Harvey Weinstein Expose: Were You Ever Sexually Harassed?
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Comments (12)My own children are grown and married. I married someone who has teen children. Two daughters aged 12 & 16, and adopted son who is 14, and came to live with us after we had been married a year. My husband kept it from me that the mother wanted this child out of her home because he elbowed her in the stomach and slammed the car door on her arm when he was 10. The reason being the mother would not buy him a stuffed animal from Cracker Barrel. The kids are still the bigger problem, but the husband is an enabler for the disrespect and behavior. I started in counseling in March to figure out what I wanted to do about this confusing marriage. My counselor told me, that you should have called CPS to protect your own child, and CPS would have handled this out of bounds, renegade son of your partner. What transacted is indeed very serious. My experience can tell you your situation is going no where. Raise your own child first, then seek out your companionship. Even in that event it may not work out, then you will still be better off because you protected your own child. You do not have any control over how his son acts, you cannot control the fact that your partner wants him around. I will tell you the kids will always come before you, probably even after they are adults. I just had something very valuable stolen from the home. My husband is acting like it is "no big deal." And why should I call the police to report a burglary, and speak to the boy about what he knows about it? I should suck up the $2800 loss, and forget and live without it. Does this tell you how the events will go in your life in the future? Right now, I am trying to find a home, so I will not have to move my belongings twice, that is why an apartment is a last resort for me to consider....See MoreSome things women face every day that men just don't
Comments (56)Faron - I start my Stihl on the floor by sliding my foot through the handle to help keep it steady. However I'm unable to start our generator - the pull cord is too high up and I can't get enough torque - I'd need a stepladder. My profession was dominated by women and I can readily say that I never faced discrimination at work. Of course like most women I've encountered my share of men making crude comments and insinuations and as a young woman was never taken seriously when I took my car in for repair. And there were a few alarming situations where I seriously worried about my safety. When DD was growing up I tried to set an example for her, I felt it was important for her to see me as a capable woman. I wanted her to be strong and independent . When she graduated from college we went to buy her first car. I had already locked in the price online and brought a copy of the sales agreement. However the salesman kept saying that certain items were omitted and he wanted to re-write the agreement and came back with a higher price. I walked out of the dealership. DD was crushed because she thought she wasn't going to get her car. The salesman came running after us and we did get the car - at the original price. It's a story she vividly remembers. However she is now working in a male dominated job and is facing discrimination, ridicule and even career sabotage. There is no HR department, she has to take these issues to her boss - who frequently says that she's whining and then later approaches her when she's alone and rubs her back and says he's sorry. The only other females at her work place are doing clerical or administrative work and are off premises. She's the only woman working on the job with 6 to 8 men. It has become a toxic work environment and she has consulted with an attorney as to how to proceed. I'm proud of her for taking the initiative to get legal advice but she's so disillusioned and stressed that she's also looking for another job....See MoreHave you seen the Left's plans to violently disrupt the Inauguration?
Comments (62)Ark girl thx you said what I was trying to say, only more directly. Ive been finding BBC, CBC & european sources most reliable these days- I do think its good to also read from left,center and yes right sources - anything and everything as long as its grounded in reality. Its VERY interesting what gets said, what gets left out, how they phrase things to make their side look good and the other side look bad. Whats different these days is that the known disinformation sites - Breitbart, Alex Jones, veritas, have gotten traction along with self-described neo-nazis and white supremacists( their words) now rebranding themselves as "nationalists" crafting a message and putting it out via the PE & the disinformation sites, Whats different now is not these people exist - they always have - but that there seems to be more cult-thinking out there - people walling themselves in, flat out refusing to consider any views or take in any information that contradicts what the leaders tell them. Re OPs post, since it is not appearing anywhere but the fringey far rw disinformation sites.... is not being presented as fact anywhere else and seemingly is being discredited.... if anything happens I will tend to think it may be a "false flag" operation perpetrated possibly by Okeefe & Co himself. No amt. of anymous strangers on the internet repeating "its not fake news" is going to mean anything - it will be me sifting through various sources to try to determine what's going on. Yep a PITA - timeconsuming - but that's the reality these days....See MoreAre men really so clueless?
Comments (97)My dad always used to whistle at both my mom and I when we were dressed up to go out and say something like "looking good" or "don't you look nice"!! And he was a very old school British gentleman. These things are not always sexual in their overtones. Intimidation or harassment doesn't always have to be sexual in overtone either. But it doesn't make it any less inappropriate. The fact that your father whistled at you was truly a non-intimidating comment as he clearly loved you and wasn't about to hurt you (though some here have already testified that even that is not necessarily the case.) He was in fact complimenting you as he knew you and treated you like the loved family member that you are, with respect. Same if a friend compliments you...they know you and care about you and respect you. That is different from a stranger on the street calling you out. They don't know you, they don't care about you, they are NOT complimenting you. Rather they are objectifying you and expressing their sense of power and ownership over you as you are just a piece of meat to be treated as they see fit without regard for you or your feelings...or if they think of your feelings at all, it's to scare and intimidate you to prove their power over you. And I have no issue with the occasional catcall or wolf whistle either, as long as it is not accompanied by any derrogatory [sic] or offensive remarks. Can you at least allow that while you may not have a problem, others do? You say you don't want to hear any offensive remarks, but can you understand that maybe a "nice ass" or "how about a little sugar, sweetcakes" comment is not offensive to you, it might be to someone else? On other threads we've had discussions about what's offensive, and I'm always stunned that some get upset over words like "hate", "stupid", "sucks", "freaking" when they don't offend me at all. But I'll allow that some could take offense and respect that. All I'm suggesting here is that if a man truly respects a woman then he can refrain from treating her in a way that is disrespectful. Especially if she's a stranger. It's not like men NEED to catcall or intimidate. It's not like they can't help themselves....See Moremtnrdredux_gw
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