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Comments (1)Hey hey hey, that Elegans looks great. Mine is a little guy, but wants to grow up to be just like Ludi's Elegans. Glad to hear all the news and hope your studying yields the results you need. Chat later then. :)...See MoreSemi OT -- laundry room question for buyers
Comments (23)Well, gee. I didn't get any emails and didn't know I was getting replies. I'm surprised by the replies that seem to have gotten something out of my post that wasn't there. For example -- I'm not trying to find room to recess a fridge and am not sure where that came from. I'd tried to be concise but clear, and it's really hard to do. Online text has it's limitations. Sorry. So, to try to clarify -- my kitchen has already been done and couldn't change any walls. The utility room is also fixed as far as the size of the room goes. Two walls are brink on the front and driveway side of our home and there is a front porch in front of it. The other two walls back to the already redone kitchen and the dining room. The dining room wall is load bearing and cannot move. Although it is the interior wall, it holds up the second level on our story and a half. As I said above, you cannot see the laundry room from teh entry or the living areas. The foyer comes back from the front door to the living room. In front of the living room, it runs into the one hall across the middle of the first floor, running from the master bedroom and powder room on one end to the kitchen and utility on the other -- like a T. The ends of the top of the T are closed behind walls of the various rooms, so you can only see the laundry as wou walk from the master to the kitchen or if you are crossing into the living room and look over to the side. There is currently a full interior door, but that will have to change to a pocket door or split doors like the ones between our kitchen and dining room to allow room for front loaders to open fully -- the room is about 10 feet long, but narrow. I realize a lot of folks may not want or need a second fridge, but it is expected in this neighborhood, and with 2 teen boys and all 4 of us cooking, we really use it. We spend more time cooking and entertaining than doing laundry, so I think keeping the fridge is important. Making it a built-in would give us six inches of usable, moveable space in the narrow part of the room. It is just changin something that is there already -- it doesn't replace a washer or dryer. The Askos definitely get the best looking laundry award. Bosch and Meile also make smaller units that could be clased behind counter tops and doors. However, DH says no to going any smaller on the machines, and I have to say the thought of having to haul king and queen bedding, sleeping bags or other large or bulky things to the cleaners (no laundromats here) or doing twice as many loads of beach towels and laundry in general doesn't appeal to me either. And I know who'd be doing the hauling. I took a basket of towels to the store to see how I felt loading them into the stacked pair. I'm tall enough that pedestals don't really make the washer and dryer high enough for me, and then the tops become too high to really use as a work surface. Stash a laundry basket, maybe -- but no real work space. Stacking makes one better and makes one a bit worse. The floor beneath them regardless of what we do is a concrete slab -- definitely strong enough for a stacked W&D. We currently fold from the sofa or the bed, and that may not change. More important that folding though is having a place other than the laundry and or front hall floors to sort laundry. It drives me nuts to be stepping on or over laundry all the time. The onnly thing I know for sure is that the builder would have madethe kitchen, family room and the utility room a whole lot easier to work with and in if he'd made this side of the house 6 inches to a foot wider....See Moreteenage stepkids driving me over the edge
Comments (24)It sounds like you are in a terrible situation. If the 17 and 19 year olds are behaving so badly, is the 14 year old soon to follow? And does your husband really think he is helping his kids by letting them get away with bad behavior? It has been a foundational belief of mine that to have real love you have to have respect. Your husband's kids don't respect him if they treat both of you the way you describe. Kids like to push their parents buttons and see what happens. They are obviously very unhappy or else they wouldn't act the way they do. Encourage your husband to try and view his kids as an outsider would. Then ask him what he sees. Maybe by doing this he can see that he isn't helping them by the way he handles the situation. Even if the kids break off some contact with him, he would be showing them that he doesn't accept the bad behavior, and he needs to gain their respect to have any influence over them in the future. Ask him if he would respect someone who he could walk all over and get away with it. I sure wouldn't! It sounds like you have invested substantial time and emotion into your relationship, and if you can stand it for a few more years, it would be worth it to try. Your husband has probably already lost the two middle kids if he keeps letting them get away with bad behavior. I think it is worth the risk for him to tell his kids to act right or he's not going to be around them. I would guess that their mom wouldn't want them around her all the time with their attitudes either, and they might get the message. You might also remind your husband that he has a 14 year old who is watching how everyone is acting and reacting, and that he has a chance to save his youngest from going down the wrong path like the 17 and 19 year olds. Good luck to you and your family....See MoreOT-Help Me Find Fun Hooks for Mud Room
Comments (17)I'm sorry I missed this post. I'm on mom's dial up so a search is a ummm (ok it's slower than molassas on a frozen arctic day). We're in Seattle to take the little guy to the hospital again. But, I will tell you my knob (and hook) source...I buy almost everything at Knobgallery.com. I always look in the discount section first (great deals) and then then I move to looking through each designer's options...but you could narrow the search by entering "hook". My kitchen knobs are Anne at home. Many (like the big moose antlers) would work great for hooks because the horns stick out so far. I have a pig and a rabbit that do the same. I also just purchased some great hooks (animal) from restoration hardware for the cat and dog stuff. They're pretty cute. I'll do a famous search (I love quests LOL) as soon as we get back to alaska...but that's not until Wednesday or so. I adore that cabinet by the way...I have mudroom envy right now!!! And those darned kids are pretty cute. You know we're trying to have another pretty hard (many many drugs LOL) maybe you could spare one? :oP...See Moredeegw
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