks to go. We added a garden garage on the basement level and a family room above. We added a laundry room on the main level and expanded a big closet into another bedroom above the laundry room. We also annexed the old laundry room to add a desk and butler's pantry to the kitchen, swapped the kitchen sink and dishwasher locations, reused old cabinets, and added some new cabinets and new counter tops. My biggest problems have been the contractor's health issues, the framer's health issues, the trim carpenter's mother's health issues, rainy weather, and bad attitudes. Also, money. The general asked for a payment in advance of when it was due (red flag) because he had bills due on other jobs that were done before mine. All of the subs have told me they won't work for him again because he doesn't pay. I'm preparing lien releases this afternoon. Also, I purchased most of the items that were in allowances (like kitchen cabinets, counter tops, appliances, lights and plumbing fixtures, carpeting) myself because I got better prices on everything or at least could get what I wanted when the suppliers for the general didn't have what I wanted. When I said I was going to subtract the money that I was out-of-pocket for the allowances from the second draw, he flipped and said that would be a breach of contract. I did some quick calculations and figured if I went ahead and paid the entire draw, I wouldn't owe anything at the end, so I stupidly did pay it all. Now, with all the mistakes that have been made, I think he will end up owing me money at the end! Here's a short list of the problems. They poured the foundation wall for the laundry room wrong and now the laundry room (and the bedroom above it) are 6" less deep than they should have been. They poured the floor of the garden garage sloped the wrong way so it doesn't drain if we get water in there. Then they cut grooves in the floor so water would drain when we washed off the mower, but they are crooked and jagged and overlap at the doorway leaving a little "pillar" of concrete that will surely break off. They left the downspouts off the front of the house for months, so with all the heavy rain we've had, all the water washed under the foundation and soaked through the walls of the garden garage, ruining the drywall and paint with mildew. The gutter installer ran a downspout so it washed uphill on the new family room roof and caused a water leak the first time it rained after that. They had to repair the drywall and repaint half the room, as well as extend the downspout to the gutter below as it should have been done. The electricians installed a ceiling fixture 10" out of alignment with the one across the room it was supposed to line up with. Now they have to move the fixture, repair the drywall, and repaint the ceiling. They tore up the daylight drain that ran across the backyard and caused it to plug up. Wasn't a problem until it got hot and we turned on the air conditioner. Then the condensate had nowhere to go and flooded a room in the basement. They tore up the TV cable that ran across the yard even though I told them where it was before they started. They also tore up the dog fence wire in several areas. Now they say we are responsible for getting them repaired. They put vents to the outside in the crawlspace under the new laundry room, but they are blocked off with tyvek and now the whole basement smells "like a basement". The plumber was re-routing the pipes under the kitchen floor for the sink/DW swap and got called away to an emergency. He didn't come back to finish that day and when one of my kids took a shower upstairs that evening, water started pouring into the floor of the kitchen and the ceiling of our theater room in the basement. Luckily I got my hand over the open end of the pipe before it flooded the electronics, but the ceiling was ruined and the chairs and carpet got wet. In his favor, the plumber came back that night to cap the pipe that was accidentally left open. I could go on and on, but you get the idea. If I'm not standing watch every second that someone is working, something gets done wrong. Yet I overheard the drywall guy say to another sub, "I wish [the GC] would grow some b---s and not let the homeowner get involved in our business." This from the guy who slung drywall mud ten feet away so it got on kid's toys that should have been well out of harm's way. He also tracked it all through the house on our hardwood floors (that are not being refinished) and did a lousy job to boot. I'm so done with these morons. I've lost my sense of humor, I don't trust anyone, I just want my kitchen back. If I hadn't overpaid, I'd tell them all to get lost and hire someone else. A word of advice to anyone else contemplating a remodel, put deadlines and penalties for not meeting them, into the contract. Add that things you buy on your own get subtracted right away from the allowances....See MoreBad cat fight broke out tonight!!!
Comments (10)I just had to respond since Ive been enduring this sort of thing for... gulp...ten years. So maybe Ill just start off by saying -it wouldnt hurt to just start putting out feelers for someone with whom you can rehome the younger kitty,while shes still young. Dont feel you have to give her away to the first taker or anything like that - but if you come across someone you like and trust who could take her and make the situation better for all three of you - well, that could be the best thing. While I like what Anzz wrote and would certainly try it out, I have to say I regret not rehoming my aggressor early on- I just kept thinking it would work out but it never did- and I really was and still am fond of the little devil and really really wanted it to work. So now Im kinda stuck because people generlaly dont want old cats over 10 and with health issues (yeah I did ask around recently). I now have screen doors up in my house and keep them separate on a permanent basis - they'll sniff each other butts as they are switching places throught the day but thats about it for contact. Since my older boy ( the one getting picked on) now has some health issues that are exacerbated by stress (eg the presence of the other cat) I do regret not being able to give him a better more peaceful home. He kinda has his own space in the basement which helps - hes so relaxed and king of the castle down there. Its like night and day. If I didnt have that kind of space to give him, I would be up a creek. BTW, what you are seeing is aggressive behavior on the part of your young cat. Cat aggression can be subtle and we humans can easily miss it or mistake it for playing. It can take the form of stalking, staring, poking with a paw, guarding the litter box (or food dish or any resource like a favorite chair or your lap). She's not a "bad" cat, she's just doing what nature intended - Ive heard two females are like two males - ie more likely to not get along than 1 male + 1 female. Pam Johnson writes a lot about inter-cat conflict - even as a long time cat staff person, I learned a few things. Bradshaw's Cat Sense is good too. Finally, some good science based info on cat behavior....See More- 8 years ago
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