Adopted by clueless bleeding heart Mom and 4yr old daughter ;)
Mary
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A tribute to my beloved Shasta and Ispahan
Comments (16)I've had to put down two cats this month, Professor Hyssop, who had multiple illnesses and is now buried beneath Professeur Emile Perrot, and my beloved Marlena, who was 21 years old. Marlena was a "blue" like your Zeus. She has a little garden of two Lili Marlena's, Marie Bugnet (because she had silver toes), a Phyllis Bide that climbs into the smoke tree. Marlena raised countess kittens, skunks, bunnies--and human hearts. She hated it when people got angry and would weave back and forth until they lowered their voices. She guarded my showers, she travelled with me, lived in three countries and visited all but five states. I feel completely orphaned, and so, I think, do my remaining 14 other cats. I think the difference between losing a person (except a child) and a critter, is that with people there is always bagagge: good times and bad, hidden agendas, obligations, expectations, things you both coulda/woulda/shoulda done differently. With critters, there's just love and mutual trust. I've lost both my parents in the last 2 1/2 years and four cats, two of whom, Aidan and Marlena, were the rocks to which I'd tied the kite strings of my life (to paraphrase F. Scott Fitzgerald). I was very close to my parents, but I grieve more for my kitties. Thank you, Robert, and everyone else for opening your hearts. I raised Pablo from a bottle. Even now, when he is 10 years old, whenever he wants a little snack or a cuddle, he puts his paws around my neck and sucks on my throat until I find him a "special" or kiss his tummy....See MoreUPDATE: Adopt a Newbie: Part 3
Comments (112)I'm a vegi garden newbie. I built 3 rasied beds, 24'x6'x2' deep, one for blueberries(acid),lingonberries(acid), strawberries, rhubarb, garlic, other perennial small fruit/vegi. The other two beds are for the vegi garden, plus I plan on making a couple of potato planters, and a couple of container tomatoes and peppers for potential overwintering. This will be my 3rd growing season in my first home. the first two I worked on the perennial fruit garden/orchard. These vegis are 100x worse than the fruits, too many options, how can one pick, especially when they all say they are the best? I know I want: Tomatoes (sauce, paste, salsa, fresh, cherry, weird colors[that taste good], I would like both hybrid and heirloom for comparison) Peppers (bells, sweets, hot [no hobanero or hotter]) Sweet Potatoes Okra Potatoes Carrots (some super sweet for raw) Beets Summer Squash/Zuccinni Winter Squash (not too wet, prefer drier) Green Beans Sweet Corn Popcorn Turnips Edimame* (especially fond of) Melons (sweet, any) Basil (pesto) Any other vegi you think I should grow. I would be happy with direction, but truely grateful if someone would adopt me....See More'67-Year-Old Spanish Woman Gives Birth to Twins Following In Vitr
Comments (15)I won't comment much on this woman's situation as I don't know the details. What I will comment on is how it really disturbs me to see the occasional misuse of the system get prime coverage. It casts a negative pall over what is a godsend to a great many people--the ability to have children when reproductive failures occur. This woman is well past the age of acceptance for most (all?) American clinics, but managed to sneak through the system by being dishonest. Unfortunately, in many people's minds it then becomes wrong for clinics to offer such services at all. It leads to attempts to limit or eliminate certain fertility treatments (current push for this in Virginia, among other states). I do feel it was wrong of this woman to lie, and I think 67 is too old. However, I don't claim to know how to determine what age clinics should use as the cutoff for such IVF procedures, nor am I really qualified to judge this woman's actions. We all age so differently, both internally and externally. I am way outside the norm, having had a completely natural (and surprise) pg and birth at age 44. Wishing to give our dd a sibling, we tried again and were successful--until a m/c ended our hopes. And again. And again. And so on. So we turned to a fertility clinic and got our beautiful twins, born when I was 47. Was it morally wrong? I don't think so, but others would disagree. I don't think any of us can really judge such a thing for another. In all honesty, I think the woman in question did not act in the best interests of her children-to-be. My own opinion is that one must be honest and act in the best interests of ALL parties involved. If she feels she did that, then I won't nay-say her, though I admit to doubts :)...See MoreDog killed my daughter's kitty.... I need to whine
Comments (32)Thanks everyone! pecanpie- purr fect pet- LOL love it, funny! flyleft- our local shelter runs a website updated every 20 minutes, they detail photo (usually) age/sex etc and temperment/overview including things like 'not suitable with children' 'used to dogs'. I started looking on the website about 8 weeks ago and when he came up I thought he sounded like he had a great personality. They close for the public at 4.30pm Friday and this was 10 to 5pm Friday. Needless to say we were there waiting at 10.30 on the dot Saturday waiting for them to open! DD clicked with him straight away and when I explained the situation the staff thought he'd be perfect. The funny thing that happened was another different cat came up to DD at the cage door and was all gooey and purring and the staff we amazed as this other cat apparently hates children! LOL my DD is a cat magnet! Bill- siamese? his eyes are quite oriental -and yes flyleft he is a talker. Thanks for all the well wishes! Em and DD...See MoreMary
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