They do not think they will age but will always be young and active. When my niece was living with us many years ago I noticed a change in the party schedule from either going immediately to a get together or home, change clothing then go to starting partying at 9 or 10. Closing the bars at 3. We probably would have if bars closed that late. We often partied at events that lasted until almost dawn. Ate what would be a full meal then went home and slept for an hour. Then got up showered or splashed water on our faces then off to work a full 8-9 hours then started again. Continuing until worn out or married with kids.

I have wondered if it was our full fat, high protein meal in the middle of the night that gave us the energy. With all of the healthy foods that are supposedly eaten by the younger set, late teens through mid 30's,I have wondered if the needed nutrients for an active life are just not there.

Perhaps someone on here can give an outline of the schedules of the young generation.

I suspect the problem is a total lack of conversation skill because they're glued to their phones instead of actually interacting with other people. they may have been told or know they should say something, but after first sentence, they're at a total loss.

"what's wrong with them?"

What age are you talking about? High school? College? Post-college?

One thing to consider is that life is pretty stressful right now for young people. High school is ultra competitive between AP classes, extracurriculars and part time jobs for many students. College tuition has increased ridiculous amounts and many college students have to work full time and study full time, when in earlier decades they might have gotten away with just studying or working only part time.

Post-grads working retail are likely stressed because they can't find a good job in their field, most of their money goes to student loans, the cost of living is sky high in many areas. They might have young kids (which is exhausting in itself) or financial issues.

Stress can cause very nasty physical effects, including exhaustion. It can make it more difficult to eat well and to sleep soundly, which can contribute to fatigue.

Maybe instead of assuming they are partying, you could ask them why they are tired. You might be surprised!

I think a lot of it is poor diet. Too many carbs and sugars. And yes, no social interaction or such that causes them to be excited about anything in the future.

I'm with jemdandy, except that I reply "Upright".

There is some people I don't even ask how they are or they will go into a long list of their ailments and problems. In general when a stranger asks how you are they really don't want to know. "I'm fine" should be the automatic answer. Sometimes with friends I jokingly say " I woke up this morning and didn't read my name in the obituaries. So I'm fine" What are those young people going to do when they start having babies? Talk about being tired.

Reminds me of Dave Ramsey's "Better than I deserve" when asked that question.

I always ask people how they're doing at my job. These are not usually"young"people. I usually get a sigh or a moan and a "I'm here" or "Still alive."

I always reply with a wave of my hand and a "You're fine." It always cheers them up. Some of them come in now and ask me "Am I still doing fine? Just making sure."

I have noticed that younger people are getting more and more self pitying or wanting special treatment for everyday stuff or their own choices. (I am 33,so i consider myself young) My sister,who is 4 years older than I but still young loves to say "I have 6 kids!" As an excuse for everything. Uh,whose decision was that? Or when a full grown adult brags "I take care of MYSELF. I pay my OWN bills." Who else is supposed to do that for you? Dang kids.

Lots of the 'young people" I know are working 2 (or more) jobs, usually part-time with little control over their schedules. If they are still in school, that's another job. Or paying off student loans. Or trying to support a family.

Are you talking mainly about checkout cashiers? Maybe they are just tired of asking and having to answer that same question over and over every few minutes for several hours every day.

When I'm asked that, I usually answer "I'm good, how about you?". And I almost always get a simple, positive answer, such as "Me, too!". I don't think I've ever had a cashier complain about being tired.

Rusty