Basically, my mother is not in the picture and shows no interest for her first grandchild, and it seems as if her mother and siblings have the same feelings. My son is turning 1 in a week and I invited everyone, but no one can go (which no one made the baby shower the year before either). But my aunt is having a BBQ the following day and everyone is going to be there.
My family complains that I am more involved with my in-laws but that's because they actually make the effort to see us and drive to our house.
Should I talk to them about it, or just stop inviting them?