Sad End to My Wedding Regrets Story
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Comments (23)I was experiencing the same thing with my peaches for the past 2 years. Pits all over the ground. But my varmint was a black bear (or bears). Do you live in an area with black bears? The bear(s) have come and eaten my apples & peaches for the past 2 years. Unfortunately, they also have done significant damage to the trees by tearing off branches. This year I wizened up and put "nail boards" below the trees. Basically I take 4 foot x 2 foot 3/8" plywood (That size for easy mobility) and my nail gun. Drive 2" nails through the boards and then turn the plywood upside down so the nails are sticking up. Haven't lost a single fruit since I put them down, and the bears were visiting on a nightly basis earlier this summer, previous to me doing this. Every morning I pick the nail boards up for fear of children or domesticated animals stepping on them. In the evening I put them back down. I wish I could have been there the night the bear stepped on the board. I would have smiled from ear to ear....See MoreMy sad Coelogyne story with a happy ending!
Comments (13)Nice clone and good growing. This orchid has a reputation for being a bit difficult to flower and being difficult to re-grow after you chop up a large flowering plant. I haven't got one, but you often see large plants in hanging baskets at shows around these parts. Carol is right, it must like it cooler at least in winter because it is grown under Den. nobile conditions. Do not know how much of this cool down is necessary to induce flowering. A hybrid. Coel. Unchained Melody (cristata x flaccida) is a beginners orchid here.....See Moresad story about our dog... grieving
Comments (23)I spoke with a lawyer this week, sorry for not updating sooner but it's been a rough time for me lately... Anyway, I can't remember which poster said he/she had a 'gut feeling' that there is no legal provision for self defence in animals, but that seems to be the most simplified explanation of the situation. Yes, the family member is an adult. He is actually my father. I'm 19 years old and trust me it's surely been a difficult time for me. My dad has changed his 'story' a few times since the bite happened, and it's hard to get anything straightened out. It's turning into a division in the family which is just compounded the already painful situation. Honestly I dont think there is anything that can be done for Lucky. The day after the bite, the officer who came to the house (my mom had to sign ownership of Lucky over to her) called our home and she explained that we would be receiving a call from the Department of Health to explain why Lucky has to be put down. When the representative from the D. of H. called I didn't speak to her, but apparently she essentially explained that the laws in our county are strict regarding second dog bites, and it is mandated that a dog who causes 2 "severe injuries" (the second bite didnt even require stitches so I wouldnt think it would be considered severe but I of course am a layperson) must be put down. I'm trying really hard to move forward and try not to dwell on this. Lucky was techincally my younger sister's dog and she is having a very hard time, understandably so. She is a junior in high school, and all of this occured during final exams week for her. Hopefully my family will have learned *something* from this awful series of events... maybe that some animals just aren't meant to be the pets we want them to be.. other than that I'm not really sure what 'good' can come of this. I guess I'm just glad that he didn't harm anyone more severly than he did. 99% of the time he was an affectionate and adorable dog, and it's just that 1% that proved impossible to extinguish. Fortunately I just obtained a summer job for my hiatus from college, so hopefully that will help me to keep my mind off all of this. It's the only coping strategy Ive come up with....See MoreLooks like it's the end of my story
Comments (35)You're young, you have a lateral attitude to your predicament which can only be admired. Move on to the life which you deserve. Having been in your shoes, I know that it dosen't pay to stick around. Your story reads a little too close to mine, right down to the smelly feet (I thought a small animal had died in the apartment) down to the lack of toilet training, in my case, it was the used sanitary napkins left on the sofa and tampons left by my computer. I married my husband with the understanding that I wanted to have nothing to do with his youngest daughter (the product a very short realtionship with a rather unstable woman). This was fine with him but every now and then she will pop up with the latest drama and this will cause a rift between us for at least a day or more. Mostly because he allows her to get way with more than I can ever remember getting away with or more than I would ever allow my own child to get away with. I too used to drag out the Lysol everytime my step daughter came to stay with us. She would leave her pubic hair in my shaver and things would sort of escalate from there, mostly because her father would blame me for over reacting and I would always be left without a leg to stand on. Logic would occassionally leave me thinking to myself, "If this (SD) were someone that I met on the street or out of the blue, she would be someone I would want nothing to do with. She is totally and absolutely everything I was brought up not to be." I'm sorry that there are children out there who suffer. I am adopted and I come from a broken home. I suffered four years of sexual abuse as a small child at the hands of a family relative but I never behaved the way Amy is behaving nor the way my own SD has behaved. And my adoptive parents weren't exactly saintly angels. Given their dues, they kept me in clean clothes and fed but life was far from perfect. I get mad when I read this stuff about 'poor kids'... I've always been more than decent to my step daughter and would have happily had her live with us except that she is so totally 'one of a kind' and I would have been doing myself a diservice to have had it any other way. She no doubt feels this from me but that is not my responsibility. I can't be the resucer when my heart isn't in it. You wrote that this is 'the end of your story' but really, I can't help feeling that this is 'the beginning of your story'.... a wonderful and happy story.... I wish you every joy, Aldra...See Morebossyvossy
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