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Comments (5)What a wonderful gift you and your family gave to your surprise guest, and in turn, she gave one to all of you by her acceptance and enjoyment at what must have seemed strange to her. Shy, I, personally loved the part where the "daugter of the Matriarch wants to take on the part of doing the feast." Now, that I think of it, I, too, am the Matriarch of my family and will gladly become just a guest--welcome, I hope--at family gatherings! :>)...See MoreGift Etiquette Question
Comments (34)Look at just this string and see the vastly different approaches people have to gifts, and you will see why it is a terrible mistake to read into the gift of someone with a different style from yours some meaning that simply isn't there. It reminds me about a story about my parents-in-law. She was good at crafts, and she made a lovely Valentine card for him. When he came home that night without anything for her, she ripped up the card and threw the pieces at him. (I don't know how old she was when this happened -- she could have been anywhere from 22 to 50. She actually tells this story herself.) Now, of course I understand that she was disappointed and hurt. But when I heard this story, I thought (but, don't worry, didn't say!) that not only was her response extremely childish, she was foolish and narcissistic to assume that just because SHE made a big deal out of Valentine's Day, it was a big deal to HIM, too, and his forgetting it meant what it would have meant if SHE had blown it off. Some people are expert gift-wrappers and spend a lot of time and effort on that and on finding the perfect card. That's lovely, and I'm not criticizing them. But if you get a gift from me, it will probably not be beautifully or creatively giftwrapped, and there probably won't be a purchased card to go with it. It's simply not my strong suit. Please don't judge how I FEEL about you from that, even if you do it differently. I think that even when we are disappointed, it's a good idea to try to "translate" what we think we are hearing into the "language" of the person in question. It often changes how we feel. Amyfiddler, your "favorite things" basket sounds like a WONDERFUL gift!...See MoreGift Question
Comments (12)I think you should go ahead and buy her the small gift too. Otherwise, she's sort of cheated. Look at it this way... It doesn't really matter who it is from but all the other girls will get a big gift (say for $25) AND a small gift ($5) totalling $30; If she'd only get a big gift ($25) then she'd be shorted the extra $5 and she and the others would probably secretly hope you don't get them next year because they'd only get one gift -- LOL Really though, it sounds like the gift exchange is something totally separate and your wanting to give a little something to everyone for Christmas is a different thing altogether, right?; I would say either don't give those extra gifts at all, or be sure to include her....See MoreMemorable wedding gift ideas....
Comments (25)We attended a wedding last year; it was at a lovely seaside hotel. I sketched a view and framed it as a gift (but many places have/sell cards, drawings, etc. that might make nice framed gifts) either of the venue or church. Was also thinking to screen print (they can digitally print on fabrics now) the latitude and longitude of the wedding location (kind of an outdoor sunbrella type fabric pillow) ... but that could be engraved onto a glass or cutting board...so its a bit subtle but a memento. Congratulations an hope its a great fun summer!...See MoreAva
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