Greyish doesn't go with the warm tones you already have.

What would you recommend then? The walls on our main areas of the first floor including the kitchen are Revere Pewter.

Agree that grey will not work for your kitchen. Everything is warm toned (Revere Pewter is a greige), like the floors. Also, with small kids maybe it's time to get the cooktop off of the island. In a kitchen that size the separate ovens/cooktop is wasting precious space and the DW being no directly next to the sink isn't optimal.

IMO save up some more and do a full kitchen redo. The whole layout is off, and potentially dangerous for kids that young.

It seems you are getting caught up in the whole gray/white trend. It will not work in your kitchen as a partial remodel.

Thanks for the feedback everyone. We moved this past year and yes, it’s a terrible kitchen layout. Unfortunately I know that my husband will not ever do a total kitchen remodel. We just don’t know how long we will live here to make it worth it. We made the mistake of doing WAY to much to our last house and ended up moving after only 1.5 years. We will be rotating the cooktop so that it is still in the island but instead face the fridge. There’s no way to put it elsewhere without getting all new cabinets, I tried. I see what you are saying with the grey, and maybe I should have said lighter counter as I’m not tied to grey, just something a little brighter. Is there any lighter granite that works well with Ooba Tooba?

My main question is still do I only do the island counter or do I do the entire kitchen’s counters to be uniform?

The island can be different, just make sure it coordinates well with the existing counters and the cabinets.

If you don't know how long you will live in this house, DO NOTHING right now. I know - it's hard when one hates it, but you're talking a gut job to get it right, and perhaps even then you won't have the space to do what you want.