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Comments (18)Don't even get me started on insurance, and not only health. When I quit working ten years ago we had to get our own insurance, it cost $525.00 a month per year and now it is $1130.00 a month per year,well it just went up again and so more than that and our deductible is $5,000.00. I just turned 56 and DH is 61. What really makes me boil is we have never used it. I go to the Dr. once a year to have my BP medicine refilled and maybe a sinus infection or two , just office visits.. DH hadn't used it probably three times since we have had it and that was for office visits until last year and he had some tests done. He had an MRI and some other tests and out of pocket was $4800.00 That is the only time we have used it for more than probably 3-4 office visits per year. We pay insurance out the a**, auto, truck, pivot,tractors, equipment, livestock, liability on farm workers, shop, even on two old farm houses that aren't worth anything, then there is homeowners and I am sure I am forgetting something. But, it is just like my Dad used to say "you don't need it till you need it." I am thankful we haven't, but I guess what makes we made is that we have to pay for those that do....See MoreSeriously Petty Rant Here....
Comments (29)Pal & Shannon - why am I not surprised to hear that? I want to be, but I'm not and I'm sitting here shaking my head. Oakley - yes I am writing the Thank You for the lunch since boss is treating me to lunch too and voiced as much right away to everyone. I guess after so many yrs of just doing it for prior Doc that I worked for I've never given it a 2nd thought. Scratched my head at first but did it. And indeed I did think of just putting my name on it while stating in the Thank You that WE enjoyed lunch very much. Quite honestly I decided to wait to send the Thank You until after the patient comes in again. I want to see if she mentions anything to me about the beer. If she does then I will include a nod to the beer in the Thank You (if Tech brings any back for me) but I will still only sign my name thanking her on behalf of the rest of the staff. Luckily there haven't really been any other 'side tasks' for me. The last Doc that I worked for was crazy w/ the side tasks stuff but he was also the head of the practice and the chief of the ICU so I ended up more like his medical/ personal assistant. He compensated me very well for it though and there were many times when I would tell him that something was his responsibility not mine. I had a brief talk w/ the Tech this AM where he protested 'But she said it was for all of us' at which point I said 'Really? If that's the way that it was presented then why didn't you immediately turn to share it instead of putting it w/ your back pack? It wasn't until you were prompted that you thought of sharing. Now how do you think that made me feel? She didn't stop to say anything specifically to me - she barely even looked at me before running out the door. That's because she was uncomfortable - she didn't expect for me to be in the back w/ the rest of you and she was caught off guard.' Pammyfay - what a lovely start to a wonderful week! Thank you and HAPPY MONDAY TO ALL!...See MoreI think I've reached my limit-a rant (LONG)
Comments (26)I love you guys!! Thank you so much for the sage advice and the virtual shoulders to lean on. Today I called my son and told him I was coming over to help him deep clean his house. I guess I left my cell phone at home, cuz DH had to text DS to get in touch with me. How liberating that was!! I worked really hard at DS's house, but he worked along side me and was wonderful company, so even tho I'm sore and tired, it was a good day. DS was VERY appreciative of me being there to help him and I liked doing it for him. I'm going to try to talk to DH tonight. He has a tendency to avoid conflict, and while I don't want conflict, I DO need him to hear me. DH has been self employed for years, just recently his business (more like a hobby income the last year or so) has just about come to a standstill. The things he makes are not a necessity item, so he's not bringing in the $$ like before. We can basically only count on my income...which is plenty for us to live comfortably on, but not where we can still live like we do and support another person. DH's income was for the fun stuff and extras for the most part. Rose...your DH sounds so much like mine. When my SS lived with us, it was horrible, too. He was much like yours and when he finally left our house for good, it was like a weight off my shoulders. But he almost tore us apart. My DH has always had a tendency to put his family ahead of me. For the most part, I dealt with it, but they've intruded into our life for the past couple years to the point where I can't take it any more. We've got an empty nest, and I want to enjoy it. We were both parents when we met, so we never had time alone together until the kids were grown. We were starting to have fun together when MIL became a pretty much every day fixture in our lives. She started backing off after I complained to DH, and it was ok, but now BIL is here. I'm just not sure of his situation. MIL said that his wife told her she does not want to reconcile. She wants to be friends with him, she loves him but is not in love...blahblah. He's holding on to the idea that they're going to reconcile. He goes over to her place at least once a week and stays there, but apparently stays on the sofa, and the other day he said he had to sleep on the floor because grandkids or something were there. Yesterday he told me