Long Term Care Insurance--do you have it?
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Comments (18)I looked into it for my parents twice, but the first time my mother's financial advisor convinced her that it was not worth the money, and because of that she didn't take me seriously the second time. The second time I looked into a program open to federal employees and their relatives, and it looked like the coverage was good (but the premium for my mom would have been $400 a month). Premiums increased substantially with age, so I suspect the key is figuring out a good age at which to sign up (not so young that you're paying premiums for such a long time that it cancels out the benefit, but not so old that premiums are beyond reach). I wish that my mom hadn't listened to her financial advisor, and that she'd been open to a LTC policy, because I know that I am the one who would end up filing the financial gap if one or both of them needed long term care at a level and length of time that would deplete their savings and investments. For the peace of mind, it would have been worth the high premiums, which I offered to pay myself. At her current age, 69, I doubt she'd qualify for anything that we could afford, and my dad wouldn't qualify at all because he has cancer. A LTC policy for my parents would ease my mind because I know how illnesses that require full time care over a long time period can eviscerate savings. My grandfather had alzheimers for 15 years, and spent the last 10 of them in an assisted living facility. My grandmother kept him at home as long as possible (longer than made sense, to be perfectly frank), but the reality is, given his strength, his diminished mental capacity, and later health complications, he needed the kind of care that only a LTC facility or a full time live-in nurse could provide. This was in the 80s and 90s but it cost thousands a month. Despite being hardworking, a saver, living a frugal lifestyle (to the point of growing their own produce in the summer and freezing and canning it for winter), and having a pension, paying for care for that many years took all of my grandmother's retirement savings. So once the money, inevitably, ran out, they had to go on medicaid and my mom helped with living expenses. I am very worried about facing a similar situation with my parents, particularly since costs are higher now, and I live in an area with an extremely high cost of living. Just think about stories you read about people who have a major illness with medical costs that cause bankruptcy, then multiply that financial impact across multiple years. Planning for an emergency, or even setting aside money for a comfortable retirement, is not going to cover full time care for years. As I understand the costs, it would be like sending a child to an elite private college --- and few people can afford that for more than 4 years even if they have been putting money aside since the child's infancy. Paying that annually, indefinitely, can make a mockery of even the best laid financial plans. The odds are that most people will not need that kind of care, but if you do the financial costs are devastating....See Morewhat do you know about long term care insurance
Comments (52)gibby -- There was a reduced-benefit clause in the LTC policies we took, too. I was wrong when I wrote that we took them 15 years ago. It was 20! Also, we had to pay in for TEN years, not TWO, to (possibly) get something back. We'd paid in $11,000 in premiums at the end of ten years. This was a group LTC policy from Hancock, offered to us by my DH's then-employer. After ten years we became eligible for reduced-amount benefits. Each policy will pay $45/day for *skilled nursing care*, to a lifetime max of $82,000. The verbiage on any other type of care is obscure with lots of hoops and mazes. Looking at it now, I think we will have aided tbe taxpayer -- seems to me these benefits would reduce the cost of our care to Medicare. If I'd had any doubts about problems collecting on the policies, they were sustained when it took me six months to get a letter from Hancock stating that each of us had actually qualified for this reduced-benefit coverage. We eventually received single-page letters, undated and without signatures, with a lot of 'may qualify' and 'could be' phrasing. Their legal department could send us packing without breaking a sweat. Our situation is different than yours as to probable need for the policy. I'm glad you'll take that opt-out clause. You might want to see a letter stating exactly what YOUR reduced benefits will be, specific to YOUR policy and YOUR premiums, before you sign up....See MoreElderly mother cancelled her long-term care policy
Comments (26)I do have power of attorney for my mother, she is in a nursing home now and her house sold and all assets used to pay for the nursing home fees. There is no money left to pay for anything. At $13,000 a month the money goes quickly. Everything is gone which is why we are in the process of getting the medicaid application started. For years I tried to convince her to sell her house and move into a senior apartment, and then, if she declined further, assisted living. She refused to leave her home, and I could not force her. Eventually, there was no choice, but my sister did take her in for a few years until things got to the point where she needed 24 hr a day nursing home care. I can't speak for other elderly folks, but my parents became extremely stubborn as they aged. . We affectionately call Mom our 93 yr old toddler. I've learned a few things from this that I intend to do for my kids. I think its good advice for all parents as they approach old age: Sell my house when I can no longer take care of it. have all my important documents in one place and inform my kids where it is. take good care of my health, lose weight, stay active, keep social activities up so I can stay well and independent longer 4) Inform my kids I don't want them to take me in or assume responsibility of my home or my personal care. We will get our elder care policies so they don't have to worry about it. 5) Have a Power of attorney, will, DNR documents (already done this) My father is still in good health and mentally sharp but he also refuses to sell his house and expects us to do the work on it. But I have learned that its ok to say no, if he wants to remain in his house and has the money to pay for repairs, he is going to have to hire people to do it, we cannot do this anymore. We're tired, we aren't getting any younger either and its time to focus on our own home now. Dad refuses to discuss anything related to his aging, his funeral wishes, where and what he has, etc. I've told him do not choose me as power of attorney or executor if you do not let me know these things now. I don't want any part of trying to dig through this stuff again without any knowledge of where to begin. I told him I will leave it all to his lawyer if he doesn't give me more information. Much as these things are uncomfortable to talk about, the fact is we are all going to die, many of us will need extended care so the people we designate to take charge of these things need to have the information beforehand so they can make the right decisions. Leaving your kids in the dark until something happens is just wrong....See Morelong term care insurance
Comments (21)As mentioned, my MIL was in a nursing home for eleven years. My grandmother was also in for quite a few years - she qualified for medicaid because she didn't have any money, not because she protected her wealth. Neither of my parents were - dad died at 62 and mother at 84 still living reasonably independently in an apartment. We would be private pay if we end up in that situation. I originally thought it might be a good idea because we have no kids to help us stay in our own home. However I'm more and more convinced it's just not a viable concept - insurance companies can't make money on it without exorbitant rates and limited coverage to the point it's just not worth it. I think I'll stick with the life insurance as a safety net if we live so long in such bad shape we need that kind of care for too long. I just don't think that's going to be the case but you never know....See More- 9 years ago
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