I need to rant about my frustration in growing roses
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Comments (15)NM girl, Rain is strange stuff that we are actually getting some of this year!! Thought it would be going off your way, think we have had 4 storms since 1st of year. 7 in. on last 1 so should end our drought especially when area we get our water from has 51 in. of snow on the ground they said tonight. Supposed to last until some time fri. Hope it doesn't wash all my seeds & plants away. Have a bunch of flowers I got from Home Depot this morning as pansies were 99cents 6 pack & needed some verbena(love it) & other plants to replace stuff that froze, hope it doesn't freeze again.Usually by this time it doesn't but never know any more. Filled my rain barrel so I'll have some good water to water my new plants. I'll blow rain your way!! Jan...See MoreMy rant about online shopping
Comments (16)Olychick: I'm pretty sure Washington state's law (and Maryland's and maybe a couple of other states') refers to deceptive practices, not places that mistakenly send the wrong merchandise. Somebody at O clearly pulled the wrong item (reading- or vision-impaired?). Most times, at least regarding Amazon customer service, the merchant just tells the customer to keep the wrong item -- because the processing efforts aren't worth the money to the merchant -- but the OP would be hard-pressed to claim anything deceptive went on here. (Even if the item sold out before she could get it.) It's not a "gift." A gift is those personalized mailing labels that arrive in your mailbox with a letter saying "Won't you please donate to our cause in exchange for us sending you these lovely address stickers?" with the undertone of harassment. (And then some people do, feeling guilty.) Here's something from the Fla. atty gen's office: "If you believe that the unordered merchandise is the result of an honest shipping error, contact the seller and offer to return the merchandise provided the seller pays for postage and handling." (It goes on to say you should tell the seller -- in writing -- that after 30 days of no action, you will have no further responsibility for it.)...See MoreClothes shopping size frustrations (Rant alert!)
Comments (9)Have had the same experience with purchasing clothes all within the same manufacturer and size, being completely differently sized than the tag. However, if you take the time to read the Made In " " tag, our clothes are now sol made in China and Indonesia, or most anywhere but the US. These US designer/companies send the work out to labor intensive sweat shops that pay their workers pennies. There are kids working full time in some countries. They aren't given the opportunity to go to school even if their village may happen to have one. The families need everyone to work to keep a home that many on the decorating forum would not feel fit to camp in, let alone live. Cheap labor begets crappy quality control. I don't think complaining will do much, now if we were to boycott enmasse, then it may be noticed, but how difficult would that be to organize? I absolutely hate to shop and do most of it online. I've noticed my need to return for size being my number one reason for doing so. I've always stuck with the stores that I can confidently order a size 8 and that size 8 will fit. No more. That size 8 may fit like a 10, 12 or 6, totally frustrating. Last bit of rant. I haven't notice the designers lowering the cost of their clothing as it was being assembled in countries where the workers are paid next to nothing. Anyone else notice deep discounts because of not being made in the USA?...See MoreMy rant about pet/house sitting
Comments (48)Hi Iris (duz the "S" stand for "sucker"?), It seems to me that a good variety of useful and friendly advice has been offered. Question 1. Has your husband been an active participant in carrying out these chores related to his family? Or mainly a passive participant as he listens/ed to your squawking? Or did you feel uncomfortable in asking even that participation? Question 2. If these issues were resolved in a manner which left you feeling appreciated, vindicated and fully comfortable, would you be willing to continue to participate? These chores, fertilized by some concern, grew to some frustration in your heart, which grew into anger with all of this unappreciated load of choring care, following the birth. What level of awareness do the perpetrators have of your feelings regarding this unappreciated new addition to the family/ies? (Also, your husband?). How would you relate to a suggestion that you think for a while on the history of this increasing frustration, writing the detailed history down from time to time? Give some thought to it, regarding which issues are essential and which incidental. What parts/proportions of it do you feel comfortable with sharing with hubby ... probably from time to time - and probably orally, rather than having him aware of the treatise with all of its details on one potentially confrontational occasion. Sort through which issues that you feel that you must deal with with the pet owners, which ones have priority, which one would appear to need to be dealt with first, etc. ... and whether better to deal with them all on one occasion, or spread out over a period. One way or another, if you don't get them dealt with to a level with which you can feel comfortable, it would almost certainly lead to further frustration for you if you agree to continue. Even if you don't, I think you need to get at least part of this rather serious issue at least partly dealt with, in the interest of building an ongoing good relationship among the family members, long term. Good wishes as you work through this part of life's journey. I hope and pray that you can get it accomplished with a good spirit on everyone's part throughout. ole joyful...See Moretoolbelt68
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