he has an interview at a gym, I asked him about it and it's a fly-by-night outfit (he's a certified personal trainer) and he's been talking alot about how unhappy he is at his job (he works in retail and has a decent job w/bennies). This is his history, he's never worked at a job longer than 2 years, and he's just about past that time now, so he's ready to move on. DH said BIL is broke all the time, likely because he's giving his wife the $$, and that is again typical of him. So I'm not sure how the money thing will work. But frankly, it's not my problem!! The holiday thing...when my Dad was alive, he and my DH did not get along. My DH made every excuse in the book not to spend holidays at my parents, so to avoid the fight with him, and the tension if they were all together, I'd take the kids to my folks and he'd stay with his kid. It made me angry, but I chose the lesser of 2 evils. Later, we noticed a trend, DH would get pouty and start picking fights shortly before holidays. I finally figured it out, that he didn't want to spend time with my family and holidays always included them. His family was not nearby and when they were, they wouldn't come...they didn't want to celebrate. So once I figured out his M.O., I realized it wasn't ME, it was him...and I wouldn't let him get his way. He would pitch a fit and try to get out of events, but I'd make him participate. And what do you know, he always enjoyed himself! But I also learned that he;d bug out early, so I got used to it. He's very shy and not comfortable around people he's not really used to. I'm the opposite, I am gregarious and love to socialize. Well, this year, our DD who was married last year said she would like to host Thanksgiving at her house and have her in-laws and her family together. I am thrilled and am excited to do this with her, but as soon as DH found out (he read the email from DD) he said he was spending T'giving with his Mom. He is extremely uncomfortable about DD's in-laws, he only met them the first time at the rehearsal dinner, and barely spoke with them during the wedding weekend. So he's going to try everything he can to try to get out of going. I'm not going to say a word to him about it...I thought about trying to cajole him, but I'm going to let it be up to my kids to make him understand how disappointed they'll be if he doesn't spend time with them because he's shy and being a baby. But now, with BIL here, or at least in the proximity, he'll find every excuse, and likely his mother will want her boys over to her house. Anyway, it's just drama that I do not want to contend with, and honestly, I thought it was all over with...that DH had moved on, because every year I host a big Christmas party with lots of people and he enjoys it. It's almost like he's taken 3 giant steps back now that his brother is here every day. So the more I think about it, the more I think I need to get DH alone...sit him down and lay it out. I've already made up my mind that I WILL leave him if his mother ever has to come live with us!...See Morean anti-rant :-)
Comments (14)No, Chelone, I don't think that these two particular incidents have anything to do with the current business climate... I've used this plumber off and on for a couple of years and he's always been quite reliable but he had disappeared for a bit to take care of some family stuff, as soon as he got back he was right on the phone to me. He's always been well-behaved in that department. He told me once that while he knew bazillions of electricians (since he does work as a subcontractor at times) he won't refer anyone he wouldn't hire to work on his own house, because if it goes badly for the customer it reflects negatively on him, but finally he'd gotten to know this excellent guy who's very well established so he was happy to give that referral. The electrician isn't even listed in the yellow pages, ya gotta have connections *snicker*... We talked about the problems I'd had with people not returning calls and not showing up and he grinned and said "that's why I don't even need to put my name on the side of my truck" - because he has always run his business like a sensible person, he's never hurt for work and never even had to advertise, but unfortunately it makes him impossible to find if you don't know someone who knows him! He gave me a couple of references - more folks from the "construction underground" LOL - to come look at structural issues like the trampoline floors, but I'm going to wait until after the holiday to make those calls. As for the kitty, it's shelter all the way for us. (We drove 14 hours RT to get our dog from a shelter in New York! Hurrah for Petfinder!) We're planning on a young adult instead of a kitten this time. Kittens are always comparatively easy to place but when they're not "cute widdle babies" anymore it gets a lot harder for them, and I'm not really up for kitten-level chaos. I admire the people who can adopt seniors but I just can't do it, even if that makes me a bad person it's the way it is. This is a "one dog, one cat" household; I don't have the energy for too many critters, Goku "overloads" rather quickly, and we want to make sure we have the financial wherewithal to care for all our pets properly. We might be coming up your way cat-hunting later in the summer - we hear there's a good shelter in West Kennebunk and Petfinder is showing a fine selection. (I don't mean that quite as clinically as it sounded!) My DH dug graves as a teenager. (I'm not kidding. He worked in a cemetery.) Not a real useful skill. :-)...See Moreminiscule
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