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Comments (6)Start greeting them on the stairs and in the hallways. After that, make remarks about the weather or the local sports team or whatever is generally known in your area. Smile. Ask their names. Or ask where a good pizza place is in the neighborhood or the best lattes or where to do your laundry. From the title of your post, I'm not sure if you are recently divorced or recently moved from a house to an apartment or both. Could you clarify that? But don't count on finding a best friend in your apartment building. I've always tried to maintain a friendly relationship with my neighbors. Or as I joke about it, "If they heard screams coming from my place, the least they'd do is pick up the phone and dial 911." In other words, pleasant and friendly, but not necessarily drop-by-any-time-friends. Just like people who live in houses, some people will be very friendly back. And some won't. And some will be in-between. I've had people living next door whose names I did not know. And I've found a best friend right next door--but that only happened once. Look for friends both in your building and outside. Try the library. Try local parks. Say "Hi!" to people you see. Chat up folks at the laundromat and bus stop. Honestly, you'll be lucky if you find one good friend in your building. But you might find several people who will be acquaintances or at least friendly. And you might meet more people through them....See MoreLost one remembered 32 years later
Comments (2)What a nice post, Kim. I know what you mean about grief customs, or failure to acknowledge it, years ago. I was a child when my mother died suddenly--omigod, 50 years ago. No one seemed to want to talk about it, and the few times someone brought up my mom there would be tears, so I didn't want to be the cause of that. I had no brothers or sisters. In adulthood, I read some of the book Motherless Daughters, which said it's so much better to talk about the loss, and especially good if a child has siblings to process the loss with. I think we know so much more about feelings these days. Just watching Oprah or Dr. Phil is a bit of an education... Susan...See MoreExactly one half of rose tree is bald!?
Comments (6)For what ever reason the graft on that side of the rose died. There isn't anything you can do about it now unless you know how to bud roses and can add some new grafts to that side of the tree. I've tried this but it has never worked for me. In zone 6 it's iffy whether a rose tree can survive planted outside. The part of the rose that needs protection is that top graft and it's too high off the ground to really protect it from winter. You might have been better off keeping it in the pot and putting it in the garage for the winter. Also, you should never prune your roses in the fall in zone 6. Leave them alone and prune them in the spring They need all the extra cane to start back up with in the spring so you don't want to prune them in the fall....See MoreMy last year in this apartment - giving up my gardens
Comments (30)Life isn't about the destination, it's about the journey. I love going on road trips. Although, I've never got up and just left everything behind, so to speak, I've often dreamed about it. People often get caught up in the mundane, working 9 to 5, busy, day-to-day routine that they lose sight of what truly matters. Before they know it, they look back on everything and wonder where all of the time went. Life isn't about existing, it's about living. It's about experiencing new things and having no regrets.I don't know you, but when I came across this post, I did want to wish you good luck on your journeys. That, and to tell you to take lots of pictures. Take pictures of everything, no matter how small or insignificant it may seem. When you look back on these photos, they'll take you back to those moments in your life and help to keep those memories alive. When I go through my photos, I can remember those precious moments as if they happened only yesterday. If you don't already have an Instagram account, this sounds like the perfect time to create one. For both you, and for those that wish you follow you....See More- 8 years ago
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