Anyone here have anemia ? I hate feeling like this.
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Does anyone have a kitchen like this?
Comments (19)Yes, we do! I designed our house (it took me years, since I'm not an architect or designer), but if you'll look at the Chesnee linked above by amoore, the middle part of it is very close to ours, and the only one I've ever seen like this--and I looked at a LOT of plans several years ago. If you print the Chesnee and re-lable the rooms as I've called ours, you should be able to follow my lengthy description below and see if any of it is helpful to you. Sorry I can't post a picture. If you cut off everything to the left of the Great Room & BR/Study of the Chesnee, put a patio behind their Dining, only the Master BR/WIC/Bath behind the Garage, move the Garage back and to the right several feet (ours measures 25' x 31' finished inside but I think their measurements would be better), and put the Pantry, Laundry, Mudroom hall with bench & cabinets, up/down Stairs, door to back Patio, Powder Room, and 3 scattered Closets between the 3-car garage and Kitchen/Dining, you've got our basic house with different measurements. Their BR/Study is our Dining Room/Study (used for lots of projects) and has one set of centered 54" pocket doors to the foyer and another not centered set to the GR (so I could fit the credenza on the longer side of this wall). We have a wall between the GR/F and K/EA (Eating Area), with doors on each side of the Chesnee long island--which makes ours a peninsula (although shortened to the same length as the right side of the center island--our island is 4' x 3'--so it's easy to get to our EA). We have a 2-way gas fireplace in the wall between the GR & EA. We have a single 24" sink where they have a double (we put cold canned drinks in ice here when entertaining), a double sink under the window, and an L instead of a U. The cooktop & warming drawer are in the part of the L to the left of where they have the fridge, we have a door to the pantry to the left of the long end of the L (where they have cabinets & ovens on the right), and the oven/MW is just outside the pantry at the long end of the L. Our fridge is recessed into the Pantry. The flow is excellent for all of the main rooms, since the K, EA, & GR can all be accessed from 3 different doorways, and the DR/Study by 2, without traffic jams and with minimal interference, if any, with what's going on in the rooms. On our plan the Porch area is included in our Foyer--which has a closet and bench, Kitchen, Pantry, & Laundry. Our porch is in front of the foyer & kitchen. Our house has an open feel, but the walls block some of the noise, and the doors allow us to close off most areas, which can happen more than you'd think. I also like having walls for pictures! This is a VERY energy-efficient house, so I had to talk DH into even doing 9' ceilings on the 1st floor. With hardwood floors, large windows to get the sun, floor to ceiling slate on both sides of the fireplace, and the 9' ceilings, it's still noisier than I'd like (in spite of rugs & drapery panels) when the whole family gets together. From the kitchen I can easily see and hear what's going on in the GR if I want to, but I need to concentrate when I'm cooking. Otherwise I lose track of what ingredients I've put in, what temperature something should be on the cooktop or in the oven, etc., since I'm preparing a lot of different dishes at the same time. So I need some separation from loud voices in the GR. My #1 requirement was to have a view from the kitchen through what I call the eating area to the back (it's as large as a dining room, but we have another DR, since I do a lot of indoor seated potlucks), with the kitchen on the front. We have an acre treed lot much longer than it is wide and it's angled half-way back, with the house set at the angle and great views to the E, NW & SW. I love our kitchen on the front! The view through the trees in front is great, I can always see when company is pulling up the driveway, if the FedEx, UPS guy, or mailman is coming, I can see down the street to where the school bus picks up and lets off the young grandkids who live with us. I also love being able to look through to the backyard, especially in the fall and winter when I can see through the trees down to the river. When might this kitchen setup not work? If you have small children who will be playing in the back yard and you'd want to watch them while inside prepping meals--but they grow up quickly. If you grill a lot and want the kitchen closer to the back grilling patio. One thing I didn't want was having people coming and going from the outside through the GR or DR, since it can make the indoor seating difficult, but more importantly this causes more wear, dirt, and tear on the hardwood floors and area rugs. So we're happy to have them go from the kitchen through the tiled mudroom hall and out the back door, or through the eating area which has a door to the back hall/back door about where the Chesnee has the wall for the up stairs. I love having the SW breeze blow across the front porch when I'm sitting there--a reason not to have a room block the porch if this matters to you. We also get the SW breeze on the back patio. There are tall oak trees on all sides of the house to block the summer sun. The front porch is 10' x 20'. It would have been 8' deep, but you have to walk across the length of it from the right side to get to the front door, since the lot slopes down to the DR/Study in this area. For us it's better this way with the porch furniture under the kitchen window, but makes the kitchen darker at certain times of the day, although we put 2 SunTunnels in the kitchen that make it fine some of the time. I did medium cherry cabinets which have darkened some--wish I'd done the lighter maple with a glaze that I'd had in my previous place. We had to put our walkout patio and doors on the FRONT of the house in front of the DR/Study which works well due to the way we angled the house on the lot, all of the trees, a pond, and how the neighbor's house/lot are. Our lot shape and contours, wetlands/ponds/river on 3 sides which also forced where the driveway could go, limited septic field location, and neighbors' houses determined a lot of my design. The orientation is less than ideal for energy efficiency due to the back view facing the NW. However, we see the sunrise from the kitchen, the DR/Study gets SE & SW sun year round but is blocked by trees when the leaves are out, the GR gets the sunset, as does the eating area, and the MBR doesn't get much sun, which is fine with DH who prefers to sleep in a room with blackout shades. The front porch entry for guests does not get the stronger winds that can cone from the NW. We love our house. It's not perfect, but we were able to design most of what we wanted into it. This is way more than you wanted to know, but I thought some of it might give you some ideas about thinking of how you will use/live in your house, since you are still in the initial stages of design. Also, we originally angled our house relative to the garage, but then decided to keep the T-shape that we had to cut costs, and turned the entire house & garage to get the views. I'd originally staggered the rooms in the back like you did, but it didn't get us our best views. All of your corners will increase costs, if that matters. You have a couple dozen; we have 8 with our T. Also, you've indicated that you're in zone 5, but I don't see a coat closet by the front door, and not much storage elsewhere, although I realize this is a preliminary sketch. I LOVE our area between the garage and K/EA mentioned above. The 3 closets are for back patio & grill stuff/EA table leaves/DH's many short jackets; cleaning supplies & central vac 30' hose; coats & boots, etc.; and we also have 4 hooks on the wall behind the door to the garage and 6 on the wall above the 5' bench below the upper cabinets in the mudroom/hall. Hope this all makes sense, since I've moved some paragraphs around, and it's getting late. Please let me know if you have any questions. Anne...See Moredoes anyone here hate or regret their soapstone?
