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Intense reaction to Star Lilies.
Comments (1)Sorry tohear about your reaction. Are you referring to Stargazer lilies ?I am not familiar with Star lilies. I get similar reactions to smoke and when my allergies flare up from grain dust....See MoreWould you have changed also?
Comments (13)I am lucky I guess. There haven't been too many times I didn't get in fairly quickly when I thought an animal's concern shouldn't/couldn't be put off. A lot of it has to do with how you describe your situation and whether it really is urgent. It helps I have been with my present vet for two decades, because they know me well enough that if I tell them it's urgent, it is urgent. Like said, you have to go through a receptionist to get to your vet, so it's very important the person at the phone has adequate qualification to in fact triage a pet, because that's what they actually are doing. It's also important that your vet has sufficient personnel to handle runs of busy days. They happen. No, no, no I would not stay with a vet who brushes me off to ER services during regular business hours, because those services are meant to be what the word says. Emergency. I was a human nurse and have seen too many patients show up in ER who should have been seen by their regular practitioner and it's not only an insult to your pocketbook, it does not give your animal continuity of care, tends to repeat labwork your regular vet may already have, and clogs up the system so that those who really need emergency services have to wait to receive them. That being said, if I question the receptionist's interpretation of my problem, and I really need an answer, then I can usually get them to go give a message to my vets and if it really is important and the vets are not tied up in surgery or an emergency, I either get an answer by message, the vet comes to the phone, or they say they'll call me when they can get free. Sometimes just a reassurance from them is enough to hold me over until an appointment can be made the next day. That's fine. I guess I am just very happy with the practise I use now. One of the docs is just an excellent diagnostician and the other an excellent surgeon and I've heard they added a third. They all go out of their way to make sure you can reach them if needed, day or night. You might pay for that priveledge, but that's ok too. And they're both interested in the whole aspect of each animal patient and will work with you so that you can contribute, can take over things you feel comfortable with, and they know their own patients well. I suspect that if you were constantly having difficulties getting appointments it would be an issue and you should either confront them or look elsewhere. But, if it goes further than that, somewhere out there is a vet you can connect with at all levels. Hope your little fellow is back up to snuff soon....See MoreLack of Social Graces
Comments (22)Hi Hoovergal...I'm new to these forums, I didn't know there was such life advice and I was just at Houzz looking at the beautiful pictures. So I'm backtracking and reading. I work with the elderly in assisted living (memory support) and sometimes these people can get into a loop of habits and mannerisms. It's quite random...good news? It may go away as randomly as it came. As some have pointed out, it may have been nervous energy from being sick/in pain from the UTI. So I would guess that frequent assessment of her physical health will be important so you can find things she wouldn't be able to tell you. General safety is a must for dementia sufferers.. keep nails done, carry tissues, carry hand sanitizer, keep her occupied and distracted, redirected as best you can. Aside from that...I think you just have to accept that this kind of thing happens. Take her places where it's no big deal. More casual places. Visit friends (yours and hers) in their homes where the environment and privacy are more controlled. For busy public places...less than peak of the day times, like mid afternoon lunch instead of noontime. No matter where you go there might be someone who is not understanding of your situation but usually they are outnumbered by people who can see that your mom can't help it and be kind. The good news too...is that as your mother declines it will become more obvious that these lapses in her manners are out of your control and hers and the public will be quite forgiving. Also the soothing balm of humor! A grown woman digging for gold. Smile. It's kind of funny...dementia patients don't respond well to frazzled caretakers...so try not to sweat the small stuff. AND HEY. Adopt the attitude of gratitude. I say this with all sincerity and respect, appreciating that this is not ideal to nose-pick in public. However...at least she is not digging her butt. I hope that is a comfort to you. Hang in there. Patience. Peace. Understanding. Gratitude. Keep it simple. Breathe!...See MoreWhat's new in your life?
Comments (50)The flea market turned out to be much farther than I thought, and I got a late start due to dealing with one of the animals here. I didn't leave until 11:30....took several wrong turns. Same on the way back. However, the best part of my day, was when I was way out in the country and needed to turn around, there was a barn and a gate, no house, so I turned in there to back up, and in the ditch was about 6 inches of water and what looked to be like a young (3') alligator. It appeared to be dead....but was just sunning. I rolled down my window and stuck my head out to look at it, and it raised it's head and looked at me as if to say, "What the **** are you looking at, lady? Get outta here." And I did, but I thought how cool to have an alligator in your front ditch. They are among my favorite creatures....See More- 9 years agolast modified: 9 years agogardengal48 (PNW Z8/9) thanked morz8 - Washington Coast
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