A Holiday "What Would You Do?"
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Comments (15)Guys DO talk about the same things women do - but generally with other guys instead of women - at least in California. It might be different in NY. However, there is no reason to assume that the husband has any idea of what the wife did - it would be very easy for her to buy clothes for herself or other indulgences that the husband might think she actually could afford. I'll admit that most men have no idea how much women's clothes cost. For example, my boss once told a group of salesmen (who were selling high end furniture) that they should tell their clients, "Anyone can go into a store and buy a dress for $2,000 off the rack, but if you want a couture dress, you would have to go to a special salon and pay $20,000 for a custom dress." I'm not sure if that helped sell furniture, but it does illustrate the concept that prices for common items can vary greatly. She could also have investments that she keeps hidden. It's easier to hide things from men than from women. I think your husband should continue to ride bikes with his friend - and if he feels comfortable in bringing up the subject, he can. He could do it in a round about way - such as asking how his wife is doing. He doesn't have to refer to the article directly. From what you've said, there is little reason to be suspicious of the husband, although that does not mean (yet) that he was unaware of what she was doing. When I used to go bike riding with one friend, he would talk to me about pretty much everything - even about the one time he cheated on his wife. Lars...See MoreWhat would you do with this kitchen?
Comments (32)Hi guys, So, thanks to some suggestions (Lavender, I believe you were the one who inspired me) DH and I made a very important kitchen purchase... we bought a new microwave. Since the microwave was taking up so much space near the stove, and we couldn't fit it on the half counter (and it didn't go with any of our other appliances)... we bought a compact stainless microwave that WOULD fit on the half counter, freeing up a considerable amount of counter space by the stove. Honestly, it has already made quite a difference in opening up the space. Since the other microwave is still perfectly functional, I am hoping to sell it on CL to make back some of the money we spent. We also looked at some shelving options for next to the stove, but were unsuccessful in finding something that would fit in that space and have wheels to move it out easily. I will continue my search online. The shelf would have to be only 20" wide or less, and about 36" tall to be at a nice, functional height. I got a number of requests for more pictures of our kitchen to better illustrate the layout. Yesterday (before buying the microwave), I basically rotated myself counter-clockwise around the room to give you a 360* (or almost) view of the room. Also, to answer the question... our dining room is yellow, but I don't want it to stay that way, lol. For a while, I have been envisioning a "greige" in there, with picture frame moldings and chair rail painted in white. *** I have tried multiple times to post my pics on here. They have been resized but for some reason, they still look HUGE. So, I have just attached the link to my photo bucket album, which has pictures of our kitchen (before and after microwave), our big septic system project which was completed yesterday (my poor yard!) and what our house looks like with our furniture in it. Sorry I couldn't post more direct pictures. Oh, and I think my dog is in there too. Here is a link that might be useful: my kitchen pictures...See MoreWhat would you do--moral dilemma
Comments (56)And good for the sheriff for being honest too! It is as simple as doing for other what you would want done for/to yourself. I rent my house. If someone leaves something behind, I mail it back to them. If they accidentally take something of mine, I expect them to return it as well. I've returned shoes, and entire dresser of clothes ($60 shipping fee! - heavy box!), phone chargers...and I've gotten back face cloths, a Pyrex measuring cup, and soon a knife and a stainless steel mixing bowl will be returned, and I will give those people a vase and a mixing spoon they left. It's really not a difficult thing to think beyond oneself, although it seems to be for many people. Ie: why should someone else clean up after me; leaving something for someone else to take care of. I am constantly picking up trash along the street by my property, mostly liquor bottles ,which is creepy because it's driving only. It makes me nuts (esp. the drinking while driving part) that adults mindlessly assume that someone else will clean up after them - children in adult bodies still needing mommy to clean up their messes. I guarantee these are also the same people who bitch and moan about paying taxes...and then they toss their crap out their car windows, which then requires taxes to pay the town to clean up! Just do for others what you would want done for yourself. If you're not willing to do it, what makes a person think someone else wants to? it's a very immature mindset, and selfish....See MoreTile-what would you do?
Comments (28)Thanks, bry911. The GC did hire a tile guy but it was not his normal tile guy who apparently went up in price. But as I think I mentioned in my cross posted thread, he had his helper at the house ALOT unsupervised. The GC has been trying really hard to keep us within a certain budget but you're right, we're gonna have to put out more $$ for a better job. The mandatory meeting this morning didn't go too well, the tile guy said he can "fix" the issues we pointed out without a re-do but honestly he didn't seem to see what we saw, or didn't want to admit it. He was very surprised when I said the chair rail was upside down. He said that people put the larger part on the bottom section so water can drip off easier. I pointed out that the chair rail is above the shower head so why would water ever be rolling off of it? I emailed the GC after the meeting that I was not confident this could be "fixed" and I referenced the feedback I've gotten here. Thanks so much everyone for giving me the confidence to speak up on a trade I admittedly know nothing about....See MoreUser
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