What would you have done?
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8 years ago
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Comments (12)Well, I feel a bit better about not actually doing anything, although I did stay until she retrieved it. We do have light-fingers in the building; memos been have distributed again, to remind all not to leave purses unattended due to the possibility of theft. Nevertheless, just this week, I have seen 5 purses left alone on tables and desks, no one in sight. The washroom incident is the first where I actually saw the owner leave the wallet. I think next time, and I expect there will be a next time, I will say, "Don't DO that!" and ask that she not not abandon her wallet, and I certainly do not want to be responsible for watching over it. Will that be effective? I doubt it....See Morewhat would you have done....
Comments (38)I can agree with just about everything everyone else has said,but......maybe she was a scammer,maybe not.Maybe she had just gotten off work,maybe she hadn't thought of just having part of the script filled.Some people don't know that can be done.I probably would have taken her back to the pharmacy and paid whatever she needed to get the meds,that is IF I had the money myself and tell her to pay it forward. Last summer DH and I drove into town to get a burger but we didn't want to get out and go in the place to eat it.so we drove a couple of blocks down the street and parked in the Post office parking lot on the main street to eat our burgers and watch the traffic go by. We do that sometime,just to get out of the house.LOL Anyway,I had taken DH's burger and fries out of the bag and handed it to him when a woman walked up to the window and asked if we could give her some money to buy something to eat because she hadn't eaten in a couple of days and she was really hungry.I told her we didn't have any cash,which we didn't but that she could have my burger and fries that I hadn't even taken out of the bag.She said,"Are you sure?,and I told her that she was welcome to it.She thanked me profusely and walked on with the burger and fries tucked under her arm.I don't know if she was feeding me a line or not but I do know that the whole incident had an effect on me that I hadn't anticipated.I started to bawl like a baby,don't know why,it just hit me that way.I told DH that I didn't know if she was really hungry or not but I did what my heart told me to do.If she was scamming us then she was the one who had to live with it.All it cost me was a burger and fries that I probably didn't need anyway,and my sweet DH shared his with me! LOL About a month later we were eating in our favorite hometown restaurant and there she sat with a group from one of the local Churches enjoying a chicken fried steak! So,I really don't know if they were treating her or what but as I said,if she is a scammer she will be the one to suffer in the end....See MoreWhat would you have done?
Comments (26)I'm just wondering if the responses by everyone would be the same if it was a well-dressed female who came running up, maybe even in your own neighborhood. And it shows how important looks are these days. No matter what, the gut feeling should not be quickly dismissed. If you're uncomfortable in a situation, get out of there. Period. Even if the person was being chased by a gang and/or had been mugged already, it's your comfort that's most important. I think I would have asked him WHAT DO YOU WANT? at least a couple times to see if there was a reason. If there was such a situation (that he was in trouble) you could always go ahead, call the police and report it. I'm certain your car isn't totally soundproofed so you wouldn't need to open the window to ask or to listen unless you have a hearing issue unstated. I imagine there's even the remote possibility he was mute too but I'd still ask. I think I would be watching the news to see if there was anything (a body found or whatever) or follow up with the police since I'm a curious person and like to know what, if anything, happened, and I definitely would have called the police about the incident, probably while driving away, for personal safety if nothing else. Probably had them on the phone while I was asking what they wanted. If you're scared it doesn't matter if it's warranted or not, you should still get out of there. And maybe reconsider putting yourself in that situation again. There's depressed areas like that all over but that is irrelevant anyway. This incident could just as easily have happened in Beverly Hills so tying it to the depressed area isn't pragmatic. This type of thing CAN and DOES happen anywhere. Sometimes it's innocent, sometimes not. There's people I don't think should be driving alone in certain areas. I'm real uncomfortable with my sister driving alone a lot of the time but you can't even suggest that these days or you're branded "sexist". With the background I have in law enforcement and crime prevention, I tend to ask "what if" often. What if you had a car breakdown at that moment? Couple flat tires, even one? Some people are known to block roads, flatten tires and the like. People are lulled into a false sense of security these days thinking their cars cannot fail them. There's also the well-known planned "accident" (in any area, not just depressed) that happens in all areas. I know people are going to talk about their God-given right to go where they want and when they want, but, what if??? I remember my aunt relating a situation in Houston where people would lie down in the street to get people to stop. The police told my aunt if she's confronted with this situation and couldn't get around the person, don't stop. Drive over the person if you need to in order to get away. I found that interesting. Glad you're safe....See MoreWhat would you have done?
Comments (39)I'm not sure that people are on edge but for sure I think there are far too many people around who are excessively passive in their dealings with others and as a result are too often victimized or taken advantage of. In public, at work, with "friends", etc. I don't suffer from road rage, I don't honk my horn except in extremely dangerous situations with the selfish or stupid things other drivers do (other than a short toot when someone remains stopped too long when a light turns green). But when someone does something that causes a problem of some kind and then pretends like nothing happened, I may say something to let them know that in fact, something did happen and it was noticed. Or if someone tries to pull a fast one (cutting in line, doing something that's not okay in a work or business contact), if you don't speak up, you're giving permission for the selfishness or wrong conduct to continue and that you accept being on the losing end. I won't jeopardize my own safety in the process, nothing's that important. Hard to generalize, it does matter what's involved....See Moregrainlady_ks
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