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Comments (10)Tish, I thought it was a fall wedding, but forgot the date. Before you carve your choices in stone, talk to some local florists about availability of calla in fall and their stem lengths. I used to force the dwarf calla in pots and their stem length can sometimes be quite short. I love both flowers.....are you trying to achieve a blue/white scheme? The reason I'm saying this is calla is traditionally used for more formal designs. Hydrangea can have a lot of presence in an arrangement and calla might work in well......but you may also want to incorporate something loose and blowsy with it so the arrangements don't come off a big poof of hydranea....... and make your smaller calla look stiff and nekkid alongside it. I used to do wedding arrangements in my business and have used hydrangea for a bride who had a september wedding and had her heart set on lilacs. We just sprayed the hydrangea paniculata out with floral paint and it flew. If you want a rustic theme, you might want to consider a less formal white flower than callas, too. Daisies are available in fall, and look charming in country weddings. IOW, right at home in mason jars....See MoreHelp! I promised hubby I'd pick a dishwasher TODAY! (Viking???)
Comments (14)The KA's without the grinders are also the most expensive ones because the most expensive ones are the ones that are the quietest. KA would not be able to achieve the low noise levels (and charge more for a DW where they advertise its low noise levels) if the DW has a grinder. The grinder makes noise. Simple as that. Actually, I don't think a grinder is necessary. I have a Miele DW (I think it was second-from-the-bottom of the line when I bought it). The Miele's don't have grinders, they instruct you to open a small chamber at the bottom of the DW every so often and clean it out . I do open it, but rarely have found anything to clean out of it. As Weissman said, I scrape my dishes, but don't rinse. (as an aside, definitely don't rinse; if you do, you give nothing for the DW detergent to work on, and you'll end up with etched dishes and glasses). If you feel you or your family often put dishes in the DW that still have bones or other hard objects on them, then get a DW with a grinder, and save a little money while you're at it. If having a quiet DW is more important to you, then buy a DW without a grinder. The quieter ones will be more expensive....See Morehubby bad gift giver-i get yelled at fot it!!!!
Comments (24)Hi... i've posted my story on the stepfamily forum- am currently breaking up with BF after 13 months- came to realization that he is a controlling person. Just posting here to vent about his terrible gift giving. Some of this may be selfish of me: Birthday - his daughter's birthday was 2 weeks before mine. For her birthday, he told ex he would pay for the party ($300). Ex bought snacks for the kids (?$50)We went together to get her birthday presents- he picked out at least 5 or more outfits for her, wanted to make sure she had lots of gifts to open (his own words), spent $150? My birthday two weeks later: I got flowers sent to my work. Got home, he gave me a birthday card, handed me a small box & said "Sorry, I kinda ran out of money, but I wanted to make sure you had something to open". Inside the box was a decorative coin jar, the lid had a baker figurine, and the jar was titled "Extra Dough". I was very disappointed, but hid it. He explained that since cooking together was a thing that we liked to do together, he thought it would be cute. Then took me out to dinner at a really nice steakhouse (I don't eat meat except for seafood- which they had), and given his money comment, I was very budget conscious that night. I tried to let go of if, but it kept eating away at me so a few days later I brought it up that I felt he didn't place much importance on my birthday - compared it to how he basically spared no expense for his daughter (didn't ask ex to split cost), but then when it came to my birthday it was "sorry, i ran out of money". Wanted to make sure she had lots of presents to open, but got me a coin jar! He then told me I was wrong for making him feel bad about spending money on his daughter. He told me that he could have chosen not to take me out to an expensive dinner, and not to get me flowers. I just felt that he could have budgeted better - knowing he had two birthdays, he could have asked ex to split the party costs, but chose not to (another issue that always came up). 1st Anniversary - relationship was already on the rocks. The week before, I mentioned I was thinking of buying myself some jewelry (had some gift cards to use). He didn't want me to, said that he was thinking of doing something nice for our anniversary and buying me a necklace to match a ring that I have. I said he should do that if it's what he wants to do - me buying a necklace for myself would not be as meaningful as something from him, and that besides I hadn't bought anything with the gift cards yet, and might still choose to buy something else. I didn't have much enthusiasm when discussing the anniversary, but since he brought it up, after that i kept bringing it up - asking him what he would like - should we go out for dinner, cook a special meal, etc - he said we'll play it by ear & never made any definite plans although I kept bringing it up. Day of our anniversary, he said "happy anniversary" in the morning. We met up after work. I had my gifts and card laid out for him on the bed. He got me nothing. I was furious and hurt. Even afterwards, he didn't make it up by planning something for us, or even getting me a card or a gift. His reason - he didn't think I was very interested in celebrating b/c I didn't seem very excited about it so he didn't plan anything (true I wasn't all energetic & excited, but I did get him card & gift b/c I thought it was the right thing to do), and he didn't "want to be the jerk who shows up with a present" when the other person doesn't (so I was the jerk?), and that he never made it up afterwards because I made him feel so bad about it....See MoreDid a bad thing, feeling like a jerk...
Comments (47)A few years ago, someone backed into our car in a parking lot and then drove away without leaving a note. The damage estimate was close to $2000 (they put major dents in the door and bumper) and the shop owner told us he would deal directly with the insurance company on our behalf. All he needed was the police report, which we left with him. Not sure how he did this, but the repairs did not cost us a penny, not even the deductible. So for those who have this happen, talk to the repair shop before calling your insurance company....See More- 8 years ago
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