Help going crazy - can't afford to buy in the neighborhood we already.
JL (Zone 6B MA)
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Comments (24)Thanks again to everyone who shared their thoughts! After a long talk with our builder (who's walked the property with us -- after a week of rain!), we've decided we're probably going to go with this lot. The builder felt that the low spot is far enough away from the house that it will be a nonissue. Further, he suspects that the reason this guy dug the trench was to make it easier for him to mow his lawn -- to channel the water into one area rather than have it spread across a wider area of lawn. As the builder pointed out, he's uphill from us anyway ... the water was -already- going to end up on "our" property. It's just doing so in a more concentrated area now. I said, "So if we told you that we bought this lot and decided not to deal with the trench, would you think we were crazy?" He said, "Not at all -- if I were buying it, I wouldn't worry about it, either." In the minutes I found from the board meetings, the neighbor's anger issues apparently stemmed from him being asked to do some things he felt were unsafe. (At his jobs, not at the meeting -- the behavior was just discussed at the meetings.) Of course, there are two sides to every story, and we're unlikely to ever know the whole story, but I'm willing to give him the benefit of the doubt. So, pretty much the only thing we have left to resolve is the fact that this area has a drain assessment coming up. (My ex-boyfriend is a county commissioner and tipped me off about that!) We need to figure out the amount of the assessment and who's going to be paying for it -- the current owner may already be on the hook for it, which would obviously change our offer somewhat....See MoreWWYD? Crazy dog in neighborhood.
Comments (29)Well, having had a dog that was aggressive towards strangers, I totally disagree with some of the above posters who say it's the dog owner's fault totally. I spent hundred's of dollars on trainers, behaviorists, rescue remedy etc. My dog had a screw loose. He was wonderful with our family and my young children. He just didn't see any reason for anyone else to come into our yard or house. It was very stressful having Kobe because I had to know where he was at all times. He had to be crated, or on his leash if I knew someone was coming over. He finally bit my neighbor - not a terrible bite, but enough to break the skin. I called up the breeder where I had gotten him and explained I couldn't keep him. She told me, "His daddy was always difficult around strangers too." I was like - who breeds a dog with a bad temperament? Anyways, she took him back, they live out in the country on a farm and since he was so well trained, they kept him in their house as a pet. I agree 100% that your neighbor needs to take action and probably have the dog put down. That was what I was going to do if the breeder wouldn't take him back. My dog's main problem was he was extremely fearful of people, and when he felt threatened, he became aggressive. He wasn't a mean dog, just saw things as threatening when they weren't at all. I cried more tears over this dog - he loved us all to death, and I loved him too. He just couldn't handle living in suburbia. I couldn't give him up to someone who didn't understand him because I was afraid they'd become violent with him when he lunged at people etc. Amazingly enough, he did well back on the farm where they didn't want any strangers just walking up their road or coming to their house. I also have to say, the comments about electric fences are just silly. Electric fences are for keeping your dog in your yard when they go out to pee, or to let them run around untethered. They are not designed to have a dog stay outside 24x7. Any dog who cannot be trained to stay within an electric fence has other training issues. My crazy dog Kobe was excellent in his fence. He just didn't like it when anyone came inside HIS fence. My current dog's collar just hangs like a necklace - he wouldn't even get shocked if he went through. He knows his boundries and when he hears the clicking warning sounds, he knows he can go no farther. I do agree that they do not protect your dog from other dogs or predators - but that's why I would never leave my dog outside for long periods of time or without checking on him. Many people can't have a fence due to trees around their property line or the sheer size of their yard. The electric fence is a great tool to allow your dog running room without them having to be on a leash....See Morewhat about people who can't afford medical care for their pet?
Comments (55)What about when its too late to not get a pet? I have one and he was recently diagnosed with epilepsy, this was after $3000 worth of test and that was our last bit of money. now he's getting bad seizures and we had to do emergency vet care that we knew we couldn't afford and we are now another $600 in the hole and this is just the beginning. we can't afford this. We love our dog and are broken up over this and we don't know what to do. we are worried we won't be able to find someone to take him from us that can care for him properly and we know that we can no longer care for him properly. So far we can't find anyone to take him and if we keep him that means when he has more problems or more seizures since the medicine doesn't completely keep them from happening it just controls them to make them less severe, so when he does have them we can't afford to take him in to the hospital when he has more than 4 in a day (he has cluster seizures). We are very torn as to what to do, it seems as though euthanizing him may an option because what kind of life is that if he needs medical attention we can't give him because we don't have the money....See MoreWe did it again, are we crazy ?
Comments (17)I lived in Boynton Beach FL for 8 years - 1 year in Deerfield Beach. We never had a pool for a gator to wander into, but what I remember was people who lived along canals having their dogs snatched and eaten by the gators. I think you'll use that screened in area - I remember the mosquitos and love bugs making outdoor activities bothersome at certain points of the year. When picking out your new home choices, keep in mind your air conditioning preferences. In FL, unlike CA, it is very humid. You need to run your air almost year round - maybe not so much in the winter, but the humidity gets into your house and the air - even if you keep it high removes that moisture from the air. I personally love travertine floors in homes in florida, or good indestructible tile. Laminate isn't a favorite of mine because I don't like the clicky sound it makes when you walk on it with shoes. I'm sure there's some better than other ones out there, I'd just be careful of any with wood backing if you're not an air conditioning kind of person. My husband is dying to move back to Florida! I told him we had to wait until DS3 graduates as he's a big hockey guy and hockey teams are pretty scarce in Florida. So, he's greasing the skids talking DS3 into going to college in FL so we won't feel bad moving away and leaving him if he goes to school in Ohio!...See MoreJL (Zone 6B MA)
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