Pangs of homesickness
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Comments (12)My family were nomads from the time I was very young. It never dawned on me not to be excited about where/when the next move would be. My mother was a real trouper about picking up cats/dogs/cars/furniture and taking it and us to follow my father halfway around the world, handling all the details herself until we met up with him. Our family was very tightly knit, and no matter what the circumstances, and with what she had to make do with or learn to use, our house was always "home" whereever we went. We have lived in houses with grass mat floors, squat toilets, charcoal fired hot water tanks, long eerie drives with tall stone walls, by the sea, in the forests, with convents next door, and abandoned machine gun bunkers across the road. No matter where, it was always just "home" and felt right being there. Then as I approached adolescence, some kind of gene kicked in and I got to the point where each location was so home that I didn't want to ever leave it. I'd made mental promises to myself that I'd always finish growing up, and then move back. Then never did. I have the feeling that now I am where I am meant to be, my father's birthplace, and the little tendrils have wrapped around me and are holding me here now. I don't long so much anymore, but there was a time in my life when each night as I drifted off to sleep, my dream me would go back to those homes over and over. I guess that is one reason I liked Acorn's poem so very much. I really think my spirit did....See MoreMy Name Is John And I Cannot Fry Chicken
Comments (76)"-----Hrmm Pressure Fryer sounds like something I bet Dcarch could make.--" As a matter of fact I had converted a regular pressure cooker into a pressure fryer. But i will not give that much details because it can be very dangerous if you don't have the required understanding of what can happen. First you need to modify the pressure "giggler" to allow for lower pressure built up. Then all gasket material will need to be of material which can withstand around 400F. I even changed the handles to all metal. An oil fire is a very dangerous fire, the cooking should be done outdoors. I am happy with the end results of regular frying, it is not worth the trouble to pressure fry. dcarch...See MoreAnyone ever feel homesick for their previous home?
Comments (58)I have been married now for 15 yrs and have lived in this home we custom built for 10 yrs. The first 5 yrs we lived in a 2 BR, one Bathroom, tiny apt where we shared many precious times. We moved there after getting married in our early twenties. Prior to getting married, we struggled to scrape together $7500 for a down payment on 9 acres of land. While living in that small apt, we payed off they land, saved money, and had our first child, a beautiful baby girl. We also made many special friends. During that time, we also started building a 2400 sq ft home that we contracted ourselves. Not to mention the countless hours my DH and Dad spent plumbing, painting, doing trimwork, etc. We did not see each other much over the yr it took to build our home. When we finally were finished and able to move in I remember the excitement I felt moving the boxes and all the toys from that small apt just a couple of miles from our new home. But once we moved here, I felt isolated. No more neighbors to visit everyday. Only though it was only a couple of miles away, it seemed like 1000 miles, because my life had taken a drastic change. I cried for a couple of months. My DH even offered to sell our home and move back to the apts we loved so much our first 5 yrs together. I knew we had worked and planned so hard for this home to be perfect. We stayed and had a son about 3 yrs after moving to our new home. Now I would never dream of going back to the life I had before, but memories are securely attached in the back of my mind that I will never forget. Our family of 4 would have never made it in the small apt. I find myself now lurking on this website everyday that I discovered while remodeling my kitchen. My husband thinks I am crazy that I spend so much time looking at others visions and dream kitchens. He often makes the comment that I should be thankful for the home we have which will be payed for in just a few years and our kids are still just 8 and 13. I do see things on this website that I love and sometimes even makes me dislike the home I have. I have gained much knowledge on this website, but I also have become more critical of every detail I see. I am glad to read this thread that reminded me to be thankful for the things I do have. I know there are people from all places and walks of life on GW, but you never know what kind of situation they are in. My aunt and her DH have no children and make plenty of money. She has a brother who is basically homeless that moves from motel to motel just to survive. She does help him tremendously, but he lived with her for awhile while she was in the process of remodeling her kitchen. When she got a new frig she cried because it was not what she had envisioned. He just looked at her and said "you can't even be happy with a brand new frig, and I don't even own a frig or place to put one." That opened my eyes to the real world. There are so many people who have lost there life savings in these terrible times we live in. I hope this thread helps everyone on GW realize how thankful we all are to have the homes we live in. I could dream all day of something bigger and better or changed, but I still would not be any happier in life than I am today! Thanks Creekylis for the thread. In time your heart will heal and you will have wonderful memories of your other home!...See MoreOT: Lilyfinch, how are you doing?
Comments (34)Here is the system I have, see pics. Next time I go to Landscape Warehouse I will see what brand they are. You push the sharp black point of the red 2 gal or brown 5 gal per hour dripper into the black 1/2 tube that snakes around the yard. The all black is a plug to stop up a dripper hole you no longer need. The landscape guy says you can use the sharp tip of the metal stake to punch a hole in the 1/2” tube to make it easier to punch the dripper in. Then you cut the narrow tube to reach the plant and secure it with plastic stake. Far end of the long 1/2 line was folded over on itself and zipped tied; they said this is more secure than a cap that could push out over time. The other end goes to the valve. I have 4 garden zones done this way and Rachio knows they are perennials so based on our weather lately it waters them about one a week for 2 hours at a time so the water soaks in deeply. Many people make the huge mistake of dripping every few days for 30-40 minutes, which is a disaster to the plant if the dripper fails since plant won’t have deep roots and will probably die before you realize it broke. My 5th garden zone is for annuals near the porch and a set of patio pots. Rachio knows this zone is annuals and waters them every 2 or 3 days for 45 min. You can’t have water loving annuals and planter pots or window boxes on the same zone as perennials, since you would be forced to water every 2-3 days to keep the shallow roots annuals and planter pots moist enough, thus creating shallow rooted perennials. My annual bed is also a brown copper infused 1/2 inch line with a hole every 12” so the whole line weeps. Copper keeps plant roots from going into the line and clogging it. I also show a pic of my valves with wires coming out of valve that go to Rachio. There is also a pressure reducer (and maybe an anti syphon component?) between water-line and valve. Drip systems require much lower water pressure than what you get coming into the house....See MoreWendy
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