Buckthorn Removal and Neighbors Property
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Neighbor (from hell) Has Been Vandalizing My Property!
Comments (53)Yes this is an old thread, but extremely relevant; especially in light of Covid and all the insanity it is breeding. I have two nasty neighbors, so I got the luck of the draw. One on each side. The neighbor to the left was syrupy sweet for a few months, but that turned. The neighbor to the right is anal as all get out but feels as if he is entitled to encroach on our property, move things, dig our fence up because he felt it wasn’t level, take deck tiles he agreed to buy from me, but never made good on, mow over my outdoor area rug, and “accidentally“ destroy various things. The man isn’t crazy, just anal and entitled at 50 plus years old. Worse than a toddler. Never apologies or offers to replace what was damaged. I have felt like retaliating in several occasions, but I always pull myself together. My husband is now seeing things more and more. You are not crazy. Those that are calling you crazy must be “that crazy neighbor” to someone else or just plain evil and nasty. There are so many people in the world like this. A person entitled and miserable is extremely difficult to live by. I pray your situation has improved. We are hoping to move in a year or so. I will be sure to pay extra careful attention to the neighborhood and make certain there is ample distance between property lines. I want peace!...See MorePossibly the last chapter on neighbor's oil tank on our property
Comments (12)While we're battling with the Nassau County DOH, which wants to grant all kinds of waivers to the neighbor to abandon his tank on our property, and without proper testing, and while our attorney is busy drawing up he paperwork to haul the neighbor into court, I would like to ask if anyone knows of an independent water testing lab in Nassau County. After reading about MTBE, and questioning whether there are any other chemicals from gasoline which could have invaded the ground water and drinking water, we have decided that it might not hurt to test the water while we cool our heels. BTW, point of interest. I called two tank companies which told me that they have never heard of the DOH allowing the burial of a tank over 1080 gallons (both asked me who this guy knows) and both said that it was our interests at stake here and that whatever we decided to do, we should use someone who is working for us, and not for the neighbor. Of course, both decided that since they work with the Nassau County DOH ALL the time, and were going to call them to find out why they were allowing this, I thought I might get some interesting answers. BOTH have disappeared - never called back and they don't answer my calls. Think there's some interesting stuff going on here?? I have two more to call, and this time I don't think I wil even mention the issues here. As for price, there's about a $1500 difference between abandonment and removal....See MoreNeighbors asking us to landscape our property that borders theirs
Comments (18)I probably would have had a similar emotional reaction to being asked to share expenses of yet another project. Your outrage / irritation is understandable. But when I re-read what you said was in the letter, I can see a different side. He has an odd property on a hillside where you also share a section (the bottom of the hill?). You don't live there yet so he probably doesn't know how to reach you other than by mail. Maybe he was inspired by all of the work on your property so far and he has decided to landscape his hillside. Judging by your drawing it looks like your strange sliver directly relates to his property and your landscaping focus has been on the square section not the sliver. He is asking if you would like to go in together on a cohesive landscape that would make his odd lot and your sliver work well together. And if you are not interested in that option, he is wondering if you would consider selling him the sliver to make the lot more cohesive. All of that said, I would reach out to him and have a conversation. Be honest about not wanting to sell your property sliver. (That's ok! You don't have to sell. No one is going to make you.) Listen to his proposal on the landscape. Maybe what he's asking is not an expensive hard-scape but maybe just planting consistent plants across the hillside to make it all work together. Come to the conversation with your budget limitations. Be honest and let him know that you appreciate the idea of a cohesive landscape but that your budget is already stretched with the landscaping you have already done to your lot. Stand firm, but be polite. You will be stuck living next to this guy. See if you can come to some kind of middle ground where you keep ownership of your lot and you work together to make the properties look good without breaking your budget. My own story: My last home shared a property line with a really nice family. We both had rather boring mailboxes right next to each other. The neighborhood had a rash of basic mailboxes getting knocked over and so our neighbor proposed that we go in together on some kind of masonry style mailbox. We said we thought it was a good idea. Well one day we came home and there was a new double mailbox being built without us having any input on the design or materials. As soon as the mailbox was done, the neighbor let us know how much we owed them for the mailbox. Initially we were really irritated. They should have consulted us about the design and cost up front, but unfortunately they didn't. Honestly I don't think they even considered the possibility that we might not share the same style. Oh well. We gave them the money and enjoyed having a nice mailbox that wasn't quite our style. It was a frustrating situation and I wish we could have worked on a design together, but keeping the relationship friendly was important....See MoreNeighbor flooding my property
Comments (6)Your complaints are understood, but your property is not the least understood. So no one can counsel you about how you might deal with things in a physical way. It's the case that we see lots of misdiagnosing here Not saying it's what's happening, but you pretty much need to corroborate all the claims with photos (including surroundings) so we can understand what's really going on. If they placed the fence on your property, it might turn out to be a gift to you that you can do with as you please. Find out from a lawyer. That's certainly the case with any tree or other plants growing over your property line. Actually, it's unlikely that they would have an interest in the tree portion that grows over the line, and it would be your obligation to remove whatever you don't want. (Which one would presumably keep up with over the years ... not waiting until the situation became horrible.)...See More- 11 years ago
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