Some things women face every day that men just don't
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Some People Just Don't Get It!!
Comments (20)I'm curious on this note how many of you have downsized your lawns since owning your property. Our place used to be all yard. There really was nothing else. When he became homeowners and started taking care of the yard the landscaping also began! We have probably cut our lawn down by half to make way for plants that (predominantly) provide either food or habitat for critters instead. My parents think I'm insane. After growing up in the suburbs of Eastern Washington where a well-groomed lawn is all defining I'm sure my poor folks are wondering where they went wrong with me. Personally I prefer the company of butterflies and frogs to a picture perfect lawn any day. Kate...See MoreSome people just don't get it!
Comments (16)A point you have to realize is that most people in general could care less about Lepidoptera. They may notice one that flies by or visits a flower, even stop what they are doing to watch it, but once its gone so is their interest in it. So beyond a reasonable effort to educate those who are negative about Lepidoptera, you are probably just wasting your time. During those years when I did the public seminars on Lepidoptera, at schools, libraries, natural history museums, zoos, etc I put on quite a show and tell and slide show, so I usually held public interest well during those seminars. Some came just for my seminars and paid attention because it was entertaining and interesting to them  they liked the stories I told about the bugs and the places they lived naturally, the slides and living displays I always brought along. But some attended just because they happened to be in the right place at the time and it was something to do. Some were moved enough to go visit the living sanctuary we had established at our local zoo, some even enough to come to a local lep society meeting to learn more. A rare few even joined the society at least for a while. But most went back to their busy lives that didnÂt have time for Lepidoptera, some a day, week or month later, some 5 minutes after the seminars. So my purpose of doing the seminars at all was to reach the children, maybe plant a seed that one day would grow into another person who made Lepidoptera and their conservation a regular part of their lives. The children are and will be the future of all things natural on earth. The active amateurs here on this forum right up to the most dedicated professional Lepidopterists are a very small and select few in the larger scheme of things. We are a fraternity, but a very small one. So when we fail to reach other people about Lepidoptera (or anything else), we need to realize that it is not our failure but rather just a product of the self centered lives that make up the majority of todayÂs society....See MoreMen Don't Have a Freaking Clue!!!
Comments (19)How can you not realize that someone does something when it is getting done and you know you aren't the one doing it? I chuckled at that too... But honestly I think that FDH has no clue how much time I spend doing housework. He doesn't really notice clean and dirty, so as a bachelor, he thought once a month is plenty for cleaning the bathroom. I don't think it really occurs to him that our bathroom is sparkly and I keep it that way by cleaning it every week with touch-ups when it needs it. He notices the big stuff (like a full bathroom cleaning) but the little things just blow right by him. He hasn't got a clue that I do mid-week touchups in the bathroom, or that I lintbrush the cat fur off the couch almost every morning, those sorts of things. He sees me do them once in awhile, and comments on how nice clean it is, but doesn't really realize these little things all add up to a large portion of time. I'm not complaining that I do these things, because I choose to do them without his help, just noting that he doesn't have a freaking clue ;) He helps with the big stuff, and we have an I-cook-he-does-dishes deal, but I don't think he realizes how time-consuming the little things are and just how many little things need doing....See MoreLetting things go -- nice things I just don't need anymore.
Comments (54)My husband gave me a beautiful string of pearls with a saphire clasp for christmas last year...guess I'm old lady :) But then my newest piece of jewelry is probably 1950 with most of it being 1880's...so perhaps I"m just an old lady at heart :) I love jewelry with history. Sell it and enjoy the vacation...and know that the person who buys it is probably someone like me who will cherish it as much as the original family member of yours did. As to purging...well frankly, I like stuff :oP I love all the stuff ya'll donate to charity because I haunt the goodwill and habitat store looking for it. I use it daily and it makes me feel good. But that said...I rather enjoy purging too, but perhaps that's linked to the fact that I bought a huge house full of someone elses "stuff". I happily donate items to habitat. I like the tax deduction, and I love the feeling of doing something positive for a charity I support. I also do put things outside with a "free" sign (because I think it's cute how people will take ANYTHING!...no one does that in Alaska) but most of those are children's things (which must be taken during school hours so DS does not see it LOL). That reminds me...I have a slide for free to put out tomorrow when he's napping LOL My one hoarded...hang on, I don't know, thing is my son's cloths and cloths I purchased for a set of twins we lost. I thought we were going to adopt or have another child and now that we've give up on that I have to open the boxes. I have literally dozens of large boxes full of lovely cloths, regular stuff, and brand new things for the babies we expected. I know I have to get to that stuff...it takes up a huge amount of space, both physically and emotionally, but I haven't quite gotten into the zone to be able to do that one. Maybe we should make a pledge...those of us who have some purging to do...I'm peronally going to get through those cloths and give them to someone who needs them within the first quarter of 2011. Jak...maybe you should empty the barn by then LOL Ok that's probably asking too much heh heh...See More4boys2
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