Comments (24)Thanks for all the positive responses in response to my opinion on soapstone. Just for the record, I color my gray hair, but I like my jeans very worn in! My only major regret in my kitchen design was that I only found this website after everything was ordered and the kitchen was mostly finished. I probably still would have gotten soapstone though, because if I asked on here, the passionate stoners on here would have swayed me in getting it. I admit, I had some doubts when a coworker told me how soft it was and she said it "chips" easily. I did a little research on the internet and visited a friend who had it in her kitchen, and fell in love with the beautiful veins. DH was 100% against granite- he wanted marble- I thought SS would be a great compromise- and it would fit well with our 100yr old house. Again, I think I should have done more research, I'm still astonished when I read this forum and look at how much people agonize over decisions- maybe I should have done a little more of that with the big purchases- but hey, you live, you learn....See MoreAnyone else feel like this?
Comments (15)I have walked in your shoes, and here is what I did. First, I joined a mommy and me (child) class and met other moms with a child the same age. Even though the class only met one morning a week, a few of the moms and I would get together with the kids and do things together. It felt so good to talk to other women who were going through the same things I was and we talked about all sorts of things. We would go to the park and talk, or meet at each others houses. We would go for walks together just to get out of the house, or get together at a McDonalds to let them play in the balls. We met each others husbands and would get together and barbecue. Some of those friendships have now lasted years as we have each gone on to have more children who attended preschool together (get on waiting lists now) and now the kids are in gradeschools, and several of us are still friends. Even those that went on to other schools and built new friendships...we still keep in touch and are there for each other if needed. As for alone time, we all need some! What we were advised was to get someone to watch the child one evening a week for a short time...like 1 1/2- 2 hours while my husband and I went out and got a bite to eat...just the two of us. Wednesday is great for this since it is mid week. Then perhaps on Saturday mornings, your husband could spend time with his daughter, while you go out to breakfast with your friends, or go get a haircut or work out at a gym. Also, if you have family who can watch your daughter on a Saturday night, it will do you both good to maintain "date night" with your husband. Even a quick movie or dinner can refresh us and give us energy to be better parents. Also, many churches have something called "mothers morning out" and they will watch your child for free. In exchange for the free childcare, like once every 6 weeks, you have to volunteer at the church to help watch the little ones on one of the mornings. The moms who take advantage of this program all take turns. Some towns also have Gymboree made expecially for moms of toddlers...it is an indoor place that has many climbing things for toddlers....it may be set up in a church somewhere in your town, or it may be a permanent business in a shopping plaza, but they also can be a great place to be with a toddler to "get out of the house" and meet other moms with toddlers looking for friends with children the same age, just like you. You will find how important these new friendships are because you are going through many of the same things at the same time with children the same age. They become very important for sharing all sorts of information. Through these friendships, you will build a life that is much more enjoyable. You need these friendships, especially if you do not have family in the area. Also, have a toddler seat put on the back of your bike and take your little one our for bike rides. you both will enjoy the change in scenery and the fresh air. You could also consider a jogging stroller and roller blades for more excercise. Watch the papers (classified) and garage sales as these often show up for sale when someones child outgrows them...we sold ours this way. And last, with a toddler who is having a tantrum...sometimes, by just putting the child in a stroller and going for a walk can help enormously. The fresh air and change of scenery can do wonders. Another thing that helps a cranky little one is letting them splash in cool water. It captures their attention and is very entertaining for them. Just watch them very closely. you can give them some measuring cups, plastic cups etc. Water can be an enormous help to distract them. Another huge help can be to play music and dance with them, or march and give her something to play like the musical triangle, or clickers or something, and march and dance around the house to gether to the music. And last...remember that naps are really important for her. They get tired and cranky, and it helps mom too. The days can be long but the years are sooo short. I wish you the best!...See MoreAnyone have a bed under a sloped ceiling like this??
Comments (46)I like the current color of the bedroom; it's very outdoorsy/seattle. If you use white or cream bedding then either natural wood furniture/end tables like the windows or dark color pieces to contrast would look great. I might just use the rug that's there and move in into the area where the chair (and maybe low dresser) are going to go under the slope. Are there curtains on the closet wall? I can't really tell on my laptop. I might update those with something less contrasty with the walls, or look at some doors. Ikea has great options - their sliding fabric or woven panel screens are really reasonable and look like a deliberate design choice, not just a quick cover-up solution like many curtains on closets do....See Moreelbeeca
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