Estimators came...and I am DREADING this. Talk me down off the ledge!
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Comments (8)Manhatten, Can you please clarify why you would run from me? I am not trying to be a difficult client so if there is some different way I should be going about this, I would like to hear it. bdeck, I get it, you reminded me of some of our issues. On the spec sheet the builder specified a 4 inch deep 20x20 slab outside of the garage, only our garage is 32 feet wide. When I asked about it I was told that they just needed to redo a few things then. There were multiple issues like that. It took 5 requests to get a drain in the garage added. brickeyee, the unlimited changes were to be free from charge. The design phase is $2000 and included designing our house with unlimited changes. I asked clearly that no matter how many times I come and change it. They agreed, that was all in the price. They were clear that the changes may affect the price of the build, for example changing for bigger square footage, more expensive finishes, etc... but all changes made before we move to the next step (and contract) were included in that $2000. I am fully aware that several of our changes will increase the cost of the build, which is not the problem. My concern is that even though he repeatedly (and in the contract for this phase) said that there were no charges for changes made to the plans at this phase, he then changed and said there would be charges for more. If he's willing to do that, then what else are they going to try to change later? pps, it is a fixed price contract....See MoreI think I am losing the me that used to be!!
Comments (13)Hi figgits, I've been coming to this forum for about six months now and have posted several times. I'm afraid your symptoms sound exactly the same as lots of other people on here including me. I was always fit and healthy until I hit my forties and I have to tell you its been all down hill since. I have been tested for just about everything and was diagnosed with fibromyalgia at one point but I think they were completely wrong about that one. Some months I can go without any symptoms and then I have loads all on top of one another. The list is endless including hot flashes, crashing fatigue, nausea, tingling in extremities, headaches, skin crawling which feels as if there are little bugs running over my scalp, weird "spaced-out" feelings like I'm not quite here, crying for no reason, extreme mood changes, feelings of dread......and now in the past few weeks I'm cold all the time! I have had all this in the past 8 years and will be 50 tomorrow. I was hoping it would all have stopped by now but unfortunately not. I too feel like I am no longer the person I used to be and I know my husband thinks the same. Thankfully he is really understanding and tries his best to keep things light and humourous but I know he would like it all to end. Sorry if I've depressed you now but this forum has been a godsend for me cos I know I'm not going mad and imagining it all. I've found some supplements that work for me they don't for everyone so its a case of trial and error as far as they go. I did take HRT for a while but it sent my BP sky high and my GP took me off it. Try keeping a diary with the times you feel bad and when you feel ok and I'm sure you'll find a pattern emerge. I don't know if your period has stopped ofr if you're peri but I didn't have a period for nine months last year and was beginning to feel a lot better then WHAM back it came at the beginning of this month and the bloody symptoms have started again. I agree with Lucretzia about sleeping in the coldest room possible cos that works for me, it helps keep the pillows cold as my hot flashes start at the back of my neck. Theres a post on this forum about hormones and there affect on the hypothalamus but I can't remember who wrote it. If you can find it its really interesting and may help you understand whats happening to you cos it did me. I've gone on a bit but I find it helps to know you're not alone with crap. If there's such a thing as reincarnation I'm coming back as a man!...See MoreTalk me off the pickled cabinet ledge...
Comments (32)Here's my old kitchen Our upstairs bathrooms still have these cabinets. Believe it or not, I selected these cabinets w/the gray countertops when we built in '95. I actually still kind of like them...something light but not white. However, I much prefer my new cherry cabinets....we couldn't afford cherry cabinets back in '95 so this was the next best thing (I'm not a fan of the lighter woods/stains). They were cheap builder's grade (AristroKraft) cabinets and didn't hold up very well over the years. (What you can't see is the drawers no longer working properly, sagging drawer fronts, doors not staying shut...we had to replace several hinges over the last few years.) BTW...All that clutter...will NOT be happening w/the new kitchen. I've already put my DH & kids on notice that "cleaning up the kitchen" means putting away dishes, condiments, etc! Bottom line...if you love the rest of the house, don't let something so changeable like cabinet color keep you from buying it! If the cabinets are still solid I would not hesitate to paint them and "work" with them for a while. Paint the walls. Add some live plants. Add decorative touches that are "you". There are so many things you can do to change the look of a room...even a kitchen! [Not that you are, but don't launch into a full-blown remodel until you've lived at least one year with the kitchen to get to know it...what works, what doesn't. Luckily, the layout/design doesn't look too bad.] HTH and Good Luck!...See MoreSecond-guessing, talk me off ledge AKA charging station in drawer?
Comments (9)Thanks, beagles! You pretty much confirmed my suspicion about a charging drawer. Scratch that idea. MamaRachel, my DH is the same way so while I like the idea of putting charging items behind a door, I wonder how well that will work IRL for us. Crazy as it may sound, I'm tempted to forgo the doored cabinet and leave that lower section open. It would be similar to these hutches: I like the division of 3 spaces below the glass doors. I'd get a simple napkin holder or basket (as shown in the pic above) for bills. lol, I found a pig napkin holder at PB! Pity I don't have a towel pig to go with it. But I kinda think DH would squash the idea of a pig napkin holder. ;-) Anyhoo, in preparation for remodeling the kitchen, we moved the filing sorting trays to the den, which is actually a good place for them to reside permanently since that's where the file drawers are. Maybe I don't need a bunch of cubbies in the kitchen hutch after all. I'd also get a decorative basket to hold items as they charge. That would put them out of sight, MOL, but accessible, a plus if the phone rings. The other option - and I need to wait for our GC to see if it's possible tomorrow - is to add a USB outlet to the 9" deep cab opposite the entry aisle from the hutch and use a shelf in that cab for a charging station. Maybe simple is the way to go. I'll talk to DH tonight and see if we can make up our minds. Thank you, everyone!...See MoreRelated Professionals
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