email etiquette -- my hand was slapped
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Comments (9)Well, I'm in my late 50s and like Rob, I wouldn't think twice if someone else came along with a friend to a casual lunch where everyone pays their own tab. If I did want to see a friend by themselves, I'd probably say that when making arrangements and not expect my friends to just know it. I will add that I'm from a very rural Northern Michigan area and we tend to be very laid back and casual. Local farm families (both men and women, sometimes the teenagers or children come along) congregate at restaurants or cafes regularly and who ever shows up is welcome. Groups can be two or twenty and no one ever really knows but anyone is welcome, including newcomers who no one knows. That makes "lunch with a friend" an unknown, no one thinks anything about a friend or acquaintance pulling up a chair, even if it starts out with two. Annie...See MoreRestaurant staff etiquette question
Comments (29)Here eating is a slow and relaxed experience and there is never a feeling of being rushed by a staff member. It's customary to take as long as you need, especially when dining in a group. Restaurant meals can go on for two hours or longer. The restaurant is happy because it means that the guests will be ordering more wine, desserts, coffee, liqueurs etc. and the bill will be larger. And satisfied customers will return and that's so important here in an area where there are so many restaurants competing for clientele. It's customary for the server to wait until everyone at the table has finished before starting to clear away the dishes for that course, unless the table is very cluttered with empty bread baskets, wine bottles etc. in which case he will discreetly remove the empties but not the plates while others are still eating. The knife/fork signal is universal here and a server wouldn't dream of removing a plate where knife and fork were not in that position. However if diners have obviously finished and haven't put their knife/fork in the finished position, and seem to be waiting for someone to come and clear away, the waiter may come over to the table and say with a smile something like..."is everything all right"....or "did you enjoy your meal"..."may I take these away?" But never when one person at the table is still eating. However if one wishes to have an empty plate taken away, all that is needed is a hand signal to the waiter for him to come and remove it. The government sponsors training for those who wish to work in the hotel and restaurant industry, since it is one of the main industries of Spain. So wait staff, even when not having passed through these courses, have normally been trained by the restaurant owner to a level equal to the current standards. SharonCb...See MoreBiting and slapping at 11 months??!?!?!!?!
Comments (19)Jynx who mentioned anything about flogging or bruising. I for one am talking about a light tap on the hand or bottom. As for me turning into an abuser I can tell you, my children can tell you and anyone who knows me can tell you that I never abused my children and this would include their doctors as well. If you spank your children when the situation calls for it then you to are using corporal punishment. IMHO who are judging me before you have had a chance to walk in my shoes. If you can raise your children with a stern no and a firm pressure to the jaw and them obey then I say more power to you. The overall parents that I witness in public pleads, begs, and lets their kids run the household instead of them being parents and taking control by setting rules and boundaries for these kids to abide by. I personally don't call a light tap on the bottom or a slight tap on the hand abuse. Abuse is someone who gets slapped in the face, hair pulled, objects thrown at them and derogatory names such as stupid. I grew up with this and through talking with a counselor and going to church I have learned to forgive my parents for this type of abuse but I greatly praise them for taking me to church, instilling moral values in me and teaching me to obey all types of rules. Just because someone was abused as a child does not label them one also....See MoreRules of Costco Samples Etiquette (LOL)
Comments (18)I usually avoid the samples too. I just don't like them usually and no offense, all present company is excepted, but don't they seem to attract a lot of a, well, certain type? There's always one or two who are sitting there dining. Grab 2 or 3 samples, chomp away, talk to the demo person and grab more and more. Few of the demo people around here will do anything about it. They don't care. The "rules" make some good points about why I dislike the sampling. The blocked aisles for one. I despise shopping. It's not fun and not something I want to spend excess time doing. So for me I usually make a wide circle around and move on. I will say though that Rainbow did have some samples of bratwurst that were very good. So good in fact that I did buy some. That doesn't happen often. With samplers or me. Good rules. There should be a rule though to move them to a corner or a back room. The samplers will hunt them down no matter where they're at! :) Oh, another rule, Don't ask the person when they'll be ready! They'll be ready when they're ready and they don't know when. And no, you don't have to give the chicken nugget samples to your toddler in the cart. It won't shut them up and won't keep them from grabbing impulse items at the register! Oops... now I'm starting to obsess a bit aren't I??? :D...See Moregolfergrrl
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