An attitude of gratitude
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Comments (23)Patty cakes -- Thanks for bringing this up. As you know, "The Secret" is a book (& DVD) that teaches the basics of metaphysics with several different teachers giving input. The spiritual, transcendant aspects of most major religions figure into this, and, if anyone has read the beginning, they know that none of it is a "secret." There are many other writings about these principles, but this is a new one and easy to read. I have enjoyed learning metaphysical principles and practices (for the past 15 years or so) and one of my teachers is one of the co-authors. It makes sense to me. Some people see things in a dualistic way (force of good vs. force of evil), which is fine for them -- just a different way of making sense of things. People who have never studied metaphysics often have very mistaken ideas about it. It's not something that can be clearly explained here in a few sentences, but rather a way of thinking that is incorporated into a person's life. There is no blaming of people for misfortunes because they didn't "think positive" enough. It's about understanding and strengthening the connection to our source, which is positive. I think "The Secret" is readable and helpful to those who find the teaching to be a logical way of approaching spirituality (I do). In my opinion it has a bit too much emphasis on material abundance, but otherwise I like it....See MoreLack of Social Graces
Comments (22)Hi Hoovergal...I'm new to these forums, I didn't know there was such life advice and I was just at Houzz looking at the beautiful pictures. So I'm backtracking and reading. I work with the elderly in assisted living (memory support) and sometimes these people can get into a loop of habits and mannerisms. It's quite random...good news? It may go away as randomly as it came. As some have pointed out, it may have been nervous energy from being sick/in pain from the UTI. So I would guess that frequent assessment of her physical health will be important so you can find things she wouldn't be able to tell you. General safety is a must for dementia sufferers.. keep nails done, carry tissues, carry hand sanitizer, keep her occupied and distracted, redirected as best you can. Aside from that...I think you just have to accept that this kind of thing happens. Take her places where it's no big deal. More casual places. Visit friends (yours and hers) in their homes where the environment and privacy are more controlled. For busy public places...less than peak of the day times, like mid afternoon lunch instead of noontime. No matter where you go there might be someone who is not understanding of your situation but usually they are outnumbered by people who can see that your mom can't help it and be kind. The good news too...is that as your mother declines it will become more obvious that these lapses in her manners are out of your control and hers and the public will be quite forgiving. Also the soothing balm of humor! A grown woman digging for gold. Smile. It's kind of funny...dementia patients don't respond well to frazzled caretakers...so try not to sweat the small stuff. AND HEY. Adopt the attitude of gratitude. I say this with all sincerity and respect, appreciating that this is not ideal to nose-pick in public. However...at least she is not digging her butt. I hope that is a comfort to you. Hang in there. Patience. Peace. Understanding. Gratitude. Keep it simple. Breathe!...See MoreSmacking my lips! Must be 20 years since I had one!
Comments (34)There is a Krispy Kreme in Santa Monica not too far from me, but I live less than half a mile from the original Randy's Donuts, and they do have good doughnuts. However, I prefer their apple fritters, which I've tried to make but are not as good as Randy's. I've had better luck making beignets, but I almost never have doughnuts or apple fritters, as they are not on my diet, and I try to avoid sugar. I will eat one once in a while, if it is in front of me. I think I would like a strawberry filled doughnut. Randy's always has a large line, and the building is quite the icon. The Donut Man looks good, especially for the strawberry filled doughnuts....See MoreWhat do you think about every day
Comments (29)My kids, my dogs, my garden, friends, WWIII, retirement, and work. PIcking up a lot of overtime in the next few weeks as we are short staffed and going to get shorter as I know of two others who are retiring this year. They're hiring quite a few people for the uptick in calls since Covid 19 started but they will take months to get hired and trained. Will be busy with work, seed starting and putting together new raised beds that are on the way. I'm also debating on whether or not to take my upcoming 2 weeks of vacation or just 1 of them to work in the garden or go to Florida with a friend. She wants to go to the Keys, it's on her bucket list and although I'm not a beach person I would like to see it and the wildlife....See More- 8 years ago
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