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Comments (14)Marti8a, I can not explain it. I think I understand it from your DH side because I am sort of there myself.Sometimes it is so hard to shed things we feel comfortable with. The decisions do have to come from within. My DH would talk to me about it and I was a deaf wall. After the flood and I thought everything had been lost some thing changed in me and suddenly I did not want as much around me. I still have lots but only about a third of the just stuff I used to have. Furniture is anther story. Sigh. I find fun things and can't part with them. Do not know why. I also understand your frustration because I even have it with myself. LOL And THAT is bad when I make myself mad. DH built me a storage loft in the shop where the extra furniture goes when not in use. I rotate things around as I change the house around. Since we just moved in here I am still not sure exactly what will be the perfect piece to fit where. Still working on that. But time goes on and in my experience I sometimes just feel like a change so I go out and scout through the extra pieces I have stored and make the house feel all new again.I also have some of my pieces to eventually be sold up there. Maybe you can move some of the den furniture out into his shop area and cover it for protection from the elements. Maybe when it is out of the house and in his way he might be able to shed it easier. I think you might talk to him until you are blue in the face and not get anywhere but angry if he is anything like I am. It is just so hard to let go of some things.A sad situation I am a hard case myself. I know I am not helping you just trying to explain how hard it is for some of us to get rid of stuff. I do do it eventually. And had to big time when we went to a way smaller house. I am glad the stuff is gone and really do not miss it. I feel lighter in the brain. OK NO AIR HEAD COMMENTS please. Not so much to have to mentally keep track of. I will admit I was a hoarder. A clean hoarder but still a hoarder. Every inch of space in every cabinet was packed until nothing else would go in. Not even dirt. I did not hoard papers and trash.Just things. So I have come a long way It takes time and the mind set has to be there before shedding things can happen. Chris...See MoreWhat do you do with excess fruit and veggies from your garden?
Comments (29)I put a free sign out by the street. Most goes that way. I also donate to the food shelf. I just got myself a freeze dryer so that I can store food without taking freezer or canning space. I planted about 60 crowns of asparagus a few years back, so I'm expecting a huge harvest season soon. I've heard that it freeze dries well, and when reconstituted, tastes as good as fresh. I'm eager to try it! I also have over 50 kinds of fruit growing on the property, so it will be nice to have that freeze dried for consumption through the winter. I have about 50 blueberry bushes alone...I had no idea how many blueberries that would translate to, so I invite friends to come pick. It's great because I see people I wouldn't necessarily otherwise see and they are thrilled to go home with gallons of blueberries for free. I'm thrilled because I didn't have to pick them all, and I get to see friends and catch up. We also have a town-wide community forum where people post things like lost cats, furniture for sale...whatever. When I become inundated with too much produce, I plan to post free/inexpensive offerings. I finally divided my rhubarb plant and made 14 more; I'm assuming that will be one of the things I'll have plenty to give away! I've got tons of herbs, too. How much sage can one person use?!...See MoreExcess weight, obesity more deadly than previously believed
Comments (83)TV, your rant at me shows that perhaps you were too angry to actually read the post you responded to, as I explicitly said that normal and underweight people can be unhealthy. I am unsure as to why you skipped that. You also failed to answer the direct questions I asked you. But no matter. It seems you have taken this post personally as an attack on you and your appearance. I am sorry that happened. You just go ahead focusing your negative judgment on fat people, ignoring all the other unhealthy people around you, while admiring athletes, dancers, and models who often abuse their bodies for a job. Um, I am overweight. Or FAT, as you say. I do not judge myself negatively. Being fat is not a character flaw. I face facts about the problems I will face in the future, and decide whether to try to avoid them or embrace them. Accepting scientific truths is part of that. You do not have to do that. You do not owe anyone your own health after all. My doctor told me to lose weight. he wasn't judging me negatively. And he wasn't commenting on my appearance. He was using his training and experience to help me achieve a healthier life. I imagine he might be less inclined to do so if I told him to "stick what he thought about my body" "You need to lose/gain weight to be healthy" is not the same as "You need to lose/gain weight to be hot" And I do not admire anyone you listed really. I admire people who have had and maintained a lifetime of BALANCE. People who haven't been either extreme ever, and are healthy and happy. I do not meet too many people like that. But when I do, I admire them. My mother is like that. I also admire people who can do yoga without catching a cramp in every muscle as I do. Oh, and as far as ignoring all other unhealthy people around me, ask my SO how many times today I have nagged him to quit smoking and eat more. He is very underweight and I fear unhealthy. He wont go to a doctor for a check up. I nag about that too. Not because his lanky appearance may be unappealing to someone, but because I love him, want him around forever and since that is impossible, as long as possible and want him to feel good. His grandmother was a lifetime smoker and lived to be 97. Should I give a rip about that given the undeniable evidence of the dangers of smoking?!?!? Because I do not. The facts of obesity are no different. I hope you maintain your good health for the rest of a long life, and I hope you have no physical hardships or suffering, truly. But you shouldn't be so angry at others for speaking generally about accepted and proven facts and statistics when referring to society as a whole....See MoreExcessive heat warnings : blooms keep going
Comments (13)WE were only 97 today instead of the 101 predicted, but I doubt you can tell the difference. We are all sweltering with high heat indices but next week is supposed to be better. Kate, You Tahiti Sweetie id gorgeous again. I always like bitones so Rosabelle Van Valkenburgh is a beauty. Mint Octopus is lovely. Mine did not do well this year. Trahylta looks good and was low here too this year. And your lost tag beauty is a keeper. The zinnias add so much color. Great post, Kate. kay...See More- 9 years ago
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