I'm very sorry for your loss. My late husband loved Christmas, too--after five years I still miss him most at this time of year. No, I still miss him every hour of every day of the year. I wish you peace (((lynndale)))

I'm so sorry for your loss. Hugs to you.

Lynndale I am so sorry. I walked in your shoes in 2001. My hubby died suddenly on Thanksgiving. That Christmas didn't exist for me. And truthfully it took several years for me to smile without it being forced. Having grandchildren around who can see right through you. They are what brought me back into the world. Blesd you.

So sorry for your loss.

I'm so sorry.

I am so sorry, too. I can't imagine your hurting heart. It is ok to take these days to remember the many good and BEST times you shared. Sending Hugs and Hugs, and Good thoughts too.

Oh, how awful. I am crying for you right now. This holiday must have been your favorite. I hope you have that one person around you who is best at helping you through this. If they aren't here now, they will come to help or you'll ask for them. Take care and thanks for letting us know.

May you feel God's presence and comfort. I am sorry for your loss. May you be reunited with your beloved in Heaven.

I'm so sorry for your loss.

So sorry for your loss.

I lost my dear brother back in August and it took me the longest time to get into the spirit.

Big hugsl

lynndale, if anyone, at anytime should feel sorry for themselves, it is now, and it is you. It's ok. .....................it's O.K. My Christmas wish for you is that one day, your remembrance of his joy for this season will fill your heart, and you will smile thinking of it. Please feel gentle warming arms of comfort around you.

I'm so sorry for your loss.

Praying that God gives you the strength and comfort you need right now. I am so sorry for your loss.

May the peace that passes understanding fill your heart today.

I hope you feel his love that is with you still, and will be always.

God bless.

I don't have the words except to say may God be especially close to you today.

You have received many kind words here, and I join others in wishing you a peaceful day surrounded by family and friends. Treat yourself gently.

Wow, I'm so sorry for your sudden loss. By all means cry, and cry hard. Don't feel ashamed, embarrassed or that you have to hold back. Make the most of the day with your family. Everyone will feel a loss, but it helps to be around family.

My heart breaks for you on this holiday. May you be comforted by your memories. I hope you have pictures of him sitting around your home. My mom passed away after Christmas on new years day so I sort of know how you feel. Its always hard to lose a loved one at a holiday.

So sorry for your loss and grief.

I too am sorry for your loss Lynndale.

Sue

Another one who lost a husband at Christmas so I can feel your pain. Try to remember the good things and things that make you smile.

(((lyndale)))

I add my condolences and hope somehow this day moves along quickly for you. I hope you have family and friends with you, and I'll keep you in my prayers.

Time heals. Keep thinking of the good times. I'll keep you in my prayers.

It is very tough to lose a loved one anytime but at holidays it must be especially difficult. I hope you have been able to weather through with family and friends. Hugs and prayers.

So sorry for your loss. It is times like holidays that makes everyone missing that "empty chair"....many hugs ((((0)))).

So sorry for your loss. I lost my husband suddenly in 2003. It was in Feb, but the holidays are still difficult. It gets easier, but not easy.

I am so sorry.

Dear Lynndale,

I want to join the others in extending my deepest condolences and comfort to you. I hope that you have the support of family and friends. Never even think of apologizing for your grief and heartache. I agree with holding close those items of clothing or pillow that hold his scent. Cry and cry and talk to your dear husband. Remember his touch, kisses, joy and laughter.

Know that time will ease your heartache, but your grief now is profound. There are no ways to avoid it, nor should there be; but you will find moments and memories that will bring smiles and comfort. Be gentle with yourself and let your family and friends comfort you. Take all the time you need. There are no rules. Many here have traveled the path you are now on. There is understanding balm along the way. I will hold you in my thoughts with tenderness.((((((Lynndale))))))

I am so sorry. I lost my husband of 41 years in August 2013. I think of him many times every day and I miss him a lot. I also know that he would want me to keep on living and do things that I enjoy. I am learning to live as a single person.

I am so sorry! Sending a big hug and urging you to "stop in here" often and let us try to help. Remembering you in my prayers tonight.

I'm sorry for your loss.

lynndale, I am so sad for you. I truly wish there was something I could say or do to ease your pain, unfortunately there's nothing anyone can say or do. Only time eases the pain of such deep hurt. I hope you don't spend Christmas and New Year alone. Feel sorry for yourself? Of course, you have suffered a tremendous loss. Grieve in anyway you want, for as long as you want. Come here anytime and tell us all about him, so many kind people here to listen.

You are in my prayers that you can find peace from your grief. Remember the wonderful things about him, and it sounds like there's a lot to remember. God bless his soul.

My sympathy to you at this time of aching sorrow. Of course you are 'sad'! You will miss your dear husband forever. It can't be 'made right'. You will eventually come out on the other side of this and learn to embrace life in a different way, but that's for another day.

Come 'talk' to us at the KT whenever you wish.

((((LynnDale)))) I am so sorry for your loss.

LynnDale I have thought about you often since you posted and I really hope you are ok. I can't begin to imagine the pain you're experiencing but please know that you are not alone, people do care. Loosing your spouse is one of the most tragic of all losses. There really is no such thing as feeling sorry for yourself when you've lost a loved one much less a spouse. Please come back and tell us how you are doing. I too hope that you've not been alone during the holiday season. (((hugs)))

Please accept my deepest sympathies. Your world is shattered right now, and you have every right to feel shaken. As soon as you're up to it, I would urge you to contact a grief support group. It can be quite beneficial.

My heart and prayers go out to you.

Yes, LynnDale, when you can, stop in and let us know that you got some rest and comfort. But if you didn't, let us comfort you. I too have had you in my thoughts. A grief support group might be helpful when you feel ready. Warmest wishes to you.

I'm so sorry.

Take care of yourself.

(((lynndale)))

I do know how you feel, its so very hard. I lost mine 4 yrs ago and it's still hurts everyday. Check out the grieving forum, many suggestions and help there.

Grieving forum

I am SO sorry...I hope you will seek out some grief support groups in your area. I can only imagine how sad and difficult this time must be for you. I am holding you in my thoughts and prayers. <3

I am so sorry. I have also travelled down that road, and it's harder to do it alone, than with those who care. There are many of us at the Kitchen Table who can fully understand your feelings, and we are here for you. Hugs!

i too want to tell you how sorry I am for you.

I am so sorry for your loss. Feeling sad is a very normal response to the loss of a loved one, and holidays are especially difficult. Sending gentle hugs your way.

I am sorry to read this. (((lynndale))) I hope you find comfort in the midst of this storm.

I am so sorry for your loss.

Thanks to all of you for your kind and comforting words. My 2 dear sons and some friends are helping me get through this. My workplace accessed a caring calendar site that allows friends to select a time to come visit or take me out for awhile. The love and support has been astounding. I am making it and doing ok... Most of the time. Thank you dormouse care and kind words. Knowing others care really does make a difference.

lynndale, I am very glad to hear your sons and friends are helping you. A caring calendar site? Never heard of it, but it sounds completely awesome. And what fab co-workers you have to do this. I'm still thinking of and praying for you. Please try to find one thing to smile about today.......

I'm so pleased to see your update it sounds like you're going through this as best one can.